Even among the more experienced anal lovers and anal only enthusiasts there are those who are hesitant to try performing oral sex after anal sex. As such, there are many who miss out on the joys and benefits of doing ass to mouth!

Common concerns include fears that it is unhygienic and unsafe, or that it’s unpleasant and will taste bad. However, so long as you take basic precautions to have clean anal sex and only perform it on partners who have penetrated yourself, there are few health or safety concerns. Similarly, most people who do it find that it actually tastes really nice when clean and genuinely enjoy doing it.

Ass to Mouth is Sexy and Fun!

For many people, the appeal of ass to mouth is that it really turns them and their partner on. Part of that can be due to its perception as something that not as many people do, while another aspect is the general appeal of sexual openness and open-mindedness, where someone willing to put their partner’s penis in their mouth after it’s been in their anus becomes more attractive and appealing as a result.

A lot of women who start doing it say that it makes them feel sexier and turn them on, so it’s not just about pleasing your partner—it can be lots of fun for you too!

It Can Taste Great Too!

The taste and flavor, despite what one might expect, is actually very good if you’re clean. It can have an earthy and sweet taste to it, and women who do it regularly find themselves getting addicted to it, not just to the sexy and slutty act, but to the flavor itself.

It Boosts Intimacy Further

Anal and going anal only already relies heavily on trust and results in significant increases of sexual intimacy as a result, and ass to mouth just takes that a step further, with a very open expression of acceptance of one’s own body and of each other as you share even further by adding oral after anal into the mix.

Hi – from Wales, in the UK (until Wales gets independence that is!)

I’m a woman in my late 60’s, bi and have been widowed and then living alone (by choice) for many years now. Life has shown me that I only have loving relationships with other women and since being alone I’ve realised that I don’t want to have another relationship – my life of love was full and I do not seek more…

But – I still have a body which annoys me with its wants, and I did spend several years on the swinging scene – just for physical gratification, nothing more. Out of that I found that my interests and desires were slowly converging towards just one want…

First I found that I just wanted to be fucked by men, with no romantic or emotional content at all – I loved just being taken and used, and coming home wet with their spunk…

In time I realised that I was drawn far more towards anal, and then wanted just that – anything concerned with either vagina or clit just turned me cold…

I can’t quite explain it, but I expect that you all understand – the whole aspect of anal just became the single core of my desires – going out knowing that I was going to give myself to someone – being taken – the enjoyment of being used – and (yes, dangerous, I know) the all-consuming desire to be gifted with a load of hot, wet, live spunk up me, delivered deep into my rear end…. to walk around later knowing that somebody’s sperm was swimming up inside me… (I always tried to keep it inside all night…)

Well, the years have passed and I haven’t been active for quite a while – age hasn’t been kind to me and I’m no longer the desirable young thing that I once was… but when I lie alone in my bed, the craving is still there, to feel some stranger’s cock thrusting up inside me and delivering that wonderfully rewarding load of cum…

Anyway – that’s how I’ve ended up here – too old to do much about it, but hoping to at least find some like-minded souls to talk to, and to just be able to share thoughts that I can’t share with anyone else….

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It’s very primal and taboo. I’m submissive so, I really like how vulnerable I feel when someone wants to fuck my ass. Also, to know that my partner is enjoying the tightness of my asshole brings me even more pleasure. Anal is more intimate, requires more communication and trust, so that brings partners closer together. At least for me but, I don’t have any sort casual sexual or intimate encounters. So my experience may be different from people who are more sexually open.

Limited use of my vagina keeps it tight so, I feel more “pure”. That’s a benefit of anal as well.

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Anonymous: Dear Sir

I wrote to you last June asking for advice on becoming anal only for my Master. First, a huge thank you. Your advice was great and i am officially an anal only slut since April. It feels amazing to say that and my Master is so proud of me. Second, i would like to get your opinion on something. What is your stance on orgasms in the anal only lifestyle? My Master never allowed me to orgasm freely and always made sure i earned it. But since i am anal only it feels wrong to ask for clitoral stimulation (my only way to orgasm). I still want to orgasm but it just does not feel right. Do you have any advice?

Thanks for your guidance and your blog. 

humbly honey 

Thank you for following up! You’re quite welcome, and I’m glad to hear that you have decided to officially go anal only and are loving the experience! Ultimately, that’s what matters most, that you and your partner want it and are happy with it, and if so, then by all means, being anal only is what you should do!

As for orgasms, I’m all for them personally, but each person has their own individual preferences and goals. Excluding clit stimulation can certainly help with amplifying anal pleasure and arousal even further, and if that also works with your dynamic of orgasm denial, then I encourage continuing to explore it further. You may discover that after an extended period of time without clit stimulation, you can start to orgasm from anal penetration on its own!

