Category: Anal Only Lifestyle


Forum: Tail Plug 24/7

Hi everyone, just want to share my experience and love of tail butt plugs. Specifically wolf and fox tails with metal plugs. It’s not so much for sexual pleasure (I’m single at the moment) but I like the look and feel of them. I saw them a couple of years ago and immediately just had to have one. I stopped using them after a couple of months and got rid of my collection because I somehow thought it’ not normal and I shouldn’t do this. Recently I just got the urge again and ordered another fox tail plug. I’ve been training my butt and am now quite comfortable wearing it long term. I want to try and wear my tail as often as possible and will not take it out while I’m at home. I’ve started to sleep with it in for the last couple of nights so let’s see how this is going☺The first night was a bit of a challenge as the plug wasn’t all that comfortable and it kept me up for most of the night. It didn’t hurt so I just adjusted myself and tried to relax. Last night was the second night and after wearing the plug for 2 days straight (exception of bath and toilet) it already was more comfortable. It’s just wonderful to wake up with my beautiful tail coming out of my ass. I have not touched my vagina in about 3 months as I want to only use my ass and plug it all the time with my tail. Does anyone else use tail butt plugs on the regular?

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Vaginal Sex is Unsustainable

In his recent documentary A Life on Our Planet, David Attenborough said that “anything that we can’t do forever is by definition, unsustainable.” On multiple levels, vaginal sex meets this definition of an unsustainable act.

Widespread reproduction is unsustainable

Vaginal sex is inherently a reproductive act. That is its primary function, and everything about it puts that function above all else. Pleasure, intimacy, stress relief, and the other benefits of sex come second to the fact that it’s intended for getting pregnant and making babies.

But, we can’t sustain a constantly growing birth rate, and we’re already seeing so many negative effects from our population as it currently stands. It’s time to separate reproduction from sex entirely, and make sex be purely about pleasure, intimacy and bonding. Anal serves that purpose so much better than vaginal, with zero reproductive functions at all. Not only does this amplify the enjoyment of sex for its own purpose, it empowers everyone involved by giving them control over when and if they want to get pregnant while having a fully and free sex life.

Birth control causes packaging waste

Artificial forms of birth control can provide a level of the same benefits, but they have their own issues of sustainability. Not only does the contraceptive pill require daily consumption and corresponding waste in disposable packaging, it costs money in places like the U.S. and can end up a choice between having a safe sex life without worry of pregnancy or having money for other things. It can also come with many side effects that limit enjoyment of sex or even risk one’s health later in life with increased chances of cancer.

Anal sex doesn’t have those side effects, and provides natural birth control while amplifying arousal and sex drive, without the health risks that come from hormonal birth control. It doesn’t require wasteful packaging or spending money on pills, it’s something anyone can do without risk of pregnancy and without needing any additional component.

Vaginal sex gets worse the longer you do it

While it’s somewhat overexaggerated at times, a common trope with vaginal sex is that vaginas get loose over time and sex becomes less enjoyable. There is some truth to this, though it is less about use and more about age and pregnancy. A member of the anal only community recently described it as vaginas naturally getting looser over time and having to work to keep them tight, while anuses naturally try to stay tight and you have to constantly work to keep them relaxed for sex. The latter trends towards things staying more stimulating for everyone involved over a long term relationship and sex life.


All told, there are many benefits to the anal only lifestyle, and it can play an important role in our sustainable future contributing to the continued survival of the human species and the rest of our planet.

Reddit: How Long Did It Take To Cum From Anal?

