Category: Clitoral Denial

This category contains posts talking about clitoral denial, whether advice and reasons for introducing it into one’s sexual routine, stories and accounts of having done so, and questions about why one’s partner may want them to give up their clit. For more information, see our Benefits of Avoiding Clitoral Stimulation During Anal Sex page.

For those interested in denial, you may also want to visit the website Edging Space (formerly female-orgasm-denial on Tumblr).


Officially 2 weeks anal only and no touch!

thatchocolatecoveredloli: It’s been very interesting and I kind of want to keep going. Me and Daddy talked about waiting one entire month before he uses my pussy again. It surprises me how much of an anal slut I’ve become. I never thought I could be so satisfied from having only having my ass filled over and over again. Should I…can I keep going?

Yes, you should keep going! Go for at least a whole month at a minimum. It sounds like you’re loving it—so why stop now? Wait until the end of the month to reassess. If you’re still having fun then, stay anal only.

thatchocolatecoveredloli: You guys helped convince Daddy and me! He says it sounds like a good idea. I think he just likes filling me up completely. No pussy November challenge accepted. ?

Message: Anal Orgasms?

Anonymous: Hi! We’ve been doing No Pussy November for a week and a half now and I have a question. If I rub my clit while we have sex I can cum and it feels good but if I don’t rub it, it feels like I cum and it’s even better but I’m still horny after and I don’t feel satisfied with just the one orgasm. Is this normal with anal?

That’s totally normal! You’ve discovered how to orgasm from anal sex, and you’ve discovered one of its big benefits! Whereas clit orgasms cause a drop in arousal after, anal only orgasms typically do not and you can keep going as much as you want. I’d consider yourself lucky for figuring out how to cum from anal so easily and go at least the rest of the month without clit stimulation to further develop and really solidify the ability to cum from just anal and get used to staying more aroused more often, which in turn helps with having frequent anal sex and makes anal a lot more appealing than vaginal.

littlehumpybunny makes No Pussy November Pledge

say-no-to-the-o:

3 November, 2018
From @littlehumpybunny (Say No To The O Member and Sister in Denial)

From today onwards I, @littlehumpybunny, swear that I for at least one week will be participating in “No Pussy November, which means the following

  1. I must play with my ass until I edge at least once a day.
  2. I may not touch my clit unless I am also playing with my ass.
  3. Toys may only be used on or in my ass.
  4. That I must have my plug in at least an hour a day.
  5. That if by the end of the week on Nov. 10th if I feel good about the week I will swear to my aforementioned statement for another week so on and so on until “No Pussy November” is over.

If I don’t follow these rules, the only way I’m allowed to edge for the rest of the week is by humping with clothespins on my pussy lips.

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Sleep well, @littlehumpybunny. The arousal will likely kill you in the morning (fingers crossed). You friends at Say No To The O Member

Read more about @littlehumpybunny HERE.

Message: Scared to See What Removing Clit Stimulation Does

Anonymous: i’m working up to anal only as part of my edging + denial. currently, vaginal penetration is off-limits but i still touch my clit. i only allow myself to edge my clit with an anal plug inserted or while fucking my ass. having my ass full gets me to the edge so quickly and makes me drip so much. it also helps me train to associate pleasure with my ass. i’m scared to see what removing clit stimulation does to me. ?

It sounds like you’re approaching this in a way that works really well for most people, easing into anal only and gradually increasing your reliance on your ass for pleasure while removing your reliance on your pussy and reducing it on your clit, only using it to supplement and increase your anal pleasure, until you no longer need it anymore.

In a broad sense, if you no longer use any vaginal penetration, you’re already anal only. A lot of anal only women still use clitoral stimulation, and just replace vaginal penetration with anal every time. Over time, however, many work to remove their dependence on clitoral stimulation to be even more strictly anal only, and that’s a great thing if it’s what you want to work towards as a goal.

It sounds like you’ll love it.

Message: Is It Cheating To Do No Pussy November If You’ve Always Been Anal Only?

