Kayla: Hi, I’m 19 and just got into my first real relationship with a guy who really wants to have sex. I’ve never been on birth control, and my sisters have had bad luck with hormonal interactions, but I don’t want to get pregnant. My boyfriend suggested we have anal sex instead, and I found this blog about only having anal sex. Can I just go anal only as a way to not get pregnant? Is that actually safe? Is there anything else I need to know?

Yes, going anal only is absolutely a valid and effective way to avoid pregnancy. There’s no risk of pregnancy from anal sex itself, as long as semen doesn’t come into contact with your vagina — including indirectly from hands, toys, or accidental slipping. Many women choose anal only as their exclusive form of sex for exactly this reason, especially when they want to avoid hormonal birth control. It’s an ideal natural form of birth control!

It’s important to be clear with your partner about boundaries, and to use condoms or get tested to avoid risk of STIs, especially in a new relationship. If you stay anal only and keep your limits firm, it can be a safe and empowering way to have sex without risking pregnancy. You’re not alone in this choice — a lot of women find that it’s not just a workaround, but going anal only is something that they genuinely prefer.

In my teens and early twenties, I strictly denied any and all access to my ass. Today, I’m in my early thirties and live an anal only lifestyle. Rather than dwelling on the time I wasted in my youth, I’d like to offer up some advice I learned along the way. Perhaps it will help some young readers begin their anal only journey before I did. Better late than never though, in my case!

1. Anal Only Does Not Happen Overnight

This isn’t a flip-the-switch transition. Your body needs time to adjust, and so does your mindset. Anal only isn’t just avoiding vaginal sex — it’s creating a new default. You’ll need time to stretch, to relax, and to retrain your response to arousal. At first, it may feel like you’re trying something new. Eventually, it feels like you’ve come home.

Don’t rush. Don’t force yourself. You don’t need to take large toys, or jump to double anal right away. The most important thing is consistency — giving your ass regular attention, and always using it as your only outlet for penetration. Your body will adapt if you give it a reason to.

2. Set Clear Boundaries with Yourself First

Before you talk to a partner, you need to make the decision for yourself. That means closing the door to vaginal sex completely, even when you’re alone. No fingers, no toys, no what-if fantasies. If you’re serious about going anal only, you need to build that boundary into your own habits and desires first.

That clarity makes it much easier to communicate with others, because you’re not negotiating — you’re sharing a truth you’ve already accepted.

3. Don’t Wait for a Partner to Make It Happen

Too many women wait for the “right guy” before they commit to anal only. But the best time to start is before you’re with someone — or even if you’re single. When you go anal only on your own terms, you stop shaping yourself around what others expect, and start building a foundation that someone else can join you on.

You’ll feel more confident, more in control, and more attracted to partners who actually match what you want.

4. Use Tools and Training with a Purpose

Butt plugs, dilators, toys — they’re all helpful, but only if you use them intentionally. Start small and go slow, but stay regular. Daily or near-daily plug wear (even just 30 minutes at first) can do wonders for building flexibility and comfort.

Choose toys based on what your body can handle comfortably with a little stretch — not what looks impressive. And always listen to your body. Discomfort is a sign to pause, not push.

5. Emotional Shifts Take Time Too

I didn’t expect the emotional rewiring that came with this shift. It’s not just about sensation — it’s about changing how you relate to your body, your boundaries, and your idea of sex itself. Letting go of vaginal sex was surprisingly freeing, and it brought me a kind of calm I never expected. Sex is no longer tied to fear of pregnancy or unwanted expectation. It’s something I fully choose. Don’t be surprised if this shift brings up feelings you didn’t anticipate. That’s part of what makes it real.

2InA: My girlfriend and I haven’t ever had vaginal sex, we started with anal when we got together and just went with it. We got into anal porn together early on, especially double anal. She started talking during sex about how good it would feel to be stretched by two cocks. She’d say things like “I wish there was another cock my ass right now too”. We started experimenting with toys: me pushing a dildo into her ass while fucking her, moving both together or alternating. The more we did it, the more it became part of our regular sex life.

About six months ago, we invited our roommate to join us for double anal. He’s someone we’re good friends with, trust, and who also loves anal and DAP from our conversations and when he’s seen us watching porn on occasion. It was supposed to be a one-time experience at first, but it felt so good. Since then, he’s been joining us for double anal a couple times a week. My girlfriend has taken to it in a way I didn’t expect, while it feels great for me, she goes wild with it and cums harder than she ever has before. Both our cocks in her ass gives her something that single anal just doesn’t.

Today she told me she wants to go double anal only. No more single anal, no more just me inside her. She says it’s not about me — that she still loves me, still craves me — but that her body and mind feel more complete, more satisfied, more truly taken when she’s being fully stretched by both of us. She wants the three of us to be in a relationship together and to only do DAP.