At the moment I can only cum from clitoral stimulation and anal, but I’ve read some posts on here where ladies have cum from just anal and I want that

An excerpt of several good responses:

I started to be fucked in the ass in July or August last year. Then closer to Christmas I started using buttplugs when I played with myself and earlier this month I used a vibrator and a dildo to play only with my ass! I kept playing when my body wanted to stop and then I squirted and came on the dildo! I was so proud I had to tell my Daddy (Dom) immediately

Little-CocoPops, /r/analonlylifestyle

My wife is the same way as you but unfortunately she doesn’t have the same hunger to cum solely from anal as you. We’re AO at this point because of some ongoing vaginal issues she’s having (which we suspect are due to her taking immunosuppressants for her autoimmune disease), but she needs her vibrator on her clit to cum, no matter what. She’ll have massive anal orgasms, but once she cums her psychological lust for anal dissipates, and she’s like “honey you gotta try to cum, I can’t go much longer.” Every time I broach the subject of “why don’t we try to slowly gradually train you away from your vibrator?” She gets pissed.

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Message: Getting Virgin Girlfriend Into Anal

Ted: Hi! I’m Ted, a 26yo male VERY MUCH into anal. I knew I wanted anal only after watching my first porn video at 16yo. Thankfully, I’m attractive, with a boyish face that pleases the ladies, so I never had to compromise too much with vaginal or clitoral action. I’m either dating women who are already into anal, or getting women to try it.

My ultimate dream would be to be in a couple with a younger, complete vaginal virgin, who never had her pussy fucked and who barely/never stimulated her pussy at all (no clit/vaginal action), but who’d be available non stop for oral and anal action. Also, I’m into orgasm denial in the sense that to me, the only orgasms a woman should get are those gained naturally from anal.

Months ago, through friends, I met this cute 21 year-old who quickly grew fond of me. We had a few dates, we got closer, and recently, she confessed to me she’s a complete virgin, and she’d love me to teach her what sex is all about.

This is a golden opportunity. She’s beautiful, small, smart, innocent, funny, we have good things in common, she’s just my type of girl. I tried to question her about sex, and apparently, she has next to no experience, even by herself or through porn.

I’d like to know if you have any advice to help me get her into pure anal, no compromise. I’m very afraid to screw up and chase her away, even if she’s so much into me that IMO she could accept a lot.

I thought the better approach, rather than flat out say I prefer anal, would be to suggest anal for contraception, as a first step. I know she doesn’t take the pill, so I could say I can’t stand condoms and I’m scared to penetrate her vaginally. Then if I can get her hooked on anal, or at least be used to it, it’d be easier to go from there.

I’m already planning to use the content you have here, like the super well-made The Dangers of Clit Stimulation, to keep her from pussy action once she’s accepted anal.

What do you think?

I recommend being honest and up front and not trying to manipulate her, just present your case for preferring anal, why you think anal pleasure is so much better than vaginal, and how it can amplify her pleasure to keep things anal only from the start without distracting her pleasure with multiple sources and reducing both rather than focusing just on the one with the most potential for pleasure.

Present the benefits: greater pleasure, more intimacy and trust, and natural birth control. From there, you can talk about how it’s what you’ve always much preferred and how you think it’s really attractive and sexy that she hasn’t had vaginal sex and that you’d like her to try going and staying anal only with you and keeping her pussy virgin.

Only a Few Weeks Until Anal Only April 2021!

Craving something new? Why not go anal only for a whole month? Challenge yourself to Anal Only April.

Anal Only April is only a few weeks away, so if you’re planning on taking part, be sure to make your plans either for yourself with training with toys or with a partner to ensure that everyone is on board with a month of anal only!

Have you been curious about going anal only but haven’t had the push to actually try it for yourself? Well, now is the perfect opportunity. Anal Only April is one of several challenge months where we encourage people interested in the anal only lifestyle to make a month-long commitment and try out pure anal for themselves.

The rules of Anal Only April are simple: starting April 1st, whether on your own or with your significant other, stop all vaginal penetration for sex and masturbation, and replace it with anal instead.

Clitoral stimulation is optional. If you would like to go for a more advanced form of anal only, try doing it without touching your clit and only orgasming through anal. If you need your clit in order to enjoy anal, combine it with anal, but only rub your clit while also masturbating anally.

