NPNWife: Still going strong. Husband woke me this morning with his lubed cock pressing into my ass. I told him Saturday, at the party where he fucked my ass in our friends’ bathroom, twice, that he could take me however/whenever he wanted. I woke feeling the head of his cock pushing into me. He kept telling me how much he loves fucking my ass. I made him tell me how much better than my pussy it is. Hotter. Tighter. Feels so much better. Told me he was so glad to give up my pussy for my ass.

I’ve been showing him my favorite anal only and pussy abandonment tumblrs, so he knows what to do/say to really push my buttons. He had his cock buried inside of me, telling me that he never wants to go back to the way it was, that even after this month he won’t be fucking my pussy more than he fucks my ass. And how much he loved me avoiding my clit, like I was giving up my orgasms for him. Told him how much I loved not cumming for him, to focus on him and his pleasure this month.

And when he was about to cum, I begged him to pull out and fuck my mouth. The ATM really blows him away. I sucked him both times at the party. He made me lick his cock entirely clean the 2nd time. The naughtiness of doing that drove me insane. He made me go around the rest of the party without cleaning my mouth out. Every time I talked to someone I wondered if he could tell I had just tasted cock from my ass. I was literally dripping wet. My ass is sore, but I’m still loving this.

Sounds amazing, and should inspire any other couples still considering taking part in No Pussy November themselves to stop considering and start doing, lest they miss out on the sort of fun the two of you are having.

The way things are going so far, by the end of the month he might not want to go back to your pussy at all—and you might not either!

NPNWife here: Husband is in the shower. I just did ATM for the first time. I didn’t want to practice beforehand. I was worried I wouldn’t like it and would chicken out. Decided to just go for it. I didn’t tell him. Just told him to tell me when he was going to cum. I flipped around and sucked his cock straight into my throat. He screamed “holy fuck!” and started cumming almost immediately. The smell and taste, it was overwhelming. I can still taste my ass. I almost came from just how naughty it was. My pussy is sopping and my clit has been throbbing. But I’ve refused to touch and wouldn’t let him touch either. Total denial. I feel like I’m on fire all over. He asked what brought that on. I told him I wanted him to enjoy everything that had to do with anal this month. He asked if I would do ATM again. I told him for the rest of the month I would suck his dick straight from my ass whenever he wanted. “Even if it’s dirty?” I kissed the head of his cock and said yes, no matter what.

The anal only, orgasm denial, and vaginal abandonment blogs have been really helpful in helping me get into this. We’re only 4 days in, but I’m finding it incredibly hot. And I know he does to. We’re going to a party tomorrow and he told me he wants me to wear my plug with no panties and a dress and he wants to find a secluded spot at some point and fuck my ass at our friend’s house. So, wish us luck! And if anyone has any other ideas on things to do, I’d love to hear them.

I’m so glad to hear it went and is continuing to go amazingly well and that you’re so turned on by being anal only and going ass to mouth. That’s something that’s really great about No Pussy November, I think, it attracts people for a variety of reasons but ultimately turns on all sorts of people who may not have otherwise even considered the pleasures and benefits of going anal only and yet often find that they really love it by the end of the month.

Good luck and keep enjoying the amazing fun you’re having together.

Me Again. No Pussy November Wife (NPNW?): Will keep you updated, absolutely! He was thrilled on our anniversary night. I was wearing his favorite lingerie when he came home. Immediately started sucking his dick. Asked him if he ever heard of No Pussy November? He asked “Oh, does that mean I only get blowjobs for a month? I can dig that.” Said “Not exactly” and bent over to show him I was wearing a plug. He said “Holy shit, seriously? You’re going to let me fuck your ass?”

I said “Happy Anniversary”. I was all ready for him. He went right for it. Different than my toys, but oh god, hurt but was amazing. He started slow but got overwhelmed I think and started fucking me really hard. His hand went for my pussy, and I said “No, No pussy November. No pussy at all. Just my ass, for you, all month.” … He said “All month?” At this point, I was dripping wet. And I said “Every single day. Fuck my ass whenever you want it. I’ll keep it ready for you.”

He fucked my ass 3 times that first night. I was sooooo sore after. But the following morning, I woke him up with a blow job and took him right in my ass again to show him I was serious. He went for my clit again, out of habit I guess, and I reminded him no. But my pussy was leaking all over him while I rode him with my ass. When he went to work, I spent all day looking at your tumblr and other anal only tumblrs. Tonight, I’m going to surprise him again. I’m psyching myself up to do ATM.

