Becky: Hi! Last year I messaged you asking about girls who had gone double anal only and how much the idea excited me. I really appreciated your response on how to go double anal only myself and I started training with dildos almost immediately. I started by going straight to my biggest dildo whenever I masturbated so I would stretch more, and then once I did that for a few days I tried putting two smaller and then medium size dildos in, and eventually ended up getting another big dildo because I wanted even more and started masturbating with two big ones (about the size of two large penises) almost every day for a couple months. I was loving it!

I started looking for guys who might be interested this on dating and hookup apps and kind of struck out for a while but then I found a guy who really loved gaping girls and big anal stretches and most importantly was really into anal only like me. I told him I wanted to go double anal only with two guys and he was really into the idea but didn’t know anyone else who would be a good fit in the arrangement. Still, we met up and we started having sex with one of my big dildos and him (also big) in my ass. Amazing! I loved it, and so did he, but I really wanted to go double anal only with two men still.

Well, my roommate is a bisexual man and one day when my boyfriend and I were having sex at home alone he walked in. I’ve talked a little bit about sex with him before and that I was anal only, and we shared appreciation for anal sex, but I didn’t tell him much more or pursue it because I thought it might be a bad idea to mix sex with a roommate. Now, he walked in and saw my boyfriend fucking my ass with a big dildo in there impossible to miss. Nothing happened, we stopped and he apologized for walking in and that was that.

But then a few days later he brought it up and apologized again but said that he didn’t know I loved anal quite that much and asked me about double anal and how I liked it. I told him about how I’d been craving double anal and double anal only for a long time and my boyfriend loved it too and we’d only ever had sex with both him and the dildo and how we really wanted to find another guy to do double anal only with full time. At this, he said that he was interested in that if we wanted to try. I didn’t know what to do at first because I didn’t want to complicate my living situation, but I told him I would talk to my boyfriend.

Obviously we ended up trying it and invited him to join us. Our first time together I gave them both blowjobs and then we got into a cowgirl position with me on top of my boyfriend and my roommate standing and penetrating my anus from above. It felt so good to have two real penises in me finally and I knew this was what I really wanted. I had been orgasming from double anal sex only for a while, but this was a particularly memorable time and I actually orgasmed twice in a row.

After, we all talked and decided to try being a three-way relationship together and it’s gone really well, my boyfriend has moved in as well and now we have sex together almost every day with both of them together in my ass and we’ve actually never done it with just one of them. I wanted to be very strict with double anal only and since I have both guys now we don’t even do it with one and the dildo anymore, just both men. It’s been over a year now since we first started together and we have no plans to stop.

I’m very happy and so are they and I want to thank you so much for inspiring me and helping me to do this! I really recommend it to everyone, anal only is amazing but double anal only is so much better.

Thank you so much for following up, it’s great to hear back from you and I’m so happy that it worked out and you’ve been able to do switch to double anal only! As I keep hearing from more double anal only women, it really seems like there’s a slow revolution forming as more people transition to anal only and those who like multiple partners and a bigger stretch are transitioning even further to double anal only. I love it and hope to see the double anal only lifestyle become increasingly mainstream and bring anal only along with it into total normalcy.

Anal Only April has now officially begun! Read through the earlier post for the full details, but in essence, it’s a challenge for you and any partners you may have to only have anal sex for the entire month, as an opportunity to explore the anal only lifestyle without a long-term up-front commitment.

If being anal only intrigues you, here’s your chance to try it for yourself. If you’re already anal only, take it as a month of celebration and as much anal sex, masturbation and butt plugging as you can manage, or an opportunity to explore a new twist on the anal only lifestyle that you’ve been fantasizing about or are curious to try. In the past, some long-term anal only women have made Anal Only April a “double anal only” month!

As always, if you plan to participate, let us know and share your experiences and questions throughout the month and beyond. After all, most people who try going anal only for a month or two at first find that they don’t ever want to go back to vaginal by the time their trial period is over!

Have you been curious about going anal only but haven’t had the push to actually try it for yourself? Well, now is the perfect opportunity. Anal Only April is one of several challenge months where we encourage people interested in the anal only lifestyle to make a month-long commitment and try out pure anal for themselves.

The rules of Anal Only April are simple: starting April 1st, whether on your own or with your significant other, stop all vaginal penetration for sex and masturbation, and replace it with anal instead.

Clitoral stimulation is optional. If you would like to go for a more advanced form of anal only, try doing it without touching your clit and only orgasming through anal. If you need your clit in order to enjoy anal, combine it with anal, but only rub your clit while also masturbating anally.

