Anonymous: Why does anal leave me so horny? It’s like I could go all day and night, then when it’s over I want another round! It’s all I think about till the next time! Is this normal for someone new to discovering anal in their late 20s?

Anal can be extremely arousing and tends to enhance both orgasms and arousal for women. That’s one of its many appeals, especially for those who enjoy the feeling of arousal.

In addition to anal just generally being arousing, anal only orgasms that don’t involve vaginal or clitoral stimulation will often not affect your arousal levels in the same way as a clitoral orgasm will and so don’t have the same post-orgasm crash many experience with other forms of orgasm.

I’d say to just enjoy it as much and as often as you can, and satisfy that arousal after sex with plugs and other toys!

Anonymous: It’s the woman who went anal only with her husband again. What do you think about clit stimulation? I can cum from anal without it but sometimes it’s easier to just rub my clit so I end up doing that a lot but it doesn’t seem like it’s really anal only if I do. Should I stop doing that too?

Yes, you definitely should. My answer on that is going to vary from person to person depending on each person’s situation, but from what you just said, clitoral denial would be perfect for you: you can already orgasm from anal, your clit just makes it easier. If I had to guess, I’d say that clitoral orgasms feel good but you feel kind of bad afterwards compared to anal orgasms, and anal orgasms you stay horny and can keep fucking or playing if you want to. That’s a really common thing for a lot of women, and a huge advantage of anal only orgasms with no clitoral stimulation at all.

Developing the self control to not use your clit and break those habits might be a little challenging at first, but it will be well worth it and I highly encourage it. The more you focus on anal only orgasms and stop short circuiting your pathways to orgasm with your clit, you’ll find it easier and easier to cum regularly with your ass, and you’ll start to find your clitoral urges fading over time as well, which will further reinforce your commitment to anal only.

So I’m a vaginal virgin and I have decided it’s time to give up my clit and be completely done with my pussy I love using a dildo and watching in a mirror seeing my closed pussy and the dildo going in and out but back to the subject I need some help and encouragement to give up my clit I have tried Orajel but it didn’t numb it and I can only make it like a week with out my clit but then I use it and feel guilty and ashamed I used it any ideas?

Feeling guilty and ashamed after clitoral stimulation is a fairly natural response for a lot of women, and is one of the unfortunate side effects of clitoral stimulation and orgasm. It’s not universally the case for everyone, but it’s really common. Going fully anal only and focusing only on anal pleasure is a great way to be able to enjoy sex and pleasure (and maybe even orgasm from anal) without those effects, which leads to increased arousal and better sex.

If you’ve been heavily dependent on clitoral stimulation in the past, it can be a process to get to the point of losing that urge and reliance going forward. A week is a good start. Next time try to go longer than a week. Each time you give in and touch your clit, try going even longer the next time, and over time you’ll continue to build up your self control and resistance to such urges. It’s the same as breaking any other bad habit.

Tools like Orajel, superglue, and clit shields can be helpful if they work for you, but they aren’t strictly necessary. If Orajel specifically isn’t working, you can try either applying a larger amount and seeing if that has any effect, or look at similar brands and comparing the active ingredients—different ones use different topical anesthetics, and some may work better for you than others. Another simple option is just putting tape over your pussy when you masturbate or have sex to keep yourself from touching yourself there.

And finally, I think it’s great that you’ve decided to go anal only and maintain your vaginal virginity, that’s a continually growing trend that I really encourage. One day we’re going to have an anal only generation, and women like yourself are the first step towards that.

Anonymous: I love your enthusiasm for the anal only lifestyle and double anal! What got you started with anal only and what made you decide to stop using your pussy? And how often do you do double anal?

elegantphdap: Thank you.
I can’t remember when it all started. Vaginal sex didn’t provide me the right feelings so I tried anal sex and it overwhelmd me. The pussy distracts me when enjoing sex.

babyashke: Picked up a new fuck master and he informed me right off the bat that my cunt is for abusing only. His cock belongs in my ass and my throat only, in whichever order he decides. I’m reminding myself not to propose on the first date lol.

Congratulations for meeting a partner who shares your desire for anal only! It can be a wonderful thing.

debaucherycat: Yep. I spend a full month without touching my pussy. And it’s been a loooong month for me. Worst of all – this denial is not over yet.

But first things first. Did I enjoy it? Immensely. I was obscenely horny for days on end. There were moments when I was not in the mood. But those were few, and I guess that was mostly influenced by hormones.

We had way more sex than before. And I don’t mean a bit more, but twice or trice more. We talked a lot. We shared fantasies and made them come true. Well, some of them, that is. Others are either too complicated or too dirty. For now. I’ve got fucked hard and wild in all the best ways. And I didn’t get a single orgasm.