I’m not insecure about sharing her. We’ve already done that. But I do feel kind of weird about the idea of never again having her ass to myself. No moments where it’s just me inside her, just the two of us, just that simple connection. Do you have any suggestions? I know you’re going to push us to go double anal only since that’s a big part of your blog, but how can I wrap my head around it better?

You’re right — I am going to encourage you to go double anal only. Not because it’s a rule, or because it’s what I prefer. It’s clearly where your relationship is already heading, and your girlfriend isn’t just craving DAP as a novelty. She’s thriving on it. Her body, her orgasms, and her words are all telling you exactly what she needs. You’re not losing something. You’re seeing the next evolution of what you already started together.

It’s normal to feel something about the idea of never having her ass only to yourself again. That’s not weakness, it’s just adjustment. But think about where you’re actually at: you built your relationship and sex life on anal only. Double anal isn’t a threat to your connection — it’s a deepening of it. You’re not being replaced. You’re part of what makes her feel even more complete.

Try reframing it like this: when you were the only cock in her ass, you gave her everything she could handle at the time. Now that she’s ready for more, she’s inviting you to be part of that with her. Don’t step back, step in. The relationship doesn’t shrink when another cock joins yours in her ass, it expands. The trust gets stronger. The bond gets tighter.

If you still want moments of one-on-one time, you can do so through oral sex, or perhaps still having some cock + dildo sessions or even working her up to taking your cock and fist at the same time if your roommate isn’t available to join in.

This isn’t about replacing connection — it’s about completing it. Together in her ass, always. Always full. Always shared. That’s what anal only becomes at its peak — and you’re already there.

Amy: Hi, I’ve been anal only for the past year and a half, and at first my boyfriend was really into it. We had amazing sex, I was stretching regularly, and we even do double anal using toys. He said it was the hottest sex we’d ever had.

But lately, he’s been asking if we can “mix it up” and have vaginal sex again. I told him that I’m committed to anal only, that I don’t get anything out of vaginal sex anymore, and that I don’t want to go backward. He said he understood, but I can tell he’s disappointed, and it’s starting to make me feel guilty. Should I give in once in a while just to make him happy? I really don’t want to.

It can be normal for some people to want what they don’t have and if he feels like vaginal is off the table he may be feeling the desire for it again to either “establish dominance”, even subconsciously, or to just try it again. I’m of mixed feelings about the best response here—it’s clear that you don’t want vaginal, and that’s completely reasonable. Sometimes, though, it can be valuable for people in that state of craving to try vaginal again only to discover how truly inferior it is to anal, and it strengthens their resolve to stay anal only going forward. It gets rid of the fantasy through cold, hard reality: vaginal just isn’t that good.

I would suggest talking with him about other ways you could compromise. Are there other fantasies he might want to explore instead? Tell him you want to keep your vagina unused going forward but you’re open to trying other things with him that he’d like. Does he want to do double anal more often? Would he like to start sharing your ass with a friend for some real DAP? Ass to mouth? Piss play? Physical chastity for you? There are all sorts of things to explore without using your pussy at all. Vaginal sex will just hold the two of you back.

Vaginal sex is often assumed to be the “default” form of sex by most of society. It’s what most people are taught, what most couples focus on, and what mainstream culture reinforces as the norm. Anal sex, in contrast, is usually seen as something extra — something taboo, deviant, or advanced.

But when we step back and actually examine the role of each, both physically and emotionally, it becomes clear: anal isn’t just an option — it’s the more natural choice.

Reproduction Is Not the Modern Standard

Vaginal sex is intimately tied to reproduction — and that’s why it became the standard. For most of history, sex has been fundamentally about getting pregnant and having children. But most modern sex isn’t about reproduction. It’s about connection, pleasure, intimacy, and release. If pregnancy isn’t the goal, the justification for vaginal sex disappears. Anal, by contrast, doesn’t carry the risk of pregnancy. It’s a deliberate choice for pleasure only. And when done consistently, it becomes not just safe, but intuitive. It’s no longer something extra — it’s everything.

The Body Adapts to What You Choose

The anus is surrounded with a dense cluster of nerve endings and responds quickly to touch, pressure, and arousal. For many women, anal penetration leads to deeper physical satisfaction and a more intense emotional release. With regular practice, the body adapts: relaxation improves, natural lubrication increases, and orgasms become stronger.

Some women even report developing an automatic response to arousal where the anus becomes their primary sexual focus — feeling a tingling sensation of desire, and the ability to orgasm intensely without any vaginal involvement or clitoral stimulation. That’s not strange. That’s how the body responds when something feels right.

