Category: Anal Only Lifestyle


Message: Anal Multiple Times a Day

Anonymous: Hello. I’ve been with my husband for about three years and a half now, we’ve been married for about two years. When we met, I had never done anal, but he gradually introduced me to it. At one point, we were doing it quite often (every time we had sex, in fact), and that’s when he confessed to me that he was anal only, and that he only did vaginal sex with me in hope it’d change and I’d agree to switch to anal only with him. I tried anal only for a few months, and I finally agreed to switch. He asked me for marriage very shortly after that (I was 28), obviously I agreed (he’s gorgeous, I’m very much in love, and I really enjoy anal). It was a bit strange to think I’d nearly have no vaginal sex for the rest of my life, but eventually it became normal to me.

My husband is a blue collar worker, and he’s usually very tired when he comes home from work, so we generally fuck about three to four times a week. With the virus outbreak, however, we’re both trapped home, and he’s fucking me every day – several times a day, actually, up to four times a day. It’s to the point I woke up in bed several times with his cock deep inside my ass, plowing me while I was asleep. I’m not used to this at all, but I don’t want to turn him down: sex is a very good way for him to get the stress out – so far, everything is going fine at home despite the situation, and I want it to stay that way. I tried getting him off with blowjobs, but he’s always going after my ass no matter what.

What could I do to avoid being sore, and to be able to take it all? Apparently, this crisis will last for quite some time, and I’m not sure I’ll be able to provide anal sex at that frequency for that long. So far, I don’t feel sore and I’m having pleasure, but I’m a bit worried. Are there creams I could use? Will I gape permanently? My husband marvels about the gape I have lately and he jokes about it, but I’m worried about my ass not being able to close properly in the long term. How could I increase my sex drive to get closer to his? I talked to him about it a bit, and he told me to stop touching myself (I still touch my clit during sex, even if it has always annoyed him) – would that change anything?

Thank you for your work and for your answer.

Thank you for sharing, and it sounds like you have a great anal only relationship. Well done to the both of you for being able to make it work.

Daily anal, even multiple times a day like you’re doing right now, can be entirely manageable and safe, so long as your body is ready and adjusted to it. If it doesn’t hurt and you aren’t sore, then there’s nothing really to worry about. Listen to your body. If you start getting sore, maybe try a little less for a couple days. But really, once you get to where you can have anal four times a day every day, or more, without pain or significant soreness, you should be able to keep doing that indefinitely. Yes, you will likely relax more as a result and have a bigger gape, because your ass is staying more warmed up, but that is not a bad thing and if you take a break from it, it will get tighter again. And remember, being warmed up and relaxed does not mean being loose. It just means that you’re more flexible and elastic and need less preparation. It sounds like your husband appreciates you being warmed up and gaping, so it’s not a bad thing at all! It won’t harm you, so long as you aren’t injuring yourself, and if it doesn’t hurt, you aren’t.

As for higher sex drive, definitely try going without clit play and focusing on pure anal pleasure. If you can orgasm just from anal, try doing only that going forward. If you can’t, try to learn by going without clit stimulation for a while. Or if you really need to cum, use your clit the last time you have sex at the end of the day only. You could also try edging with your clit but not using it to actually orgasm.

Good luck to the both of you, especially in this trying time. With any luck you’ll be able to use the time to get closer and further develop and improve your anal only lifestyle in ways that you’ll both be able to enjoy for the rest of your lives!

Signaling Your Anal Only Status to Others

A topic that comes up from time to time is how to best non-verbally signal your status as anal only to other people and find potential new partners who share an interest in an anal only lifestyle.

Some of the ideas that have been suggested include:

  • Tattoos or temporary tattoos which say “ANAL ONLY”. These are often explicit enough that people put them on more hidden parts of their body, rather than something visible in public.
  • A symbol, which could be used as part of a tattoo that’s less obvious except to those in the know, or on jewelry like necklaces, bracelets or anklets, as well as in the written form like on dating sites. The symbol commonly used in this community is the circled asterisk: ⊛

Of course, you can always be more open and up front as well, talking with potential partners about your desire, which introduces more people to the idea who may not have considered it on their own but may be open to it once they hear about it.

What are your thoughts on this topic, and do you have any other ideas of your own to share? Please leave a comment if so!

Anal Only April 2020

Craving something new? Why not go anal only for a whole month? Challenge yourself to Anal Only April.

First announced a few weeks ago, Anal Only April 2019 has now officially begun! Read through the earlier post for the full details, but in essence, it’s a challenge for you and any partners you may have to only have anal sex for the entire month, as an opportunity to explore the anal only lifestyle without a long-term up-front commitment.

If being anal only intrigues you, here’s your chance to try it for yourself. If you’re already anal only, take it as a month of celebration and as much anal sex, masturbation and butt plugging as you can manage, or an opportunity to explore a new twist on the anal only lifestyle that you’ve been fantasizing about or are curious to try. At least one long-term anal only woman is making this Anal Only April a “double anal only” month!

As always, if you plan to participate, let us know and share your experiences and questions throughout the month and beyond. After all, most people who try going anal only for a month or two at first find that they don’t ever want to go back to vaginal by the time their trial period is over!

Read the full rules and details of Anal Only April

Share the Anal Only Lifestyle With Friends

With Anal Only April coming up in a few days, it’s an excellent time to remind everyone that the anal only lifestyle isn’t just something that you should enjoy on your own—it’s also something that you can open up to friends about, if you’re comfortable doing so, and share the benefits with them too.

We live in a time where a growing number of people really love and enjoy anal, but many haven’t yet considered the idea of going anal only, and may not even realize the many benefits that can come from the lifestyle and choice to replace vaginal sex fully with anal.

With so much differing information out there, comments, advice and encouragement from friends about anal and anal only can hold more weight and actually inspire those you know to give it a try.

