Our first of two of our favorite times of the year is almost upon us! For my wife & I April means her pussy is still in play. I can lick it and play with her clit, but no penetration of ANY kind. Nothing, my penis, toys, fingers, even my tongue are all out. The inside of her vagina is out of bounds. Unlike November, when her pussy is completely out of bounds.
Just over a year ago we had seriously thought about going A.O.A (Anal only April) style all year round. While my wife found the idea to be super kinky. She decided that she wasn’t ready give up on her vagina completely.
As things stand now. Three out of four times we have A.O.A. style sex. That one time out of four she wants vaginal sex, but it only lasts for a few minutes before she wants it in her ass. Which is how we almost always finish anyway. After having twins vaginal has become uncomfortable for her and it only feels good for a very short time.
On Saturday afternoon my wife wants to use a heart shaped pastie to seal her pussy closed. Using the vee at the top to leave her clit exposed so I can lick it. Not that it takes much for play these days to get her ass ready. She has gotten to the point now that I can enter her ass “cold” with ease & no discomfort at all for her. Does anyone else have special, kinky plans for this month?Hitman1386, Anal Only Lifestyle forum
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Much of what this blog focuses on is the benefits of anal sex and the anal only lifestyle for women, but there are so many advantages for men as well.
Some women have a strong preference for anal but hesitate to go anal only because they fear that men won’t want to miss out on vaginal sex. The reality is, however, that excluding vaginal and focusing just on anal increases pleasure, arousal, and intimacy for men as well.
In a physical sense, anal provides more sensation, greater depth, and an inability to get pregnant when cumming inside.
Mentally and emotionally, anal is inherently more intimate because it requires more trust and strengthens a relationship by transitioning to anal only.
The bottom line is that there are benefits to going anal only for everyone regardless of their gender and the best way to learn more about it is to try it for yourself for at least a month and see what it’s like in reality.
JennaA: Last month my boyfriend asked me to try going anal only, and I agreed to try it this month because I had seen posts about Anal Only April online. We just started doing anal about a year ago and I had never thought I would been into it at all, but we both really like it now, and my boyfriend really prefers it. I think I prefer it too, but I was always insistent that I wouldn’t go anal only because I like my pussy too.
Anyway, after half a month of anal only, I can see the point of anal only a lot more, and while I still miss my pussy getting attention, I see why it’s nice to not use it and to let it stay horny and get fucked in my ass only. It’s making me much more sexual than I was before and I love it! We haven’t decided yet but I’m honestly open to the idea of staying anal only after April now.
Glad to hear it! It’s a common theme I have encountered over the years: the idea that anal only is crazy and someone would never do that… until she tries it, and realizes how much better it is to be anal only, and after a month or two of just anal, she doesn’t want to go back to vaginal at all.
Enjoy the rest of the month, and definitely keep going after that if you enjoyed yourself in April!
We’re now halfway through Anal Only April, our annual event encouraging people to try going anal only for a whole month to experience what it’s really like to do just anal long-term and discover the benefits of doing so for them.
If you are just discovering this now, or haven’t have a chance to try it yet, it’s not too late to get started! You can either plan on taking part in the next two weeks until the end of April, or you can just get started on a full month right now!
If you have been taking part, don’t forget to check in and let us know how things are going. Updates, questions, and requests for advice are all always welcome from anyone and everyone.
Really curious how AO women handle it when they’re with non-AO men. Do they ever just take your pussy? What would you do if they did?
How do you handle it when they beg for, tease, and want your pussy so bad?
As anal sex continues to grow in popularity and become more widespread, and more women go anal mostly and anal only, an increasing number of women are coming out about preferring not just anal, but double anal.
For some women, it can simply be about preferring more of a stretch and wanting to go larger. An experienced anus can relax open easily and to get more stimulation, a logical transition is to switch to double anal and fit more inside to stretch and stimulate her better.
I do prefer double anal to single anal, because my ass is extreamly flexiable, so with just one cock, my ass tends to stretch very quickly, so after a while I can’t really feel anything. Espesially if I do anal scenes everyday, my ass is always stretched, so if I get a guy with a smaller dick than the guy the day before, theres not a hope in hell that i’ll feel much for the whole scene, which seems pointless to me. The reason I like Double A is because I LOVE to feel the S T R E T C H on my asshole.Isabel Ice, Adult DVD Talk
For others, even if the stretch isn’t needed to enjoy anal, it can be easy to get addicted to the sensation of both men moving independently inside her ass and both physically enjoying the feelings of that and mentally and emotionally being excited by knowing she has two men inside her, pleasuring her and getting pleasure from her both at the same time, together in her ass.