Vaginal Sex Is Often Less Stimulating

While vaginal sex is normalized, it doesn’t necessarily offer the best experience — for either partner. Many women require clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm during vaginal sex, and for some, that stimulation can cause a sudden drop in arousal or even depression symptoms after orgasm. Anal, in contrast, often creates a more full-bodied experience: intense sensation, deeper pressure, and stronger orgasmic response — frequently without needing additional stimulation.

Men often report tighter grip, more friction, and more intensity during anal penetration. It engages both partners more fully, drawing out a more primal and passionate dynamic that’s hard to replicate in any other form of sex.

Anal Is a Chosen Connection

Vaginal sex is expected. Anal sex is chosen. And that difference matters. Anal requires communication, focus, patience, and commitment. It builds trust. It amplifies intimacy. It becomes a shared experience that’s deeply physical, deeply emotional, and deeply personal.

It’s not just about how it feels — it’s about what it means.

When partners commit to anal only, they’re not just choosing a sexual act. They’re choosing a deeper kind of relationship. One that’s intentional. One that’s disciplined. One that is centered around mutual desire and total clarity.

Natural Isn’t What You’re Born With — It’s What You Choose

You may have a vagina, but that doesn’t mean vaginal sex is natural. What’s natural is what is best for your body, what your mind responds to, and what your relationship thrives on. Anal only isn’t unnatural — it’s focused. It’s primal. It’s passionate. It’s a higher standard of intimacy. And for many of us, it’s the most natural sex we’ve ever had.

Anal Obsessed: I saw your post about Vicky Sol, and I think it’s great that you promote more anal only content here, you should feature other stars, maybe double anal only stars next too.

On the note of promoting anal only porn—I’d be curious if anyone can recommend any audio or literary porn that promotes anal only, double anal or clit denial, or even anal only hypno videos, I’d be very interested!

Lastly can I just say I appreciate the more frequent updates here! Keep up the amazing work, I love reading your site while stretching my ass and ignoring my clit.

Thank you, I’m glad that you enjoyed it. I would love to feature more anal only/double anal only stars but I’m not familiar with many who are strictly AO/DAO.

We do have an Anal Only Porn Stars post that stays semi-updated, and also a list of Anal Only Stories.

I hope that you continue to ignore your cunt and clit permanently.

Felicja: I’ve been following this blog for a while now, and I noticed that the old posts weren’t as anti-vaginal as new ones. I mean you used to allow clitoral or vaginal use, but now you are in favor of ignoring the vagina completely. Even remaining a vaginal virgin for life and getting pregnant without using a vagina is promoted.

Where does this great change come from? What has made anti-pussy radicalism grow in strength? Is this the only way to completely denormalize the use of vaginas and clits among girls?

There’s still a very wide variety of ways people implement anal only in their own life, and whatever works for you is great. But, as the past decade of anal only enthusiasm and advocacy has evolved, more and more people do prefer stricter implementations of anal only: no vaginal penetration at all, and preferably no clit stimulation. And with that growing in popularity, there isn’t much reason to cater to the pussy. Why not strive for the ideal if possible?

I think as more people have tried anal only they’ve learned that pussy just holds them back and moving past it completely causes better pleasure, arousal and enthusiasm for greater anal joy.

In a porn landscape where anal is increasingly the norm but almost every girl is still expected to do vaginal as well, Vicky Sol has carved out something different — and something much more meaningful to anal only devotees. Quietly, consistently, and with increasing intensity, she has built a career defined not by compromise, but by clarity: it’s anal only for her.

From her early days in Greek amateur porn to LegalPorno/AnalVids, Vicky Sol has become a living icon of the anal only movement — and a very dedicated double anal devotee.

Her Career: Anal from the Start

Born on June 14, 1989, in Greece, she began her adult film career in 2010 under the alias Elli, appearing in Greek productions such as Oi Xaderfes and Ellinides Nymfomaneis. These early works showcased her anal preference and aside from brief moments of vaginal penetration in two early scenes, she was nearly anal only from the start. By 2019, she had adopted the stage name Vicky Sol and transitioned to international platforms, notably collaborating with producer Giorgio Grandi on LegalPorno/AnalVids, where she shifted her focus to double anal penetration in almost every scene going forward.

To date, Vicky Sol has filmed nearly 50 anal only scenes, with almost 30 double anal scenes and at least 1 triple anal scenes under her belt — and not a single vaginal scene recorded after her first few years. While she may not hold the record for the most DAP scenes, her more recent focus on it and her unwavering dedication to anal only sets her apart.

The Anal Only Standard: A Call to Action

Vicky Sol’s career proves that vaginal sex is not necessary for erotic power, pleasure, or pornographic success. She’s not the flashiest performer, nor the most extreme — but her consistency is what makes her legendary. She chose anal. She stuck to it. She made it her brand.

Now it’s time for others to follow.