Oral sex is still allowed and encouraged, especially blowjobs and rimming. Cunnilingus is optional—some choose to exclude it, others still include it but don’t engage in any vaginal penetration as part of it.

Try your best to stick with anal only for the whole month—it’s a long enough period of time that while you might struggle a little bit with it at first, whether adjusting to the frequency of anal sex, or dealing with lingering cravings for vaginal sex or clitoral stimulation, by the end of a month most people figure out what being anal only is really like, and a majority of people who enjoyed their month trial either choose to stay anal only and not go back to vaginal, or return to it again later after a break.

If you’re already anal only, don’t worry—you can still enjoy Anal Only April yourself. Challenge yourself to have anal sex every day of the month, or to start wearing a butt plug or masturbate anally every day, or to experiment with clitoral denial and anal only orgasms if you aren’t already, or to start doing ass to mouth regularly, or to train your ass with bigger toys to be able to do anal fisting or double anal. The possibilities are endless for exploring new things as part of the anal only lifestyle. If you already enjoy double anal, consider trying making April a double anal only month—whether with two partners every time, or with a partner and a dildo, or two dildos.

Over the next week, get your plans in order, get your partner (if any) on board, and if you haven’t had anal sex yet or for a while, start working on training so that by the time Anal Only April begins, you’re ready to dive in!

If you decide to take part, let us know! Share your plans, ask any questions, and keep us updated as you start exploring the anal only lifestyle!

As we bring in the new year, it’s time for new year’s resolutions. If you’re a follower of this blog and you aren’t yourselves actively anal only yet, this is the time to go for it! Why wait any longer when you can commit to the anal only lifestyle you really want. If you’re single or don’t have a partner who wants to do it yet, you can do it on your own or communicate your wants and needs with them. If you have a willing partner, take the time and effort to work together and get to where you’re anal only full time.

If you are already anal only, consider if there are any new anal goals you want to achieve—clit denial, full time plugging, stretching with larger toys, double anal, or even going double anal only—and make it happen!

Happy Anal Only New Year!

Cass: My boyfriend and I started doing double anal this month using a dildo while we have sex and I really really love it. It makes anal even more enjoyable and I think I’d like it to be a regular thing but I wonder how much better it is with another guy rather than just a dildo and also how it is for the guys, can it be something they want to do every time or just sometimes?

Different guys have different preferences, of course, but there are certainly women in a double anal only or frequent double anal dynamic with two men, and some men absolutely love doing it and get increased enjoyment out of the experience in addition to the woman who obviously benefits from a greater stretch and increased stimulation having two penises moving inside her ass at the same time.

Talk about it with your partner and see what he thinks, whether he likes doing it regularly with you, and whether he wants to transition to double anal only and try it with another guy as well. If he’s into the idea, great! If not, see about keeping it at least a regular part of your routine.

It’s here! A month of pure anal only sex and your opportunity to challenge yourself to see what it’s all about or to try new things related to the anal only lifestyle.

After nine years in a row, No Pussy November still remains our flagship month each year to celebrate anal sex, the anal only lifestyle, and to encourage new people who aren’t yet anal only to challenge themselves to trying it for a solid month and seeing what it’s like.

If you’re new to the anal only lifestyle and you want to give it a try, this is a great time and way to do it! Talk with your partner now in advance of November and make sure you’re both on board with the idea, or if you’re single and want to try it with toys, get yourself to the point where you’re comfortable with anal masturbation on a regular basis—at least 3 to 5 times a week, if not every day.

If you’re already anal only, there are plenty of other things that you can try as a No Pussy November challenge this year!

• If you still use clitoral stimulation, you can challenge yourself to stop and focus purely on anal pleasure and anal orgasms. The more you go without your clit and rely on anal only to orgasm, the easier anal orgasms get!
• If you aren’t wearing a butt plug regularly, you can challenge yourself to wear one at some increased interval, or to spend the entire month plugged as often as possible. If you want to reach the latter goal but aren’t quite there yet, you could work yourself up to that point over the course of the month.
• You can challenge yourself to make ass to mouth a regular part of your sex life, normalizing it by doing it every time you have sex this November.
• You can start to introduce double anal to your sex life, either through play with two dildos, a partner and a dildo, or two partners.

Along the lines of that latter idea, for those who are particularly interested or experienced with double anal, we’re continuing to encourage an official advanced challenge: Double Anal Only November, where those who want to or are able to masturbate regularly with two dildos in their ass or have double anal sex regularly spend the entire month only having double anal sex every time they have sex. Naturally, this is going to be somewhat limited to people who have multiple partners who want to have double anal with them, but you can also participate by always using a toy along with their partner to achieve double anal, or by masturbating with a minimum of two toys in your ass at a time.

