Message: Can We Go Anal Only?

Anonymous: I really like anal sex but it makes me sore after so we don’t do it very often. The idea of being anal only really appeals to me though, and I’d like to try. Is there a way we can do it without me getting so sore?

Anal is one of those things, kind of like exercise in general, where doing it more often and on a more consistent schedule will help you to enjoy it without becoming sore in the same way. Ease into it: start once a week for a few weeks, then twice a week, and increasing frequency over the course of several months until you can do it as often as you like. At that point, it’s easy to make the transition to anal only!

Anal Only April 2021

Craving something new? Why not go anal only for a whole month? Challenge yourself to Anal Only April.

Announced last month, Anal Only April has now officially begun! Read through the earlier post for the full details, but in essence, it’s a challenge for you and any partners you may have to only have anal sex for the entire month, as an opportunity to explore the anal only lifestyle without a long-term up-front commitment.

If being anal only intrigues you, here’s your chance to try it for yourself. If you’re already anal only, take it as a month of celebration and as much anal sex, masturbation and butt plugging as you can manage, or an opportunity to explore a new twist on the anal only lifestyle that you’ve been fantasizing about or are curious to try. In the past, some long-term anal only women have made Anal Only April a “double anal only” month!

As always, if you plan to participate, let us know and share your experiences and questions throughout the month and beyond. After all, most people who try going anal only for a month or two at first find that they don’t ever want to go back to vaginal by the time their trial period is over!

Read the full rules and details of Anal Only April!

Article: From The Confessional: Moms Are Confessing About ‘Butt Stuff’

No matter how you like your salad tossed, there’s a mom out there who’s done it and is ready to help anyone who’s curious about…”butt stuff.” Anal sex and foreplay are a very common part of the bedroom scene for many couples — and sometimes, you don’t even need a partner to enjoy it!

Some moms are very into it — these are the pros. The people who know exactly how to utilize their rear in the right way. Some moms are more novice and are just exploring their own curiosity about what you do, how far you can go, what they like, what’s a big NO, etc.

The good news is, all of this information and more is alive and well in our Confessinal.

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Anal Only Can Be a Commitment, But Well Worth It

Part of what makes the anal only lifestyle so rewarding is the fact that it’s a commitment. It takes effort for many women to get started, to resist the urges of their vaginal and clitoral habits, and to train for frequent anal. For many, vaginal may be easier, but by no means does that make it better.

Taking the first step and going a few weeks or months to get past the strong urges for vaginal penetration or clitoral stimulation can be difficult, but with that focus and commitment and self control comes the clarity of anal pleasure and the amplification of arousal that comes from suppressing vaginal and clit stimulation in favor of anal only.

The cleaning and training routine to stay ready for anal sex on a regular schedule can seem like a lot to the uninitiated, but it can become an appealing part of the lifestyle for many, and actually serves to build the commitment: through all the effort and work put in, it makes someone not want to give up on it and go back to vaginal.

Reddit: Any Older Senior Experiences With Anal Only?

I’m 75 and my dear wife is 69 and we have been analonly for practically our entire 30 year relationship. We didn’t want kids when we got together at the tail end of our reproductive years so that made it easier but the dominant reason for going AO is that she would get urinary tract infections from vag sex. I was her first anal partner and she took to it like a duck to water. We have anal once a week with the occasional double treat in mid week.

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Message: Does Liking Anal Make Me Gay?

Phelix: So I recently told my ex girlfriend I liked to receive anal. She broke up with me because I like receiving anal. She told me that I was gay and that it was weird. I don’t understand it what do you think?

And I have a question? I started play anally about a year and a half ago. I’m trying to orgasm from anal only do you have any tips to stop using my penis to have an orgasm. Right now I can use anal to get to the edge but I have to touch my penis to actually orgasm.

Enjoying anal as a giver or a receiver doesn’t inherently have anything to do with someone’s sexuality. Sexuality has to do with who you’re attracted to. You can be a straight man who likes giving or receiving anal sex from women. You can be a gay man who likes giving or receiving anal sex from men. Or all sorts of other combinations. The sexual act is separate from the gender you’re attracted to and want to have sex with. But because men receiving anal sex has been so associated with being gay in our culture, it’s assumed by some less informed people that liking anal means you’re gay.

As for orgasming from anal, just keep going. It takes time. Try committing to at least several months without anything but anal stimulation and you should gain significantly more sensitivity and start to get over the edge from anal stimulation alone.

Forum: Tail Plug 24/7

Hi everyone, just want to share my experience and love of tail butt plugs. Specifically wolf and fox tails with metal plugs. It’s not so much for sexual pleasure (I’m single at the moment) but I like the look and feel of them. I saw them a couple of years ago and immediately just had to have one. I stopped using them after a couple of months and got rid of my collection because I somehow thought it’ not normal and I shouldn’t do this. Recently I just got the urge again and ordered another fox tail plug. I’ve been training my butt and am now quite comfortable wearing it long term. I want to try and wear my tail as often as possible and will not take it out while I’m at home. I’ve started to sleep with it in for the last couple of nights so let’s see how this is going☺The first night was a bit of a challenge as the plug wasn’t all that comfortable and it kept me up for most of the night. It didn’t hurt so I just adjusted myself and tried to relax. Last night was the second night and after wearing the plug for 2 days straight (exception of bath and toilet) it already was more comfortable. It’s just wonderful to wake up with my beautiful tail coming out of my ass. I have not touched my vagina in about 3 months as I want to only use my ass and plug it all the time with my tail. Does anyone else use tail butt plugs on the regular?