It did things to me. To my mind. And body. I’ve never been this submissive. Not ever in my life. I’ve never even imagined that the idea of devoting all my sex life to someone else’s pleasure could seem so hot for me. It does now. I can’t stop thinking about being made to serve as a mere fucktoy for the rest of my life. If that’s not fucked up, I don’t know what is.

The only way I am allowed to stimulate myself now is by playing with my ass and nipples. I did a lot of that. I’d watch some porn, then stand in front of the mirror, my pants pushed down and shirt up, rubbing my nipples and pushing fingers into my dirty hole. Ah, the humiliation of it… And the feeling of hot pulse in the drippy denied pussy…

Do I miss touching? Desperately so. Most of all, I miss His tongue on my clit. I’d give almost anything for it by now.

Will I go back to the previous routine of daily edging and weekly orgasms? Not likely. At least, I hope He will not allow me to. I enjoy not having control over my pleasure way too much. And, I dare say, he enjoys me like this even more. I’m going to ask for a single change, though. I want Him to touch my pussy again. For as much and as often as He decides. And in a way He decides.

So, wish me luck. It is a difficult journey, fucking myself up like that.

Anonymous: I need your advice. I’m anal only and hate when guys try to touch my pussy. I’m so fed up to always tell them I’m anal only when we have sex for the first time with them. Like which girl wants to still be fucked in her pussy? My question is now what can I do so I don’t have to always tell them I’m anal only? When I’m wearing a plug they don’t get always the hint. Thanks for your help in advance and I love your blog ?

A butt plug is a good start, but that just shows you like anal play, not that you’re anal only. Communication is good, and should probably still be a part of things most of the time even if you find it annoying to need to tell them to not fuck your pussy.

Tape over your pussy is a quick and easy short term option that gets the message across fairly easily, but doesn’t last very long. Some women get “ANAL ONLY” tattoos over their pussy, or use temporary tattoos when hooking up to illustrate that point. Some get chastity piercings to be able to close access to their pussy with rings or bars.

Announcing this year’s upcoming No Pussy November challenge! One of the best ways to experience the realities and benefits of the anal only lifestyle is to challenge yourself to go anal only without any vaginal sex for an entire month. It’s enough time to immerse yourself in the lifestyle and work past any early difficulties, without being a scary up-front commitment to dive straight into long-term anal only. Countless anal only couples and individuals got their start with No Pussy November or with a similar month-long challenge.

The rules are simple: from November 1 to 30, you will not engage in vaginal intercourse. Any further restrictions beyond that are up to you—whether you include clitoral stimulation, for example, depends on your own preferences and needs. Many choose not to in the hopes of achieving pure anal only pleasure and orgasms, others prefer the combination of anal and clit stimulation.

For those of us already anal only, there’s no need to feel left out: if there’s some new twist on the anal only lifestyle that you are curious to try, this is the perfect opportunity to explore it! Consider adding clitoral denial, ass to mouth, wider or deeper anal stretching, double anal, long term plug wear, orgasm denial, physical chastity, anal only tattoos (whether temporary or permanent), clit numbing, or anything else that might interest you into the mix as your personal challenge for the month.

So, get your ideas ready and start talking to your partner to get them on board! If you’re single, you can still participate as well—when masturbating, keep it strictly anal only, and when hooking up, just tell them that you’re participating in No Pussy November and are only doing anal and oral. Don’t forget to share your plans and ideas with us.

Questions and requests for advice are also always welcome at any time.

puxxxyy: Thoughts

1. I love my plugged up little ass.. it makes me so drippy
2. My cunt is useless, I should only fuck my ass
3. My holes should ALWAYS be tight for master
4. I’m tired, I should be sleeping
5. I’m a desperate whore, id do anything to touch

Anonymous: How can a person manage anal only if they’re not capable of having penetration-only orgasms? Is it still anal only if I use my clit to cum? Or is there any way I can “learn” to cum from anal? (P.S. I love anal and am pretty well versed in it, just can’t get off from it).

Yes, it’s still anal only if you need to combine clit stimulation with anal. I encourage going without clitoral stimulation and learning to focus just on anal pleasure, but not everyone is at that point yet, and you can absolutely still be anal only. So by all means, go anal only now, and over time work towards using your clit less and less until you don’t feel the need for it anymore.

Many people have had success learning to have anal only orgasms over time, often through a combination of clitoral denial and the resulting increase in arousal that comes from that, and a daily practice of anal masturbation and sex. Excluding clitoral stimulation for a while and becoming extremely horny as a result opens your body up more to alternate paths to orgasm, and frequent anal stimulation fills that void and can start to develop the ability to orgasm that way.