Anonymous: Is it cheating to do “no pussy November” if you’ve always been anal only? My parents are very religious and I was raised thinking I had to save my virginity for my husband. When I started having boyfriends I learned about “Gods loophole”(lol) and started having anal sex with my boyfriends. I love it now and I cum much harder being fucked in the ass than if I just play with my pussy.

Not at all! A lot of people participate even though they’re already anal only. You can always take the opportunity to add another level to your anal only commitment, whether it be clit denial and only orgasming through anal, long term butt plug wear, increased anal play more frequently or with larger toys, or something else that interests you and relates to the anal only lifestyle. You could also choose to make the commitment to staying anal only permanently, even after marriage.

Message: Feel Like A Bad Girl After I Touch My Clit

mcshishiI can come from anal only when my husband fucks me but not during masturbation and it’s so frustrating. I always end up touching my clit and I always feel like a bad girl afterwards

If using your clit makes you feel like a bad girl and you want to focus on strictly anal only, especially since you know that you can orgasm from it in the right circumstances, I would suggest that you change your perspective on masturbating and stop thinking of it as a quick path to orgasm and self-satisfaction, and more of another opportunity to play with your ass, whether it leads to orgasm or not. Take your clit out of the picture and just enjoy rubbing, fingering, and dildoing your ass. If something in particular feels good, do more of it. If it feels like it could make you cum, focus on that, but don’t make an orgasm your primary goal.

It might be a challenge at first, and it might take multiple rounds of trying it for a while, being unable to resist your clit and going back to old habits, then starting again, but so long as you try to maintain a trend over time of going longer and longer without your clit and only masturbating anally, you’ll eventually be able to get entirely clit-free, and the longer you go without it, the more you’ll find sex and your orgasms with your husband to be even better, and most likely will start to be able to orgasm from anal masturbation as well.

Message: Taking Anal Only To The Next Level

Anonymous: My boyfriend and I have been anal only for 2 years now and things are great, but we are trying to find something to really test my anal limits. We’ve used toys like dildos, vibrators, etc.. But we are looking for something new. Are there any interactions you can think of that will take our anal sex to an extreme? We are very adventerous. 🙂

Congratulations on the two years anal only! There are all sorts of things you could try doing to push your anal limits and get deeper into the anal only lifestyle.

  • If you use clitoral stimulation currently during masturbation or sex, you could work to stop that and focus on pure anal only and learn to orgasm from just anal (if you can’t already). Using numbing creams like Orajel can be a good part of this process as well, temporarily removing any sensations from your clit.
  • You could start wearing a butt plug more often until you more or less always have one in whenever possible aside from when having sex, using the bathroom, or cleaning.
  • You could buy larger dildos and plugs and continue pushing your size limits with them. Depth play can be fun in addition to increases in width.
  • You could start working towards double anal, whether with a third partner if that’s something that interests the both of you, or with a dildo alongside your boyfriend.
  • Similarly, you can start working towards anal fisting. The stretch can be similar to larger toys, but with the more intimate connection of your boyfriend’s hand inside you.
  • Chastity piercings to close your pussy and anal only-themed tattoos can be more advanced ways of symbolizing your anal only status.

I’ll be interested to hear what you end up trying!

Message: Vaginal Is Just Boring, Part 4

Anonymous: Yes that’s exactly right, when I cum with my clit it does feel amazing for a few seconds and then … not so amazing. I stop being horny almost right away and get kind of repulsed by sex and having something in my ass. But when I cum from anal, it’s still satisfying and feels good, but I don’t lose my arousal and desire and sexuality as much I guess. Thank you for the encouragement, I’m excited to try giving up my clit now too. And thank you so much for your blog, it really inspired me.

Then yes, stopping the use of your clit is definitely the right move and you should only allow yourself anal only orgasms going forward. I’m excited for you, you’re making a big change all at once but it’s going to be so rewarding and so much fun. You’re going to love it. Remember that even if there are some challenges in the first few weeks to month, it will keep getting better and easier, and sticking with it is the most important thing. Most people by the time they get to 1 – 3 months in, don’t go back to vaginal. (And if they do, they usually end up anal only again before long.)