Especially now, in a world increasingly spending most of its time indoors and in isolation for the foreseeable future, existing couples have a lot of time together on their hands, and it can be a good opportunity to explore new things and spice up their sex life with a month or two experiment in going anal only. If you know anyone who might benefit from it, be sure to encourage them, and share why it’s been so great for you and how they might enjoy or prefer it themselves.

In addition to the benefits to them if they find they do enjoy it, you will benefit not only by having a more open relationship with your friends, but by having other anal only couples to share with and confide in, building up your own local community of anal only enthusiasts.

Forum: Anal Fantasy

I like the thought of one man fucking my ass while another man slides his cock into my throat. Then they’d tell me how I don’t need my pussy anymore into between spanks and caresses.

If I were playing with 2 women then we’d lie down in a triangle, gently licking and teasing asses. It would be a game. Winner is the one who cums last. Losers can’t cum for the next week. Winner then gets strap on fucked in the ass by the 2 angry losers. There’s a silver lining to this game!

PeachShaped, Anal Only Lifestyle forum

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Reddit: Anal Orgasms

I’ve done anal before welll a few times. I guess I’m curious if there are others who find or struggle with having/reaching an orgasm through/from anal?

analonlynz

An assortment of responses:

I’ve never had an orgasm from solely anal and I’ve been AO for a long time. It’s become my preference honestly.

KaraBear_94

It only took me a couple weeks of increased anal only and ignoring my clit. It happens when I get relaxed enough to let him REALLY pound me harder and faster. To be able to take that I wear a somewhat large plug for hours every day. The orgasm feels really good. There will suddenly be a big increase in how good the stimulation feels and then like a full body wave of pleasure. It subsides without a sharp peak feeling that would normally make me want to stop all stimulation. It’s great to feel that wave of extreme pleasures and then want to keep going.

thepetgirl

It seems to be a 50/50 deal with my partners. (Me male, them female)

Either they dont enjoy anal and cant get any pleasure from it at all, or it makes them orgasm anywhere from 1-4 times a session. The second type of girl is a gift from heaven.

Try different positions. I have found doggy is easier to do for them pain wise, but rarely if ever does it cause orgasms. Try ditching the bed and do it on the floor. While its not as comfortable on the knees, your butt might thank you for the deeper connection and your back will bend easier for proper entry. Trust me, he will thank you also.

Best success by far is with the seashell position (basically missionary on back with legs raised. The pressure according to partners gives the most full filling possible). Most of the time i have ever made a woman orgasm is this way. This is tougher to pull off for less experienced couples but well worth the difficulty curb in my humble opinion of only really being interested in anal with a woman since i was interested in sex.

Also prone boning (women lays flat face down) has a high learning curve, but does create some orgasms for both partners. One more recommendation if you are spry enough and the height differential isnt too off is standing anal. Its tough to orgasm for a male, but its really kinky and some women have found it exciting enough to get off.

You may require clitoral stimulation. You may need to try other positions. You may need to build some more confidence with it. You may just not be able to orgasm from it. That’s all fine and great. The fact that you would do this for a man makes you a superstar

kakarott1224

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Message: Anal Only Hypnos

Jay: Do you know where I can find anal only hypnos with women? I’m a FTM Transman who wants to try to be anal only in april and I’m looking for hypnos to watch while anal masturbating.

There isn’t a ton of content out there, but there are a few which you can find by searching Google for “anal only hypnos”. The first ones that come up in such a search are about the only ones that truly contain inspirational/hypno-style text.

Otherwise, the bulk of the content available is anal/anal only PMVs (Porn Music Videos), which can serve a similar purpose but generally don’t include text.

Anal Only in the Time of COVID-19

As we are practicing social distancing and even quarantine during the COVID-19 global pandemic, it’s being noted that there will likely be an increase of births starting in 9 months from all the couples cooped up in their homes together with nothing to do but have sex.

Now, more than ever, it’s important to practice the anal only lifestyle and use anal sex’s role as natural birth control to avoid unwanted pregnancies. The global population is already out of control as it is, let alone the risks of being pregnant during a pandemic or giving birth while the health care system is already massively stressed.

Please be careful and stay safe.

Message: Vaginal Virginity Perspective

Kame: Hi, I’ve read your post about why vaginal virginity will become a norm. I think, you are more or less correct. I come from traditional Asian country where virginity is still important, but other hand we live modern lives, that makes the conflict with traditional values imminent. I think anal sex solves the problem here and is compatible with both worlds and it’s getting more popular. I think traditional values in many countries are promoting spread of only anal sex before marriage between youth.

Most definitely, that trend has been taking place for a while and will continue to shift in the direction of anal only with vaginal virginity. And as more people practice an anal only lifestyle as their primary introduction to sex, the more common it will seem to everyone and even more will be inspired to do it. And those who start with anal tend to quickly come to expect the increased intensity and pleasure of anal, to the point that even if they later lose their vaginal virginity, they always much prefer anal.

Discussion: Do You Prefer Anal or Vaginal?

A Quora user asks:

Which do you prefer, anal sex or vaginal sex, and what was your experience?

And receives the following answer:

Anal sex is way better. The ass hole is tighter, it doesn’t smell weird like the vagina sometimes, you can cum in her ass without getting her pregnant and to be perfectly honest, the ass is more visually appealing than the pussy to me. The anus a beautiful tight little hole winking at you while its directly surrounded by the womans beautiful ass cheeks.

My experience fucking my ex GF’s phat white ass anal without a condom was the most amazing pleasure I’ve ever felt in my life.

I came inside her ass and it was so tight that my cock had to work extra hard to pulsate against that tight resistance of her tight anal walls, to pump that cum out and into her ass.

Uno Unk, Quora

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