Anonymous: Yes that’s exactly right, when I cum with my clit it does feel amazing for a few seconds and then … not so amazing. I stop being horny almost right away and get kind of repulsed by sex and having something in my ass. But when I cum from anal, it’s still satisfying and feels good, but I don’t lose my arousal and desire and sexuality as much I guess. Thank you for the encouragement, I’m excited to try giving up my clit now too. And thank you so much for your blog, it really inspired me.
Then yes, stopping the use of your clit is definitely the right move and you should only allow yourself anal only orgasms going forward. I’m excited for you, you’re making a big change all at once but it’s going to be so rewarding and so much fun. You’re going to love it. Remember that even if there are some challenges in the first few weeks to month, it will keep getting better and easier, and sticking with it is the most important thing. Most people by the time they get to 1 – 3 months in, don’t go back to vaginal. (And if they do, they usually end up anal only again before long.)