It can amplify the feelings and ideas of being anal only by doing double anal, because it’s not just one guy but two guys ignoring her pussy and sharing her ass together rather than either compromising for something lesser.
What are the reasons that you enjoy double anal?
We are currently long distance and only get to have sex once a week or so. We would like to prepare my arse for being used by him every day without discomfort. Am I better off plugging each day or using a dildo on it every day? I really want to be able to be used at his pleasure once were closer.
My name is Ani, I am 23 female.
I am a vaginal virgin, doing oral and anal sex since 18 years old.
I was born in Transcaucasia in one of post-soviet republics, we are christians but we have a tradition that girls must stay virgin till marriage. Losing virginity before marriage causes scandal and shame, especially in small towns and villages. If a girl loses virginity before marriage, many people will point fingers and call her slut. Also we have a tradition when after the wedding night the groom’s mother checks the bed sheet for blood and if there is blood then she gifts a red apple to the bride’s mother.
After finishing school I entered a university in Russia and came to Moscow for study. Here I got freedom from parents and traditions, of course I wanted to try sex with men here but after study I needed to return home virgin. I wanted to try blowjob only. In Moscow I met my first man, he was 43, he understood the situation and kindly promised me to keep my virginity. I started sex datings with him and I did only blowjob as i wanted and i liked to do it very much. At the fourth dating he said me that I have a great ass and I must do anal sex, also he said that he prefers anal sex this is why he easily agreed to keep me virgin. I did not want to try anal sex but he insisted. First months I dod not like anal sex at all, it was too hard for me but i did it for his pleasure. However I did not want to break relationship because I felt safety for my virginity and also because he helped me financially. My parents are very poor and they could not send me money for living. After about 2 months of intensive anal sex I began to take in ass much easier. After about 2 months more I began to enjoy anal sex. I do not get anal orgasms but I get high excitation and big pleasure. I get orgasms only from masturbation alone and from eating my pussy in sex, but I do not need to get ograsm every time, I like the process of anal sex more than getting orgasm.
After my first man I met other men and I always looked for men who prefer anal sex. Now I live with my groom, he is my 7th man and he is my first love, we plan to marry this year, and I am still virgin. He loves anal sex more than vaginal, and he highly appreciates that I love it too and that I do anal sex so easily. After marriage I will lose virginity but I have no idea about staying anal only. I do not know because i have never tried vaginal sex, but I am sure that anal sex will be at the first place as big pleasure for both and as birth control.
AnnaB: My boyfriend eagerly agreed when I said we should try Anal Only April, and I really love it so far, it makes me so horny and wet to only do anal and ignore my pussy! We’re going to try anal only without touching my pussy at all for the whole month and I really hope it goes well because if it does I’m going to ask him if I can stay anal only!
That sounds like the perfect goal, and he’s a lucky guy to have someone so enthusiastic about anal only!
Vaginal virginity can be a topic of some contention within the anal only lifestyle community at times, with some people very much in favor of women who choose to remain vaginal virgins and only ever have anal sex without ever experiencing vaginal, while others argue that all women should try both before choosing which they prefer. Outlined below are some common arguments from both sides.
Arguments In Favor of Preserving Vaginal Virginity
- The idea of remaining vaginally pure has deep roots in many civilizations and appeals to many people, and this modernizes those ideas to advocate for lifelong vaginal purity and reclassification of the vagina as purely a reproductive organ while the anus becomes a woman’s sex organ
- Many men who prefer anal only girls are extremely attracted to vaginal virgins who have never and don’t want to have vaginal sex, ever
- By focusing on anal stimulation and anal pleasure only, without ever experiencing vaginal, it is much easier to get even more pleasure from anal because there are no habits or connections with vaginal penetration or (in some cases) clitoral stimulation to overcome
- You can always decide later in life to have vaginal sex if you change your mind, but you can’t go back to being a vaginal virgin
Arguments Against Vaginal Virginity
- To make a truly informed decision, someone has to experience everything before deciding what they prefer
What are your views on this subject? Leave a comment sharing your opinion.