Category: Ass To Mouth

Posts discussing the act of engaging in oral sex directly after having anal sex.

Message: Valentine’s Day Success

Anonymous: I was trying to figure out what to get my bf for V-day when I found your post about giving a gift of anal only. We’ve done anal pretty much since we started dating so we both love it and I’ve wanted to go anal only for a while but was kind of too shy to ask him before. Your post gave me the push I needed and after we had dinner and headed to our bedroom I told him to put it in my ass, and as he lubed me up and slipped inside, I told him that I loved him and that my gift to him was a month of just anal, no pussy.

He got very excited, I could feel his cock get even harder inside me, and we fucked really hard and fast until I had cum twice and he had cum deep inside me. When he pulled out, I got up and sucked his cock clean, something we had done occasionally before but not often, but I wanted to get used to doing it often if we were going to only do anal now. It was really sexy to do it because I wanted to do it and he groaned and told me he loved me.

We’re a couple weeks into being anal only now and it’s been everything I hoped for. He keeps telling me how much he’s enjoying it too, so I really hope that after the month we can stay AO for good.

I’m glad to have inspired you to do what’s right for you and what you’ve wanted to do for a long time, and that your boyfriend seems to be enjoying it as much as you! Stick with it, continue exploring it further together, and I’m sure neither of you will ever want to go back to vaginal sex.

Message: Cleaning Every Time I Go to the Bathroom

Anonymous: I went anal only over a year ago after finding your blogs on Tumblr and I just love it. I’m a committed anal only girl now who’s totally sold on the idea and using my pussy again doesn’t interest me at all. But I wanted to share some advice for other girls doing anal sex and going anal only, because I used to worry a lot about cleanliness, and doing an enema before each time kinda got in the way of spontaneous sex.

So what I do now is I keep an enema bulb in my bathroom and whenever I use the toilet, I just wash it out after I’m done with some warm water and then I’m good for the rest of the day. It helps that I have regular digestion so I only need to do this once a day and I’m always clean and ready for sex otherwise. I can have anal all I want and do ass to mouth (which I love 💖) without worry. It really helped take care of one of the things that kept me from going anal only before and has made all the difference for me so I really suggest it to others!

That’s a great piece of advice, thank you for sharing, and thanks for sharing your story as well. I’m glad my blogs helped inspire you to try going anal only for yourself and discover just how great it is!

I’ve heard of other women doing similar things with a daily enema/anal douche/rectal flush after going to the bathroom as a regular part of their bathroom routine, and it seems to really work for people so long as you use just a small amount of water and don’t go too deep with your enema. (For more information on good/safe enema practices, see our page on anal hygiene in our new guide to anal sex and the anal only lifestyle.) Some will go so far as to attach an enema hose to their shower head or get a bidet for their toilet (which helps with hygiene on its own) that has an enema attachment.

Anal Only New Year 2019

This New Year, Make an Anal Only Resolution. Give up pussy, go anal only, January 1.

The time of new year’s resolutions is upon us, and if you aren’t currently enjoying an anal only lifestyle, consider this your prompt to move on from vaginal sex and go anal only yourself. Starting January 1, 2019, replace all vaginal sex and masturbation with anal instead. Anal is the way of the future, while vaginal is rapidly becoming a thing of the past for many people. Don’t you think it’s time you found out what the anal only lifestyle is all about for yourself?

And if you’re already anal only, this can be a good time to review your current implementation of the anal only lifestyle and see if there’s anything new that you would like to add into the mix, whether it be experimenting with clitoral denial and trying to focus on anal only orgasms, incorporating ass to mouth into your routine, starting to wear a butt plug more regularly for a constant reminder of anal pleasure or just as a practical tool to make frequent anal sex easier, experimenting with chastity devices or piercings, or anything else that appeals to you!

Be sure to check out our brand new Anal Sex Advice & Guide to the Anal Only Lifestyle page for information on introducing anal play and sex into your life, going anal only, and far more! And if you decide to make anal only your new year’s resolution, be sure to leave a comment or send us a message.

Message: Boyfriend Wants To Take My Pussy’s Virginity, Part 2

Anonymous: I sent a message recently about wether or not I should lose my vaginal virginity to my boyfriend or not and in glad to say we talked and I haven’t! He is completely understanding and more than willing to stick to anal only. We have decided we want to be even more adventurous with our anal play. We already have his friends join us every now and again but i was wondering how to get even more adventurous? What do you recommend? Nothing is too crazy

I’m glad to hear that it worked out and that you were able to communicate your desires to him and he’s understanding that you want to stay an anal only vaginal virgin. That’s great. Communication is key, and is usually the most effective way of resolving such things and figuring out effective compromises. Keep it up!

As for being more adventurous, there are plenty of ways you could do that. Not knowing what you already do, there might be some overlap with existing activities for you, but I’ll list some ideas anyway. Not all may interest you, and while they’re listed in increasing order, they aren’t all necessarily dependent on previous ones.

  • Experiment with clitoral denial and only orgasming from anal, which can have a similar amplification effect on arousal as edging and clitoral/vaginal orgasm denial does for a lot of women. If you like edging, you can actually do anal edging as well, which can be a lot of fun.
  • Start incorporating regular ass to mouth into your routine. This pairs well with group sex with multiple men as they can take turns between your ass and your mouth.
  • Start wearing a butt plug regularly and gradually training your ass for larger toys—plugs, beads, dildos, etc.
  • After working up in size, try double anal. You can try this with toys first, then once you’re confident you’re ready, try it with your boyfriend and a friend of his.
  • Anal fisting and large toy play can be a lot of fun once you’re ready for it.
  • If you’re serious about remaining a vaginal virgin, you can help symbolize this with labia piercings that close off your pussy. This isn’t strictly necessary, of course, but some like the look and the symbolism of doing so. Plenty of women are anal only or vaginal virgins without doing this, though!

