Anonymous: I live in a city that requires everyone to stay at home unless they have to go out, so my boyfriend and I have been staying in with my roommate for several weeks.

We are all very close. We have done a few threesomes before, and we have always done it spitroasting, because my boyfriend and I have only done anal for a few years, and I have not done vaginal or DP.

In any case, since the isolation began, we have been fucking non-stop, and since our friend has no girlfriend and is trapped at home, we have always included him so much that we are more like now a three-way relationship. I don’t know if this will continue, but it’s actually really hot, and I like to have two boyfriends to concentrate on me and get their frustration of being trapped out in my ass.

We have talked to him about anal only, he also prefers anal, so this is not a problem, but we started to read the blog together and showed him our favorite things and ideas, we saw a lot of double anal has been mentioned, so we thought we want to try it.

We first did a lot of exercises with toys, and then we did it. Once we figured out the position (I like cowgirl and reverse cowgirl best, you can put the second dick in the best position), it ’s easy . We’ve fucked enough, it didn’t hurt at all, but when they started to fuck me, it was almost to much pleasure. I think you can say that I fell in love with it immediately, and I soon reached a climax.

Afterwards, both of them said that they loved it too, so we decided to try it once or twice a week now to let my butt rest between, although it has not been so painful so far. We still fuck a few times a day in the usual way, because there is actually nothing else to do, and I think this has made us all more intimate, and hope we can maintain this state. Well, we will not get out soon, so we will keep going as much as we can. Even if I have been fucked so much, I am so horny! I just keep looking forward to the next time, I want them both in my ass again!

Thank you for sharing your experiences! It sounds like you’re making the most of this otherwise trying time, and it’s great to hear that it’s opened you up (in more ways than one!) to new anal experiences. Double anal is certainly becoming an increasingly popular thing for women to do, and I always like hearing from more people who are doing it. It’s a unique sensation that’s different from anything else sexually, and can be intensely pleasurable when done right—and it sounds like you’re doing it right!

It’s smart to ease into it, even if it’s wonderful for all of you. You might certainly be able before long to get to where you can do it every day, but making sure you don’t injure yourself or get too sore is a very good idea, and do more each week until you’re all getting it as much as you want!

Although I’m (F/28) not 100% sure on going fully anal only, I’ve been doing some research whilst anal training myself during isolation.

I suggested to my bf we try an anal only month and he said yes and I just want to say thank you to this subreddit for the information and personal experiences and stories that have helped motivate me more and for the recommendations.

I’ve done anal plenty of times before so I’m not a total rookie with it but I’m definitely keen to really dive into it (at my own pace… obviously).

Have definitely been enjoying it so far and even denying clit stimulation to help me achieve anal orgasms, Im also eagerly anticipating some new toys.

So, thank you!

A Reddit user responds:

Glad to see you taking steps to going anal only. You won’t regret this. Make sure to update us when the month is over and tell us how it went. I know you’ll be thankful you tried it

To which the original poster replies:

I shall update you in a couple of months, I think I’ve become obsessed. Not stopped thinking about it for days and I’ve sat with two different plugs in for the best part of the day and used a dildo for the first time. I think it will go well…

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Christy: What is your opinion on ‘painal?’ I am currently single, and because of social isolation orders and the virus I have been masturbating anal only for five weeks, to kick off my anal only journey. I have found the only way I can orgasm from anal is if I have a plug or toy in that is (probably) too big for me, if it leaves me sobbing from pain and burns the entire time I have it in/play with myself. Is this unsafe? I’m making sure to use plenty of lube and would stop if I thought I had injured myself.

Ultimately, you have to listen to your body and determine whether you think it’s causing harm or not. It’s a little bit of a gray area, but I believe there is a fine line you can ride where there is intentional pain but it’s not causing injury. This would be the same sort of stretching that might cause pain when doing yoga or warmup stretches before exercise—it can be painful, but isn’t harmful.

If there’s more of a sharp pain, or it leaves you particularly sore for days, or feeling raw afterwards, or if you encounter bleeding, then you’re probably going too far with it, but otherwise you’re probably fine. What you want to avoid are tears/fissures and muscle injuries.

Anonymous: Hi, I’m the same person asking about orgasm vs pleasure. I meant to say I wonder what’s the difference between climax and orgasm, specifically for anal at least

For many people, they can be the same thing, I think. However, for most women, I don’t think that anal orgasms are a climax in the sense of one big explosion of pleasure that then ends their arousal and sex is over. There can be a building and release of pleasure, but often without that loss of arousal, and they can keep going and stay aroused and want more.

For others, anal orgasms are climactic and wear them out quickly and they have to stop after, but that seems far less common than with clitoral/vaginal orgasms.

For those who are anal receivers, all the time spent at home during the COVID-19 pandemic can be a great opportunity to train your ass and practice going anal only, even if on your own, or prepare yourself for a future anal only lifestyle by getting your ass ready for it through daily practice.