Oral sex is still allowed and encouraged, especially blowjobs and rimming. Cunnilingus is optional—some choose to exclude it, others still include it but don’t engage in any vaginal penetration as part of it.

Try your best to stick with anal only for the whole month—it’s a long enough period of time that while you might struggle a little bit with it at first, whether adjusting to the frequency of anal sex, or dealing with lingering cravings for vaginal sex or clitoral stimulation, by the end of a month most people figure out what being anal only is really like, and a majority of people who enjoyed their month trial either choose to stay anal only and not go back to vaginal, or return to it again later after a break.

If you’re already anal only, don’t worry—you can still enjoy Anal Only April yourself. Challenge yourself to have anal sex every day of the month, or to start wearing a butt plug or masturbate anally every day, or to experiment with clitoral denial and anal only orgasms if you aren’t already, or to start doing ass to mouth regularly, or to train your ass with bigger toys to be able to do anal fisting or double anal. The possibilities are endless for exploring new things as part of the anal only lifestyle. If you already enjoy double anal, consider trying making April a double anal only month—whether with two partners every time, or with a partner and a dildo, or two dildos.

Over the next couple weeks, get your plans in order, get your partner (if any) on board, and if you haven’t had anal sex yet or for a while, start working on training so that by the time Anal Only April begins, you’re ready to dive in!

If you decide to take part, let us know! Share your plans, ask any questions, and keep us updated as you start exploring the anal only lifestyle!

Forum: Exploring Anal Only to Avoid Orgasm

40 F here, new to the AO Lifestyle. I haven’t actually begun my journey as AO yet. It’s something I discovered recently while evolving in my submissive role. I just got out of a relationship with someone who loves my pussy more than anal so, it was impossible to het him to even go AO with me temporarily. 

But it was because of something he did that got me into this. Basically, he has a thing against period sex, but we were still so horny when I had my period that he decided to go anal on me one morning. And from then on that’s what we did instead of PIV see during that time. What I noticed was the sexual rush I’d get from being teased. From almost getting what I really wanted – my pussy taken and the resulting big O – and getting something else instead. I cannot come from anal. I can get to a point where it almost feels like I’m climaxing but then the feeling drops. What happens is that I’m left feeling super horny because my orgasm needs weren’t fulfilled and I stay aroused for days on end. It’s crazy. I love it.

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Reddit: Two Months Anal Only

It’s now been about two months since my daddy (30m) and I (25f) became anal only. We both love it so much that about a week ago, he instructed me to create this reddit account where I could share photos, videos and stories of my ass getting used (only when he tells me to or gives me permission).

A little context: I am from an incredibly conservative/religious background, and didn’t lose my virginity until I was over 18 years old. Porn was my intro to anal, BDSM, and most other kinks in my vocabulary. By day I’m a highly successful knowledge worker—and when daddy wants me to be, a highly successful knowledge worker who’s also training her ass or taking slutty videos/photos. By night, I’m a sub who loves doing anything and everything daddy wants, whenever he wants.

We talked for several weeks before actually meeting up for drinks, and afterwards while sexting realized we were both into anal. I was an anal virgin and so a little nervous about trying it, but daddy was very convincing and knowledgeable…so we ended up having anal sex the first time we hooked up. I immediately loved it and so did daddy! I pretty quickly told him I was open to being anal-only and in the end, he only used my pussy twice in the time I’ve known him. A couple days after our last regular sex, daddy told me I was his anal-only whore, and the rest is history 🙂

Since then I’ve found out I absolutely love denying my pussy and even my clit sometimes just so daddy gets to use my fuckhole exactly how he wants. Knowing he can cum whenever he wants and wherever he wants (mostly up my ass or on my face), but I can only cum when he tells me to and when I’m also stretching my hole out, is such a turn-on. Plus it helps me remember that I’m just a toy for him to use. I love when he calls me his anal fleshlight and uses me accordingly…Sometimes he cums in my ass and then stuffs me with a plug, then makes me run errands or go on a walk with his cum inside me.