What an incredible surprise and gift for him, and for you too! Does he know yet that you spent 6 months training your ass for him? He must feel on top of the world, knowing he gets to fuck your ass every day whenever he wants and doesn’t need to fuck your pussy or play with your clit. Adding ass to mouth into the mix is going to be a lot of fun, too—you can always practice with your finger or a dildo first if you haven’t already, to get more comfortable with the idea.

How has it been for you so far? It sounds like you’ve been really enjoying it too, and your pussy sure seems to have gotten really turned on by being denied—pretty common, actually. Even if you’re sore at first from the sudden ramping up of anal, the more you do it the easier it will get to do without getting as sore, of course.

It’s going to be a fantastic month of celebration for the both of you!

Anonymous: Why do we have to do ATM and rimming? I’m so unhappy when my Dominant makes me do that, but I know if I don’t he’ll find some other girl that does. And those magazine covers you put on here that say we all have to do it. But I hate it. Why do I have to eat shit like that? Isn’t being uncomfortable and doing anal for him enough? Why isn’t it enough?

First, I don’t advocate doing anything you don’t want to do or forcing someone to do something they don’t want to do. I don’t want someone to be uncomfortable, in pain or hate what they’re doing. Some people on tumblr do like women to do anal and ass to mouth for those reasons, and I disagree with them and dislike their position on anal. You’re correct that some content on this blog does talk about ass to mouth, but understand that content here is always partially fantasy, and is never advocating people doing things they don’t want to. There are women who are turned on by and love giving ass to mouth, and they are more of my target with such posts, rather than pushing all women to do it even if they’re not interested.

Myself, I like anal with women who love it as much as I do and who want to be anal only. Honestly, if it hurts or is uncomfortable, you probably aren’t ready to be having anal sex yet and should be training still with toys. Or maybe you just don’t like it.

Ass to mouth is something I enjoy receiving, but I understand not everyone wants to do it, and that’s obviously fine. I only suggest doing it if you’re clean. I see this less as a form of dominance and more of a loving act, accepting your man so much you’ll even suck his cock clean after he fucks your ass.

Rimming just feels good, and I encourage everyone to try both giving and receiving it. Bathe first and there is no taste, it’s just skin, and it feels amazing to receive.

Don’t let someone pressure you into doing things you hate, especially with threats of leaving you for someone else if you don’t. I don’t know whether that’s happened in this case, but you do mention he’ll find someone else to do what he wants if you don’t. That’s not a good situation to be in, and can be prone to abuse.

The fact is, some people like ATM and rimming, and some don’t. You’re with someone who does. It’s fine if you don’t, but you’ll need to either tell him that you don’t want to do that anymore, come up with a way to enjoy it (e.g. always be clean before), or keep doing something you hate. Just because you’re in a dom/sub relationship doesn’t mean you don’t have a say—your consent should always be a factor in any relationship, and if your partner doesn’t agree, then that’s probably a relationship you shouldn’t be in.

naughtyboxxx: Will you suck a cock right out of that perfect asshole of yours? I want you to slide a dildo or plug in your ass and take a picture, then pull it out and put it in your sexy mouth. Up the ante and do it at work or in a quasi public place. Go.

severelykrispysalad: First of all, yes I would and have taken toys, fingers and cocks out of my ass and sucked them straight away and secondly…fucking in public places is such a turn on for me, I absolutely love it

I can’t believe it, but a couple of weeks ago while I was fucking my wife, I said I would give her $100.00 for shopping if she sucked my dick right then. I’d jokingly asked her in the past (and offered her more, mind you). This time she just said, “If you really want to do that, you don’t have to give me anything.”

We were on the side of the bed, with me standing, and her in the missionary position, while I held her legs with her knees at her chest, for deeper penetration. Just like that it happened. I removed my cock from her ass and she turned sideways on the bed to suck my cock. I fully expected her to inspect it first or give it a sniff. No, she just went down on it and sucked it with enthusiasm. She was surprised when I pulled my cock out of her mouth. She asked what was wrong. I told her nothing, but that I wanted to do it again. We went back and fourth five times before I came in her mouth.