This is a topic that has been discussed in detail before, but as the community and the world continues to evolve, the primary reasons for anal sex and the anal only lifestyle can evolve along with it. These are some of the common reasons people commonly cite more recently as motivations to be anal only:

Anal is more pleasurable

For some people, it’s as simple as this. They get more pleasure and arousal out of anal sex than they do vaginal, and even if they may still have urges for other sorts of stimulation, they find that sticking with just anal sex amplifies their pleasure and keeps them horny for more sex.

Anal is more dominant/submissive

For others, it may be that anal is less pleasurable but it puts them in a dominant or submissive mindset that amplifies their emotional enjoyment of sex beyond just the physical, and that can overcome less physical sensation, or enjoying it physically less can in fact make them enjoy it as a whole more.

Being anal only subverts societal norms

Some get similar pleasure from both but enjoy the fact that not having vaginal sex and only doing anal is different from societal norms and makes them different in a special way they can share with their partner or even just enjoy on their own. This can come with additional benefits like not needing other forms of birth control, etc.

What are your reasons for being drawn to anal only? Are these representative of you, or is there another reason? Leave a comment sharing your perspective!

For some moms, anal sex is still a big ol’ mystery they might be ready to solve…and for others, well, they’re pros

No matter how you like your salad tossed, there’s a mom out there who’s done it and is ready to help anyone who’s curious about…”butt stuff.” Anal sex and foreplay are a very common part of the bedroom scene for many couples — and sometimes, you don’t even need a partner to enjoy it!

Some moms are very into it — these are the pros. The people who know exactly how to utilize their rear in the right way. Some moms are more novice and are just exploring their own curiosity about what you do, how far you can go, what they like, what’s a big NO, etc.

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Anonymous: When I have anal sex or use a butt plug, it stings and continues to whenever I try anything for a few days. Do you have any suggestions so I can try anal more often without it hurting?

It sounds like you may need to warm up a bit more, starting with lots of lube and gentle massage to gradually work your anus open with fingers, then progressing to a small toy. If it stings, you may be tearing it slightly by going too quickly.

Once you get to where you can use a toy without it stinging, try using it regularly, at least part of each day, and that will help you to stay relaxed and warmed up without risking injury. Even a minor injury can become irritated and last longer if it keeps happening or isn’t allowed to heal, so do what it takes to warm up without pain and you’ll enjoy long term satisfaction of anal sex!

In an excerpt from an article on sexual trends, it appears that Gen Z is far more enthusiastic about anal sex than previous generations, showing that the trend of anal normalization is continuing:

But when it comes to type of sex, Gen Z is outdoing every other generation with anal sex: 37 percent of respondents, overall, report having anal sex once per week or more, whereas over half of Gen Z respondents (55 percent) report having anal sex once per week or more. In fact, according to the survey 52 percent of baby boomers have never had anal sex whereas only 19 percent of Gen X respondents and 20 percent of millennials have never had anal sex.

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Are you someone who enjoys anal sex and the anal only lifestyle and practices it yourself in your personal life? Has going anal only changed your life for the better and made your sex life more rewarding and fulfilling?

Why not talk about it with your friends as well and encourage them to try it too? If they haven’t tried anal yet, give them advice on how to do it properly. If they enjoy anal regularly but also do vaginal, have them try a month of anal only to start learning why it’s better to be anal only rather than just doing anal along with vaginal.

In the end, you’ll not only help others discover the joys and benefits of anal only, you’ll have a group of friends who can all support each other in your collective anal only life.

It’s always a sad day when one of our anal only challenge months ends, because they can tend to be a whirlwind of fun activity as everyone gets involved and builds off each other’s enthusiasm for sexual exploration and the anal only lifestyle to all support and encourage each other to go anal only together, but it’s also a time for celebration for all those who made it through a month of anal only and came out the other side no doubt improved in various ways.

If you’ve stayed anal only all month and found yourself really enjoying it and not especially missing vaginal sex, don’t let this be the end. Keep the streak going, see how far you make it, or even just commit to long term anal only if you feel that’s what you now want. If a month of anal only feels great, think of how amazing two or three months, six months, or a year and beyond will feel! It just keeps getting better.

If you are just discovering this now, or haven’t have a chance to try it yet, it’s not too late to get started! You can start your own month-long anal only challenge at any time!

Don’t forget to check in with us now that the month is over and let us know how your Anal Only April went, what your experiences were, what you learned, and whether you plan on continuing with long-term anal only going forward!