If you’re a performer: you can say no to vaginal. You don’t need to open every door just because someone expects you to. You can do only what you love — and if what you love is anal, then do that. Commit to it. Build your brand on it. Become a true anal only performer.

If you’re a fan: stop settling for vaginal porn. Don’t accept “just a little pussy.” Support the stars who give you exactly what you want — anal only, no compromise, no apologies. Let producers and performers know: the future of porn is anal only, and we won’t settle for less.

And if you want to help reshape the industry?

• Only buy anal only scenes.
• Skip anything with vaginal sex.
• Promote the women who live anal only — like Vicky Sol.
• Make it clear: we don’t want pussy.

We want more women who choose what Vicky has chosen: to never do vaginal again. To be anal only for life. Porn is changing. And with your support, it can change even faster.

Let’s make vaginal sex obsolete — in porn and in life.

Anonymous: What do you imagine the next 10 years of anal only will look like?

I’ve been scrolling back through older posts from years ago on this blog and it’s exciting to see how much the community and the wider world has developed in that time! Double anal has gone from an extreme niche kink, to being in my opinion, the new standard vanilla sex replacing vaginal and single anal. Not to mention the wider acceptance of anal only as a birth control method, the popularity of ass to mouth and rimming as the primary form of oral and the rise in anal only clit denial and anal only edging ideas. I’m curious what will be next!

What will be next? Triple anal only?

There has been quite a lot of development in the anal only community and the greater global embrace of anal, double anal, and more in the last decade. The anal only lifestyle has become ever-increasingly popular. Double anal is a staple in porn, and an ever-growing number of real people are exploring it, regularly enjoying it or going double anal only.

However, it’s still definitely a minority of people that are anal only, and a fraction of them double anal only. What has grown is the increasing normalization of anal—most women aren’t anal only yet, but most do anal and consider it a regular part of sex.

While an increase in popularity of triple anal and beyond on the more extreme end of things is likely as well, where I see the next decade is in the further denormalization of vaginal sex and more widespread adoption of the anal only and double anal only lifestyles. Newer generations will go straight to anal only and avoid vaginal altogether, for greater pleasure and more guaranteed birth control.

Butt plugs are already popular, but more and more they will become a standard daily activity for women, and larger plugs will gain popularity over just small jeweled plugs.

The idea of staying tight for anal enjoyment will begin to fade away in favor of bigger stretches and more of a large toy, fisting, multi-anal penetration (DAP, TAP, etc.) focus will take its place with greater pleasure and opportunity for everyone. Gape is good!

Clit stimulation will further fall to the wayside as pure anal orgasm becomes increasingly common and the downsides of clit orgasm are further understood, and women embrace a deeper focus on pure anal only.

In the coming decades, anal only, double anal only, and beyond will move from rare personal preferences to increasingly being cultural norms. The next decade is going to be all about spreading the lifestyle and making it the new normal.

Jessica: I’m a 23-year-old woman and about two months ago I discovered a passion for anal with my current boyfriend. I’m even considering going anal only, as it seems to be a normal choice for some couples. While exploring, I’ve noticed a lot of content related to double anal penetration on this site and across the internet, and honestly, I feel a bit overwhelmed by how much double anal content there is. I’m also worried that there could be a lot of fake or exaggerated information out there. I’m curious—are there really women who engage in double anal outside of porn actresses?

Are there any real-life stories, communities, or links that document or discuss real women’s genuine experiences with double anal? I’d love to hear from people who have done this or know more about it.

Thank you for your message — it’s awesome to hear that you’re discovering a passion for anal and even considering going anal only. That’s a huge and positive step toward building a more focused and satisfying sex life.

It’s understandable that the amount of double anal content can be a bit overwhelming! Double anal is definitely growing in popularity and having quite a moment right now, with a lot of interest both in and out of porn. While no one can really tell what content is real vs. fantasy, I can tell you: yes, absolutely, real women outside of porn engage in double anal, and it’s growing in popularity rapidly. It’s not just a performance for cameras, it’s something more and more women choose for themselves — because it feels good, because it pushes their bodies to new levels of pleasure, and because it deepens trust and connection with their partners.

Here on the blog and in the greater anal only lifestyle community, there are plenty of real-life stories. Many women who start out as anal only eventually develop a natural craving for more fullness, and double anal becomes the next evolution. It’s often a gradual process — starting with toys, stretching, double penetration with dildos, and eventually moving toward two cocks if and when it feels right.

It’s not something you need to rush, and may not even have interest in—it’s not a requirement. It’s something that some women grow into when their body and mind are ready. And for many, once they experience it, it feels not extreme, but natural — like the way anal was always meant to be.

But keep enjoying the anal joy and pleasure and if you have any questions about going anal only, please reach out!