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Anonymous: I love anal, but I’m new to it, and have some trouble getting past the fear of awkward accidents. I’m a bit fecal-phobic, and the idea of him getting any sort of” residue” terrifies me. I’d like to be able to do ATM sometimes. Any advice on prep?

First, accidents can happen and if you and a partner are engaging in anal play you should both be mature enough to accept that “risk” and recognize that it isn’t really that big of a deal in the event it does.

There are things you can do to mitigate the risk, however. Eating a balanced diet with a healthy amount of fiber does wonders to keep you fairly well cleaned out on its own. In general, the rectum does not hold any solid fecal matter except for when you feel the urge to use the restroom, and since most anal sex takes place entirely within the rectum, you’re mostly in the clear just from that. If you wanted to make sure even more, a quick anal douche shortly before you have sex just to rinse out the rectum would be fine. What you want to avoid when doing that is to have the water go too deep beyond the rectum where it can end up making more of a mess.

Along those lines, deeper enemas can be a possibility, but some people suggest they shouldn’t be done too often as they can over time lead to an imbalance in digestive bacteria, and they take a lot more time and effort to really get clean deeper. It’s also just generally unnecessary for most anal sex, but if you were wanting to engage in more extreme deep anal play then it would be a necessary preparation for most people.

You can always verify your cleanliness a little before you have sex by inserting a dildo, or even to a certain extent wearing a butt plug for 15 to 30 minutes prior to having sex.

Anal has always been my main fantasy, but for years it remained only a fantasy. I have been living with the same woman for more than 25 years, and we had sex she very often had a finger up her ass. Her favorite position was her riding me, with me fingering her ass and my other hand kneading her nipple. She always would deny anal, because she did not want to waste sperm as we were trying to have a third kid. I am lucky that she gets very wet just from sucking my dick, especially if I force her a bit, that’s the only foreplay we may have on a good sex session.

One day I was spooning her and had been fucking her pussy deeply for a long time, she’d got really wet. Of course had I fingerfucked her ass at the same time, and she was very much turned on but hadn’t cum. Before she would orgasm I pulled my dick out and I applied it on her bumhole, not pushing. She started pushing on it and could get the head in, but it was so tight I deflated. I rimmed her some which turned her on even more, she got  just about crazy hen I rimmed her without touching her pussy or clit. Her pussy really leaks then, and I can use her cream as the only lube.

But we retried and this time I could get some of my dick in and fuck her until cumming, she was soo tight! She did not cum, but told me the pain was very interesting. She trained a bit and after a few time I could ram her balls deep, only using her pussy cream as lube. I can actually penetrate her deeper up the ass than vaginally.

We had some problems of urinary infections, because I got back into her pussy after ass. Take my advice, don’t do that!. Ass is a one-way: you go there, you stay there!

Now she has turned into an anal loving slut who is disappointed the rare times I go vaginal, and puts my dick against her pucker, and gets the strongest orgasms of her life when i am fucking her ass deep and she stimulates her clit. She even blows me after I have anally fucked her, which is a thing that would happen only on porn movies.

The smell of ass is actually quite arousing, and I am rimming here with gusto.

We still only spoon, but I would like she anal riding me, but no penetration was possible until now. Any advice?

Now i want to assfuck her in almost public places, when she goes commando under her short dress… And she complained about me recovering too slowly, talking about another dick…

Sex life can improve after many years of routine!

Anonymous: I was never very open to anal but I recently started exploring and I’m very excited. I bought some plugs to play with until my boy can come fuck me but he’s asking about ass to mouth and having me rim him. I want to please him but I think I’m stuck on the idea that it’s risky and unclean. Thoughts?

Congratulations on your anal exploration! I hope you have a lot of fun with it.

Rimming is usually done externally only, so if you do it shortly after bathing and the recipient of the rimming cleans the area thoroughly (soaped up and well-scrubbed) there isn’t really anything unclean or dangerous about it. I think it’s only fair that you ask him to do it to you as well if you do it to him.

As for ass to mouth, many people only do that after having an enema to clean themselves out. The rectum is usually fairly clean when empty, however, and it may be perfectly fine to go ass to mouth without using an enema beforehand for some people. You’re unlikely to get sick from exposure to your own bacteria. It may be something you want to explore with a dildo or toy beforehand to see if you have any interest in it at all. If the idea doesn’t appeal to you at all after giving it a chance, don’t necessarily feel obligated to do it just because it’s something he wants.