Month: October 2019

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Reddit: Ever Talk AO In Real Life?

I had a funny conversation with some friends this week

I was with in a group of about 5-6 guys at a bar and the topic of conversation came round to sex. I think someone said something like “so when did you last get some pussy?” or similar.

Since I was one of the only guys there with a long-ish term gf, I thought it’d be funny to chime in with “I haven’t had pussy in a year!” which led to me introducing the group to the idea of AO. I think it was quite eye opening for some!

So I was wondering has anyone else discussed AO with real life friends? How did it go? Have you converted anyone?

Jasper778, /r/analonlylifestyle, Reddit

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Anal Only is the Lifestyle That Best Fits Our Uncertain World

With the climate crisis, political shifts threatening the reliable availability of birth control or abortion to prevent unwanted pregnancy, and financial instability an ongoing concern for many in the younger generations, a stable future is far from guaranteed.

People are waiting longer to have children, knowing they can’t reliably support them, or choosing not to have any at all. In some extreme cases, people are avoiding sex altogether to avoid that risk.

The best solution to this, of course, is not to give up all sex, but to give up vaginal sex. There are many other advantages to going anal only as well, but virtually eliminating the possibility of unwanted pregnancy is a big one.

Sex is no longer primarily a reproductive act—in fact, the vast majority of the time, reproduction has absolutely nothing to do with it. So isn’t it time that we moved away from using the vagina, which is primarily a reproductive organ, towards pure anal, which is superior pleasure and intimacy without the baggage of reproduction.

Message: Best Way to Play and Orgasm From Anal?

Ana: I need some advice about the best way to achieve an anal orgasm. I already deny my pussy and clit. But still get really wet. I have a bullet vibrator and a tail plug.

I use some numbing liquids to avoid all clit stimulation.

I want to know if i can get a routine for anal exercise each day of the week, like while i’m on the gym, cleaning my house or driving

If you haven’t already read it, our Guide to Anal Orgasms might contain some useful tips and steps for you to try. It sounds like you’re on the right track, and just need to stick with it, but there might be something useful for you there!

Getting into a daily routine is an excellent idea. I recommend plugging daily for some period of time, and gradually increasing that amount over time. I also recommend a daily routine of more active anal training as well, with a dildo. Passive training with a plug is great and important, but it’s good to not neglect more active training too, as each do different things.

Reddit: I’ve been doing anal only for 3 years today

Hi, everyone. My name is Daiane, I’m 25 years old and today marks my Anal Only Lifestyle third anniversary. On October 6th, 2016, I decided to tell my boyfriend at the time I was going to stop having vaginal altogether and switch exclusively to anal sex. Some of the reasons that led me to this decision:

I am one of the unlucky ones who are severely allergic to birth control pills. Doesn’t matter what brand I take or how many doctors I talk to, I will always get severe side effects from taking the pill. They are so bad they would pretty much make me prefer not to have sex.

Men simply do not like using condoms, period. Neither my tinder hookups, neither boyfriends liked the rubber. I would give them extra thin ones I bought myself and they would still not have a good time wearing them.

Before switching to anal sex, I had had two close pregnancy calls and I don’t ever want to go through that again. The first time me and my boyfriend were a bit drunk having sex and only 24 hours after we had sex I noticed the condom had ruptured. The second time I really was irresponsible and didn’t care, but I eventually had my period and everything worked out.

I actually like anal sex. I like the pain that comes with it, I like the taboo, I like the domination aspect of anal sex and I like that my boyfriend likes it.

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Article: 6 Things To Know Before You Try Anal Sex

So you want to try anal sex. That’s great! Anal play can be lots of fun — if you’re ready for it. Unlike other types of sex, which most people can fumble their way through when they don’t have much experience, anal sex takes some research. (And, to be clear, it’s always better to think and talk through any new sexual experience before you try it with a partner).

But you can’t just slide into anal sex (unless you’re using plenty of lube…but more on that later). If you don’t know what you’re doing and you aren’t careful, you could hurt yourself or your partner because the anus is sensitive. “Contrary to what many believe, anal sex does not have to be painful (unless people engaging in it want it to be),” says Dulcinea Pitagora, a sex therapist known as the Kink Doctor. So before you give anal a try, read our tips about how to prep, both physically and mentally.

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The Value of Pure Anal Orgasms

Regular readers of this blog know that I frequently encourage people to combine the anal only lifestyle—which eliminates vaginal sex—with the additional exclusion of clitoral stimulation for—despite sounding contradictory—increased pleasure and arousal.

It doesn’t always seem to be clear to everyone what the purpose of this is, however, and many simply interpret it as a kink focusing on the denial of pleasure. That may appeal to some people and may be a motivation for them, but it’s not at all the goal of this blog when encouraging clit denial.

Anal Orgasms and Pleasure are Better

When polling women who can orgasm anally, a vast majority of them agree that anal orgasms are more intensely pleasurable and full-body than clitoral orgasms. It’s a more raw, pure, primal pleasure, and very addictive—once you start to experience it regularly, it’s hard to want anything less.