Set up a daily routine of anal fingering, masturbating with dildos, and butt plug wear, gradually going larger and for longer amounts of time as you get more experienced. If you need your clit to relax enough for it, use it, otherwise try going without it and seeing if you can learn to orgasm just from anal.

Be sure to check out our guide to anal sex and the anal only lifestyle for detailed advice on how to train for anal sex and adopt the anal only lifestyle.

And as always, share with us how your training goes, or any questions you might have!

Is there any tips on how to cum from anal only? Or is it different for everyone?

Just relax and enjoy it. Once you get past the initial stretch and mild pain (if you’ve learned to relax) it will automatically turn into pleasure. If you mentally want it and your not fighting it then you’ll feel it hit all the right spots deep inside you. From that you’ll release and should have a very strong orgasm. It’s part mental part physical. You have to want it and learn to relax and accept it in. Once you’re use to it you shouldn’t have any trouble. I hope you enjoy and have fun.

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Anonymous: Hey, I have a question. I know that both waves of pleasure and orgasm are pleasurable, but not exactly the same. What does anal orgasm feel like? I have played with my asshole since entering into my AO lifestyle, I have always preferred feeling waves of pleasure and arousal-like feeling in my asshole. I don’t mind if I get orgasms just from anal, it’s just that every time I play with my asshole, it feels amazing and intense.

Different people experience anal orgasms a little differently, with some feeling it as a climactic event with strong muscle spasms, while others describe it more like you’re experiencing it with waves of pleasure that just keep coming without being as climactic as other types of orgasms might be.

Ultimately, it doesn’t matter—if you enjoy what you’re experiencing and it provides you with the pleasure and satisfaction that you need in order to stay anal only, then it sounds like that’s exactly what you need!

I’ve done anal before welll a few times. I guess I’m curious if there are others who find or struggle with having/reaching an orgasm through/from anal?

analonlynz

An assortment of responses:

I’ve never had an orgasm from solely anal and I’ve been AO for a long time. It’s become my preference honestly.

KaraBear_94

It only took me a couple weeks of increased anal only and ignoring my clit. It happens when I get relaxed enough to let him REALLY pound me harder and faster. To be able to take that I wear a somewhat large plug for hours every day. The orgasm feels really good. There will suddenly be a big increase in how good the stimulation feels and then like a full body wave of pleasure. It subsides without a sharp peak feeling that would normally make me want to stop all stimulation. It’s great to feel that wave of extreme pleasures and then want to keep going.

thepetgirl

It seems to be a 50/50 deal with my partners. (Me male, them female)

Either they dont enjoy anal and cant get any pleasure from it at all, or it makes them orgasm anywhere from 1-4 times a session. The second type of girl is a gift from heaven.

Try different positions. I have found doggy is easier to do for them pain wise, but rarely if ever does it cause orgasms. Try ditching the bed and do it on the floor. While its not as comfortable on the knees, your butt might thank you for the deeper connection and your back will bend easier for proper entry. Trust me, he will thank you also.

Best success by far is with the seashell position (basically missionary on back with legs raised. The pressure according to partners gives the most full filling possible). Most of the time i have ever made a woman orgasm is this way. This is tougher to pull off for less experienced couples but well worth the difficulty curb in my humble opinion of only really being interested in anal with a woman since i was interested in sex.

Also prone boning (women lays flat face down) has a high learning curve, but does create some orgasms for both partners. One more recommendation if you are spry enough and the height differential isnt too off is standing anal. Its tough to orgasm for a male, but its really kinky and some women have found it exciting enough to get off.

You may require clitoral stimulation. You may need to try other positions. You may need to build some more confidence with it. You may just not be able to orgasm from it. That’s all fine and great. The fact that you would do this for a man makes you a superstar

kakarott1224

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Hi everyone. I’ve been having more and more anal with my partner lately and he agreed to do a week of AO. It has been awesome and I’m going to ask him if we can try doing all of March! The last 2 times I didn’t touch my clit at all (I’m also not allowed to touch my clit unless he says okay) and I experienced what I think was an anal orgasm both times. I felt intense pleasure all of a sudden and it didnt have the same sharp peak as a clit orgasm but I did feel this incredible relaxed amazing feeling through my whole body afterwards.
I have also given into a long term fantasy of mine and finally ordered a real chastity belt from Fancy Steel. I can’t wait.

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A Quora user asks that question and gets the following response:

Different, generally, because women can orgasm from friction in the anus itself

and men generally only from prostate stimulation from inside the rectum.

Generally women prefer anal sex to vaginal sex because of this, because the vagina does not contain genital corpuscles but the inner anus does.

A woman can orgasm from stimulation of her clitoris, inner anus (anal sex) or even nipples, as all three contain genital corpuscles necessary to a female orgasm.

Matthew Deagle, Quora

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