Anonymous: Do you ever miss having anything in your pussy?

kayleebooks: nah, especially considering with a big enough cock in my ass I can orgasm so hard I don’t just see god, I get to have a long conversation with him, check in and plan to get together again in a few minutes.

Anonymous: My boyfriend and I have been interested into trying a month of anal only to see how it goes and we have been taking it slow to make sure I don’t get hurt and he doesn’t hurt himself either but we have run into an issue. Because of taking it slow he has an issue with staying hard enough (we really haven’t done anal much so he has to be 100% hard to get it in) and then I get turned off bc I feel like it’s my fault any advice?

Only go as slowly as you need to. If you’re fine and it isn’t hurting, you can try to go faster. You don’t need to go slowly just for the sake of going slowly, you should just listen to your body and what it needs, and go slowly when necessary but not when you’re fine. You can also warm up with some solo play and by wearing a butt plug before having sex so you’re more ready from the start.

Anonymous: I just came from anal for the first time. All I can say is .. holy shit!! That was infinitely better than any orgasm I ever had from my pussy. I feel amazing

Congratulations, that’s wonderful! Now you can see why so many people are going anal only—why waste time with something that’s nowhere near as comparably pleasurable?

In recent times, I have on these blogs, and other people on other blogs have as well, been making more of a focus on clitoral denial in conjunction with anal only and the advantages and increased pleasure that can stem from it. While I stand by that, and encourage people to explore it alongside anal only, if it doesn’t interest you or you need or simply like clitoral stimulation along with your anal sex—that doesn’t make you any less anal only, and I certainly don’t want to make anyone feel like they aren’t “truly” anal only unless they give up their clit.

I’m going to keep sharing what I like and what I think works well, including the things I prefer and fantasize about—especially in porn captions—and not everything will necessarily always appeal or apply to every follower, but that doesn’t mean that my way is the only way. I may not always effectively differentiate between my fantasy voice and my real, sincere voice, but do know that wherever my fantasy voice my head down different and sometimes somewhat extreme paths, my real position is always this:

Do what you want and what works for you. Do it because you love it and because it’s thrilling and fun. Try new things with it, but don’t feel like there’s only one way to be anal only just because other people may be doing things differently. Experiment with new things, but if they aren’t working for you or aren’t fun in some way, don’t feel obligated to continue them. And don’t feel obligated to be anal only if you aren’t enjoying it anymore, either. Sex is supposed to be consensual and fun, and anal only should be no different.

Anonymous: you are patriarchy at its finest

Women choosing to have exclusively anal sex because it gives them better pleasure and satisfaction and they enjoy it far more than vaginal is patriarchy?

mlu2p: Thank your so much for documenting your journey to a anal-only lifestyle. Do you manage to orgasm when you get ass fucked ?

cute-submissive-nyc-universe: Thank you for following me! I’ve not achieved orgasm thru anal yet, but I am hoping that with more experience, I will be able to.

pleasecomeformedaddy: Day 1

I can’t think of anything except the fact that I am an anal/oral only whore now. It turns me on so much, and that makes me want to touch myself, which reminds me I’m not allowed to, which turns me on more…and on and on. It’s a horrible positive feedback loop.
Before my partner wakes up, I need to train my ass with my fingers for 10 minutes.
I don’t know how I’m going to survive this. I’ve just started and I already feel like a braindead cockwhore

cutelittlefuckpig: Okay, starting tomorrow any and all masturbating must involve ass fucking for the next week?

Anonymous: I’ve been interested in anal masturbation for a couple of months, and have only gotten back into it a couple of days ago. I was wondering if you had recommendations for household lubricants that could be used anally? I understand actual lubes are better and holds less risk, and will probably invest in some when I can, but for now would want to try to experiment first. Thanks in advance!

Coconut oil is becoming a popular lube and many homes already have some in their kitchen. Certain lotions can work, though the simpler the better, likely, and you’d usually want to avoid scented lotions as they can sometimes cause a burning sensation. Shampoo should be avoided as it usually burns, though some have been known to use conditioner. I can’t say how safe that is. Vaseline may work, though it is quite thick. Saliva is potentially usable for some purposes, and easy to obtain.

Anonymous: Last night I got my S.O. to agree to a week of anal only! I’m so excited, but I’m worried running off to clean myself every time he puts the moves on me is going to ruin the mood! I need some advice.

Congratulations!

If you have a fairly consistent time during which you often have sex (e.g. evenings) you can clean yourself in advance just to be prepared.

If you have and use a butt plug, you can put it in before possible sex time, both to warm you up and prepare you, and to help clean you out. Having a plug in can move things along, as it were, as well as provide you an opportunity to check how clean you are.

Not everyone is comfortable with just this, but if you have a balanced diet with a good amount of fiber, you’re generally going to be pretty clean anyway and can usually get away with just going to the bathroom in advance. But if you want to be totally confident that you’re clean, then you may want to do more.

Enjoy!

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meandnooneelse138: Understand that sometimes things can happen. And so what? My wife gives me anal almost anytime I want it. We are not into fecal play at all, but sometimes she does not have a chance to “empty” first. And you know what, it doesn’t matter. It’s still hot. It still feels good. And on the end there was very little mess. We just jumped in the shower and washed off. Of course we have a very comfortable relationship, so that makes a difference.

slutprogrammer: Don’t overdo the fiber, though. It can make things worse.