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Article: How to Safely Stretch Your Anus for Anal Play

Do us a favor and try to do the splits. Go ahead, we’ll wait.

Can’t do it? Most people can’t without a lot of stretching and training first.

Turns out it’s the same for stretching your anus.

Like other muscles, your anal sphincter is only accustomed to stretching so far. If you want to loosen it up, it’s going to require some work.

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Guest Post: My Anal Only Bucket List

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Serve Anal Only Clients as a Sex Worker

As a sex worker, my job is primarily to cater to the fantasies of my clients. I have little control over what those are and most of the time, they already know what they want when they approach me to book an appointment.

That said, some of my clients certainly do have anal sex fetishes. And that’s fantastic! Needless to say, they are automatically bumped to the top of my list.

Unfortunately, I don’t have a large enough group of clients with an anal fetish to exclusively offer services to them while still being able to fully support myself financially.

That part is something I could probably overcome with enough time and patience. It wouldn’t be impossible to slowly build a list of steady clients who love anal sex.

But the bigger problem with that is the majority of those clients I have with an anal fetish also seem to expect vaginal sex as well. I only have two reliable clients who are truly anal only.

Alas, it would be the ultimate accomplishment if I were able to pull this off!

Have 100% Anal Only Orgasms

While each woman is different, I know I can’t be the only one who struggles to master the art of the 100% anal only orgasm.

While there is absolutely no doubt that anal sex feels far superior to vaginal in terms of pleasure, neither type of penetration has ever resulted in orgasms for me.

I have arrived at the conclusion that the pleasure I feel from anal is more intense and far preferable to any orgasms I could have by stimulating my clit.”

Ashly

Which is actually kind of okay, I have come to realize over time.

I know some women who are anal only still include clitoral stimulation in their sex lives in order to climax, and there is nothing wrong with going that route at all!

But I happen to be in the no clit stimulation camp, which may simply mean I end up not experiencing orgasms at all.

While this might not be acceptable to all women, I have arrived at the conclusion that the pleasure I feel from anal is more intense and far preferable to any orgasms I could have by stimulating my clit.

Get My Boyfriend to Commit to Anal Only

Don’t misunderstand me here, my boyfriend loves anal sex as much as I do!

In fact, according to him, it was when I told him to put it in my ass during our very first hookup that he claims was the moment he knew he wanted to marry me someday.

All jokes aside though, we are both all about it. But to be honest, I have not brought up the idea of being strictly anal with him yet. Granted, we have only been together about six months so far.

It’s not that I’m worried he will react in a negative way, but I want to be sure that he understands where I’m coming from fully before I broach the subject.

I guess it’s just got to be the right time and setting and I need to be totally confident in how I communicate the idea to him.

I don’t imagine it will be much longer before I bring it up, so wish me luck!

Get a Vaginal Chastity Piercing

I first found out about this type of body art several years ago when I stumbled upon a couple of Tumblr blogs featuring photos of all the variations available.

While I had heard of clit piercings, I had no idea about chastity piercings or how many different styles were possible.

While imagining myself in the chair about to be pierced makes me wince a good deal at the pain involved, the main reason I haven’t taken the leap yet is that I’m pretty shy about this sort of thing with strangers.

I’m not the type of gal who would just walk into a body piercing parlor and walk right up to the desk and ask if vaginal chastity piercings are a thing they offer. I’m just not comfortable with that situation.

Personally, I’d need to do enough research privately beforehand or get a recommendation from someone I know in real life before approaching any place where I could get something like this done.

But once I have a trusted recommendation, I think I would like to get one.


Of course, this list is just the tip of the iceberg for me.

Ideally, I’d like to publish more about my love for anal sex and help to promote its acceptance as a healthy and desirable way of life to help others discover better sex sooner in life than I did!

My hope is that I can make some small contribution to normalizing the lifestyle on a greater societal level.

Cheers!
Ashly