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Vaginal Sex is Unsustainable

In his recent documentary A Life on Our Planet, David Attenborough said that “anything that we can’t do forever is by definition, unsustainable.” On multiple levels, vaginal sex meets this definition of an unsustainable act.

Widespread reproduction is unsustainable

Vaginal sex is inherently a reproductive act. That is its primary function, and everything about it puts that function above all else. Pleasure, intimacy, stress relief, and the other benefits of sex come second to the fact that it’s intended for getting pregnant and making babies.

But, we can’t sustain a constantly growing birth rate, and we’re already seeing so many negative effects from our population as it currently stands. It’s time to separate reproduction from sex entirely, and make sex be purely about pleasure, intimacy and bonding. Anal serves that purpose so much better than vaginal, with zero reproductive functions at all. Not only does this amplify the enjoyment of sex for its own purpose, it empowers everyone involved by giving them control over when and if they want to get pregnant while having a fully and free sex life.

Birth control causes packaging waste

Artificial forms of birth control can provide a level of the same benefits, but they have their own issues of sustainability. Not only does the contraceptive pill require daily consumption and corresponding waste in disposable packaging, it costs money in places like the U.S. and can end up a choice between having a safe sex life without worry of pregnancy or having money for other things. It can also come with many side effects that limit enjoyment of sex or even risk one’s health later in life with increased chances of cancer.

Anal sex doesn’t have those side effects, and provides natural birth control while amplifying arousal and sex drive, without the health risks that come from hormonal birth control. It doesn’t require wasteful packaging or spending money on pills, it’s something anyone can do without risk of pregnancy and without needing any additional component.

Vaginal sex gets worse the longer you do it

While it’s somewhat overexaggerated at times, a common trope with vaginal sex is that vaginas get loose over time and sex becomes less enjoyable. There is some truth to this, though it is less about use and more about age and pregnancy. A member of the anal only community recently described it as vaginas naturally getting looser over time and having to work to keep them tight, while anuses naturally try to stay tight and you have to constantly work to keep them relaxed for sex. The latter trends towards things staying more stimulating for everyone involved over a long term relationship and sex life.


All told, there are many benefits to the anal only lifestyle, and it can play an important role in our sustainable future contributing to the continued survival of the human species and the rest of our planet.

Reddit: How Long Did It Take To Cum From Anal?

At the moment I can only cum from clitoral stimulation and anal, but I’ve read some posts on here where ladies have cum from just anal and I want that

An excerpt of several good responses:

I started to be fucked in the ass in July or August last year. Then closer to Christmas I started using buttplugs when I played with myself and earlier this month I used a vibrator and a dildo to play only with my ass! I kept playing when my body wanted to stop and then I squirted and came on the dildo! I was so proud I had to tell my Daddy (Dom) immediately

Little-CocoPops, /r/analonlylifestyle

My wife is the same way as you but unfortunately she doesn’t have the same hunger to cum solely from anal as you. We’re AO at this point because of some ongoing vaginal issues she’s having (which we suspect are due to her taking immunosuppressants for her autoimmune disease), but she needs her vibrator on her clit to cum, no matter what. She’ll have massive anal orgasms, but once she cums her psychological lust for anal dissipates, and she’s like “honey you gotta try to cum, I can’t go much longer.” Every time I broach the subject of “why don’t we try to slowly gradually train you away from your vibrator?” She gets pissed.

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Message: Getting Virgin Girlfriend Into Anal

Ted: Hi! I’m Ted, a 26yo male VERY MUCH into anal. I knew I wanted anal only after watching my first porn video at 16yo. Thankfully, I’m attractive, with a boyish face that pleases the ladies, so I never had to compromise too much with vaginal or clitoral action. I’m either dating women who are already into anal, or getting women to try it.

My ultimate dream would be to be in a couple with a younger, complete vaginal virgin, who never had her pussy fucked and who barely/never stimulated her pussy at all (no clit/vaginal action), but who’d be available non stop for oral and anal action. Also, I’m into orgasm denial in the sense that to me, the only orgasms a woman should get are those gained naturally from anal.

Months ago, through friends, I met this cute 21 year-old who quickly grew fond of me. We had a few dates, we got closer, and recently, she confessed to me she’s a complete virgin, and she’d love me to teach her what sex is all about.

This is a golden opportunity. She’s beautiful, small, smart, innocent, funny, we have good things in common, she’s just my type of girl. I tried to question her about sex, and apparently, she has next to no experience, even by herself or through porn.

I’d like to know if you have any advice to help me get her into pure anal, no compromise. I’m very afraid to screw up and chase her away, even if she’s so much into me that IMO she could accept a lot.

I thought the better approach, rather than flat out say I prefer anal, would be to suggest anal for contraception, as a first step. I know she doesn’t take the pill, so I could say I can’t stand condoms and I’m scared to penetrate her vaginally. Then if I can get her hooked on anal, or at least be used to it, it’d be easier to go from there.

I’m already planning to use the content you have here, like the super well-made The Dangers of Clit Stimulation, to keep her from pussy action once she’s accepted anal.

What do you think?

I recommend being honest and up front and not trying to manipulate her, just present your case for preferring anal, why you think anal pleasure is so much better than vaginal, and how it can amplify her pleasure to keep things anal only from the start without distracting her pleasure with multiple sources and reducing both rather than focusing just on the one with the most potential for pleasure.

Present the benefits: greater pleasure, more intimacy and trust, and natural birth control. From there, you can talk about how it’s what you’ve always much preferred and how you think it’s really attractive and sexy that she hasn’t had vaginal sex and that you’d like her to try going and staying anal only with you and keeping her pussy virgin.