Hopefully those give you a few ideas and starting points to choose from. No doubt my followers can also reply and add some ideas of their own. Keep us updated with what you decide to do and how things progress for you! Enjoy!

Message: Never Came So Hard As When She Sucked My Cock Out Of Her Ass

amaizegman: My FWB and I had been anal-only for some time. I wrote before how she sucked my finger right out of her ass. The last time we were doing it in a spooning position after at least an hour of ass worship, spanking and anal sex in several positions. When she came the third time she panted “I am so hungry for your milk.” I pulled out and expected to just beat myself off over her face. I closed my eyes when I got close, and suddenly I felt the warmth of her lips around my glans. I ever came so hard.

A great illustration of how anal orgasms for a lot of women (not all, but it seems to be the majority in my experience) amplify and further boost arousal rather than wiping it out. It sounds like her orgasms built her arousal to the point that she was eager to suck your cock straight out of her ass without thinking about it first. Now that she’s done it and seen that it’s something hot to do for both of you, and not something gross or disgusting, I wouldn’t be surprised if it becomes more frequent and not just something done in the heat of the moment.

Thoughts On Going Anal Only

goodlilsubbygirl: What’s your thoughts on going anal only?

bisexualattentionwhore: I’ve been anal only all this month and decided to go through November and it’s amazing. Having my ass filled is my favorite. Sometimes i have such strong urges to fuck my pussy though.., Any suggestions on what to do in December?

goodlilsubbygirl: I’ve been anal only since June, and I’ve been anal only before too. There’s a couple things I’ve done.

First I cut out all pussy touching completely. Touching it just made me want it more, and that wasn’t working. So none of that. This also forces me to play with my ass more, which helped me figure out all the different ways it can give me pleasure. Superior pleasure ?

Next I started wearing butt plugs in public all the time. This constantly kept me thinking about anal and that I’m teasing myself in the one way I can give myself pleasure. Wearing mini skirts put me in a slutty mindset and also kept me playful and thinking about who might see that plug. Really did a lot for me ?

Last I started to do more ass to mouth. This one really got me to love anal like I do. It’s so dirty and degrading but that in itself turns me on, and honestly I don’t taste that bad and I just want more ??‍♀️? this had me thinking about anal all the time and I kinda stopped thinking about my pussy that much

Honestly anal feels hundreds of times better than pussy for me. So that and doing all this really did it for me! If you have any more questions you can message me! Or we can keep replying here for everyone to see ?????❤️

Message: Taking Anal Only To The Next Level

Anonymous: My boyfriend and I have been anal only for 2 years now and things are great, but we are trying to find something to really test my anal limits. We’ve used toys like dildos, vibrators, etc.. But we are looking for something new. Are there any interactions you can think of that will take our anal sex to an extreme? We are very adventerous. 🙂

Congratulations on the two years anal only! There are all sorts of things you could try doing to push your anal limits and get deeper into the anal only lifestyle.

  • If you use clitoral stimulation currently during masturbation or sex, you could work to stop that and focus on pure anal only and learn to orgasm from just anal (if you can’t already). Using numbing creams like Orajel can be a good part of this process as well, temporarily removing any sensations from your clit.
  • You could start wearing a butt plug more often until you more or less always have one in whenever possible aside from when having sex, using the bathroom, or cleaning.
  • You could buy larger dildos and plugs and continue pushing your size limits with them. Depth play can be fun in addition to increases in width.
  • You could start working towards double anal, whether with a third partner if that’s something that interests the both of you, or with a dildo alongside your boyfriend.
  • Similarly, you can start working towards anal fisting. The stretch can be similar to larger toys, but with the more intimate connection of your boyfriend’s hand inside you.
  • Chastity piercings to close your pussy and anal only-themed tattoos can be more advanced ways of symbolizing your anal only status.

I’ll be interested to hear what you end up trying!

Message: How To Bring Up I Want To Do Ass To Mouth?

Anonymous: My boyfriend and I have been doing anal for a couple years and we’re mostly anal only now, vaginal is just something we do once or twice a year now and I think we’re at the point where we can stop doing that too. Something I really want to start doing though is ass to mouth. How do I bring up that I want to suck his cock after he’s been fucking my ass?

Congratulations on getting most of the way to anal only. I’d suggest just deciding that the two of you are done with vaginal and that you really are anal only now, it sounds like neither of you would actually miss vaginal, you’re just still holding on to it a tiny bit to see if it’s something you still want. Since you aren’t doing it more than once or twice a year, it obviously doesn’t do much for you. So I think you’re ready to let it go for good.

As for ass to mouth, it sounds like you have a pretty positive and communicative relationship if you’ve gotten this far with anal only already, so why not just tell him? I’m sure he’d love the idea and be turned on by it. Or if you want to, just grab his cock after he’s fucked your ass the next time and start sucking on it, then talk after and tell him you want to do more of that.

Message: Is She Open to Doing Ass To Mouth?

amaizegmanI have this FWB who asked me some time ago to only take her in the ass, which I am gladly doing. During our last session she took my hand and languidly sucked on the finger I had used to warm her up before. That made me wonder whether she is open to doing ass-to-mouth. I am kind of apprehensive about directly asking her. Do you have any experience on how to create the opportunity for her to do it without appearing pushy? I would like to leave the choice to her, for personal and erotic reasons.

Sounds like she would be, as that seems to have been a rather deliberate act on her part to suck the finger you were using to warm up her ass. I’d suggest just presenting more opportunities for her to choose to do so going forward. Make your fingers available to her in the same manner, and have your cock near her face at times in between having anal sex so she can suck on it if she chooses to do so. And if she does, then you can just start naturally making that a regular thing.