Message: Why Do We Have to Do Ass To Mouth and Rimming?
Anonymous: Why do we have to do ATM and rimming? I’m so unhappy when my Dominant makes me do that, but I know if I don’t he’ll find some other girl that does. And those magazine covers you put on here that say we all have to do it. But I hate it. Why do I have to eat shit like that? Isn’t being uncomfortable and doing anal for him enough? Why isn’t it enough?
First, I don’t advocate doing anything you don’t want to do or forcing someone to do something they don’t want to do. I don’t want someone to be uncomfortable, in pain or hate what they’re doing. Some people on tumblr do like women to do anal and ass to mouth for those reasons, and I disagree with them and dislike their position on anal. You’re correct that some content on this blog does talk about ass to mouth, but understand that content here is always partially fantasy, and is never advocating people doing things they don’t want to. There are women who are turned on by and love giving ass to mouth, and they are more of my target with such posts, rather than pushing all women to do it even if they’re not interested.
Myself, I like anal with women who love it as much as I do and who want to be anal only. Honestly, if it hurts or is uncomfortable, you probably aren’t ready to be having anal sex yet and should be training still with toys. Or maybe you just don’t like it.
Ass to mouth is something I enjoy receiving, but I understand not everyone wants to do it, and that’s obviously fine. I only suggest doing it if you’re clean. I see this less as a form of dominance and more of a loving act, accepting your man so much you’ll even suck his cock clean after he fucks your ass.
Rimming just feels good, and I encourage everyone to try both giving and receiving it. Bathe first and there is no taste, it’s just skin, and it feels amazing to receive.
Don’t let someone pressure you into doing things you hate, especially with threats of leaving you for someone else if you don’t. I don’t know whether that’s happened in this case, but you do mention he’ll find someone else to do what he wants if you don’t. That’s not a good situation to be in, and can be prone to abuse.
The fact is, some people like ATM and rimming, and some don’t. You’re with someone who does. It’s fine if you don’t, but you’ll need to either tell him that you don’t want to do that anymore, come up with a way to enjoy it (e.g. always be clean before), or keep doing something you hate. Just because you’re in a dom/sub relationship doesn’t mean you don’t have a say—your consent should always be a factor in any relationship, and if your partner doesn’t agree, then that’s probably a relationship you shouldn’t be in.
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