What are your plans? Let us know!

As anal sex continues to grow in popularity and become more widespread, and more women go anal mostly and anal only, an increasing number of women are coming out about preferring not just anal, but double anal.

For some women, it can simply be about preferring more of a stretch and wanting to go larger. An experienced anus can relax open easily and to get more stimulation, a logical transition is to switch to double anal and fit more inside to stretch and stimulate her better.

I do prefer double anal to single anal, because my ass is extreamly flexiable, so with just one cock, my ass tends to stretch very quickly, so after a while I can’t really feel anything. Espesially if I do anal scenes everyday, my ass is always stretched, so if I get a guy with a smaller dick than the guy the day before, theres not a hope in hell that i’ll feel much for the whole scene, which seems pointless to me. The reason I like Double A is because I LOVE to feel the S T R E T C H on my asshole.

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For others, even if the stretch isn’t needed to enjoy anal, it can be easy to get addicted to the sensation of both men moving independently inside her ass and both physically enjoying the feelings of that and mentally and emotionally being excited by knowing she has two men inside her, pleasuring her and getting pleasure from her both at the same time, together in her ass.

It can amplify the feelings and ideas of being anal only by doing double anal, because it’s not just one guy but two guys ignoring her pussy and sharing her ass together rather than either compromising for something lesser.

What are the reasons that you enjoy double anal?

Anonymous: I’ve been excited to read about people’s experiences with double anal sex. I like watching it in porn and it’s been one of my fantasies recently that I would like to try for real. Do you have any advice on how to start doing it myself?

In general, you can follow the same principles of anal sex and anal training to go larger until you are able to fit two toys or two penises, but there are a number of tricks and nuances that can help with the process, and I’m working on writing a full chapter on double anal sex for the Guide to Anal Sex and the Anal Only Lifestyle section of this website. Keep an eye there for more information as well as a few more chapters on other topics to come soon!

Becky: Have there been any updates from the girls who have been doing double anal or going double anal only? I’ve been really excited to read about that the past year and it’s my fantasy to do it myself too, I have always wanted to have a relationship with multiple men at once and having it not just be anal only but double anal only makes me so excited. Do you have any advice on how to do it?

There have been some updates and new posts on the subject in the Double Anal category, though not everyone who has shared their double anal stories has followed back up. Through other channels, I’ve communicated with about half a dozen women who have either experimented with going double anal only for a month or more, or who have decided to go full time double anal only with one or more partners.

As for making it happen for yourself, there are several elements. First, you need to be able to accommodate the size of two penises in your anus and rectum together at the same time. Practicing with two dildos, or with one partner and a dildo, is a good way to get started. Once you can regularly masturbate with two dildos or do double anal with one partner and a toy, it’s time to try it for real.

Experimenting with roommates, friends, or clubs suited to group sex (the latter can be difficult during a pandemic) is often a good way to start a double anal relationship. It can be trickier than finding a single partner, which is true for any group sex or multi-partner relationship, but pursuing the same channels used for those while keeping things focused on double anal is usually a good way to go about it. Most double anal only relationships seem to have originated fairly coincidentally with multiple roommates or a boyfriend and a roommate, so you might get yourself into a situation that would provide such opportunities.

Happy new year, and with it, all sorts of new opportunities for anal only fun! It’s time to make your anal only new year’s resolutions and share them with the world to help inspire others.

Some ideas include:

• If you aren’t already anal only, challenge yourself to go anal only this year. Starting out with a month or two of anal only to ease into the lifestyle and see if it’s for you is a good way to begin, and then if it works well for you, just keep going.
• If you’re anal mostly, consider taking the final step and giving up vaginal sex for good.
• If you’re anal only but still use clit stimulation and would like to switch to pure anal only, that’s an excellent 2021 goal and could be coupled with learning to orgasm from anal sex if you can’t already.
• If you enjoy stretching and want to go larger, consider setting a new goal with some bigger toys or even better, start doing double anal with two toys or two partners more often. If you already enjoy double anal and find single anal less enjoyable compared to the intensity of double anal, consider going double anal only in 2021 and move past single anal for good.
• If you’re happy with your anal only lifestyle and want to help others experience the same, consider being more outspoken about the lifestyle to friends and others and encourage them to try it for themselves. A goal of introducing others to anal only is an excellent way to have a rewarding experience for yourself while growing the lifestyle at the same time.

There are many more great options to try, and this is far from an exhaustive list. Leave a comment on this post or submit a message detailing your anal only goals and resolutions for 2021.