Anal Orgasms Cause Less Arousal Loss

It’s no secret that clitoral orgasms often bring with them a crash in arousal post-orgasm, which can affect mood and happiness and even make people feel depressed after. This is one reason many women are interested in exploring orgasm denial, but with anal orgasms, no denial of orgasm or pleasure is needed—just a shift to anal pleasure and orgasms instead. Because unlike clit orgasms, for most women, anal orgasms feel great but don’t have nearly as strong a post-orgasm crash.

Pure Anal Pleasure Has Its Own Appeal

The idea of getting all one’s pleasure from anal sex without needing anything additional or external to be able to orgasm is a common fantasy and goal for many women who love anal or who are anal only. There’s something about the idea that is a major turn on to women and to their partners, and it’s one of the driving motivators for moving past clit stimulation to pure anal pleasure.

So, with that, why not try it for yourself? Let us know your progress!

Message: Want My Pussy Altered

Sara: Hi, i don’t think my pussy looks Nice and i would like to cut My clithood or clit lips first. Then maybe get further to cut My clit later. Never use before the glue, would like to know where i can find it to get it Nice covered for it. Also ideas to make it less sensitive. I Dream about been an only anal wife, love to find a blog about it.

While I think that it’s every person’s right to alter their body however they want to do so, I also encourage everyone interested in such things to seriously think about it for a while before, since it is a permanent change.

If you’re interested in making your clit less sensitive or moving away from using it to orgasm, look into numbing creams that temporarily remove or reduce sensation. You can also get piercings that let you place a clit shield over it to remove physical access to it without permanently removing it. But if after an extended period of time you know that you truly don’t want clit stimulation anymore and just want anal only, clit removal can be a legitimate option, though finding a surgeon willing to do it is difficult.

Just for aesthetic alterations, many plastic surgeons will do that.

For glue, you can use superglue or eyelash glue, but you need to leave a gap if you close your labia with it so that you can still urinate.

And finally, if you want to be anal only, you don’t need to do any of the above, you just need to move away from vaginal penetration and towards anal penetration only. From there you can also work to stop masturbating clitorally as well if that’s a goal. That’s not to say that you can’t do more if that’s what you want, but don’t think that it’s a requirement to consider yourself anal only. And you can go anal only now without a partner, even—just start masturbating anally and stop masturbating vaginally.

Message: No Pussy November Anal Anniversary!

Jasper: First off thanks for setting up this community. It’s been fun reading about others who have found anal only to improve their sex lives!

I’ve been anal only with my girlfriend for almost a year and it’s honestly been life changing. I was lucky enough that she initiated the transition (I posted the story to the Reddit group) and it’s made me realise how superior anal sex is over the alternative. I always enjoyed sex but it feels like going anal only has unlocked another level of true pleasure.

Our anal only “anniversary” is in November and it will be no problem for us to complete the challenge, but after reading your recent post about other ideas for couples who are already anal only I mentioned the idea of trying to go “no clit” for a month to my gf. Although I rarely touch her clit she does quite often finish herself by masturbating her clit or using a dildo while we have anal sex. I told her I don’t like her doing that because it makes me feel like what I’m doing for her isn’t enough and to my amazement she’s agreed to try excluding all clit and pussy for November!

I’m super excited for November now because for me the idea of adding clit and pussy denial to our AO life has become more and more of a turn on the longer we’ve been anal only.

If it works out and we end up excluding clit and pussy 100% full time, I’ll be sure to thank you for the suggestion!

Down with vaginal! Down with clit!

Congratulations on your upcoming anal only anniversary and on what sounds like an excellent plan for No Pussy November! Thanks for sharing, and good luck. We’ll look forward to hearing from you as the two of you progress through clit denial over the next month!

No Pussy November 2019 is a Few Weeks Away!

Whether you’re new to the idea of anal only, returning to it after doing it in the past, or already committed to the idea for a while now, No Pussy November is an annual event that you can participate in and enjoy!

If you’re new to anal only, the main activity is to spend the entire month of November completely replacing vaginal sex with anal sex. If you want to take it even further, you can also completely exclude clitoral stimulation and only orgasm anally.

If you’ve been anal only in the past, this is your opportunity to get back into it and rekindle your commitment to the anal only lifestyle.

And if you’re already anal only, use the month to celebrate how much better life is when anal only and how glad you to have given up vaginal sex in favor of pure anal. Try a new activity as an additional challenge for the month—start doing ass to mouth, avoid using your clit to orgasm for the month if you haven’t already, start wearing a butt plug regularly, have anal sex daily, train for double anal—the possibilities are endless!

For our previous anal only challenge month, Anal Only April, several women pledged to only do double anal for the entire month, and one decided to stay double anal only after the month was over, and others are making similar pledges for No Pussy November. So if you’re already experienced with double anal, that can be an option!

If you plan to participate, take the time now to make your plans and arrangements with partners, or get any necessary toys. Whatever you decide to do and whatever your experience level currently is, be sure to let us know what your goals are and keep us updated!