H Dean: For about the last 2 1/2 years my GF and I have been AO. An anal virgin prior to me introducing it to her, she requested we go AO within a week after her first anal orgasm – multiples, mind you. Over the last 2 1/2 years her ass has become quite receptive.

Now, my GF is a bit hesitant with the use of plugs. I introduced a Hush plug to her about a year and a half back. She said it was okay but tended to hurt after awhile. About 6 months ago I got a Square Pegg Medium sized egg plug. We started sporadic use of it shortly thereafter. Still she was hesitant.

It was on a warm day this summer I pushed a little and managed to get her to agree to using the plug. After installing it in her ass we left the house and went about our day. After returning to the house some five hours later I asked how her ass felt with the plug. Turns out she had actually forgotten it was in until certain movements reminded her of it.

Since that occasion we have used the plug only sporadically. Most recently I installed it after sex one night. It was in for about 8 hours while she slept and she didn’t seem to notice it.

So, why am I telling you this? Well, because I have discovered some very nice things about anal stretching:

First, once an ass is properly stretched entry is quite easy. Used to be that when my GF would get a little over exuberant and thrust her ass down on my cock so quickly it would cause pain from the sudden stretch. Since we have started plugging more frequently that no longer happens. In fact, if my cock is lubricated I can enter her in one quick thrust with zero pain.

Next, once stretched there the need for lube is lessened. For a long time we have only used saliva for lube. She would suck my cock and get it good and wet and then ease in. Now, she just rubs a little saliva on her ass and I can ease right in. The increased friction sends her over the top almost instantly and there is no pain.

Another benefit since using the square peg plug, so it seems, she has gained use of previously unused muscles. As most male anal enthusiasts know the sphincter tends to be the epicenter of sensation – it squeezes. Deep inside there tends to be far less constriction of your cock. However, at least after using this plug, her anal canal feels much like a sheath and I can feel far more sensation along the entire length of my cock.

Finally, while my GF was always quick to orgasm, she seems to orgasm more quickly and with greater intensity after making use of the plug.

In closing, and based recent experiences, I would highly recommend anal stretching for anyone who enjoys anal as we do. It’s proven quite beneficial.

Welcome to Stretching September! This month, we’re putting a spotlight on the art of anal stretching, an essential part of the anal only journey. Whether you’re just starting out or have been enjoying anal for a while, Stretching September is about deepening your understanding and skill of this incredible practice.

If you’re new to the anal only lifestyle, Stretching September is the ideal time to start exploring the world of anal stretching. Start by using fingers or small toys and remember to take your time, using plenty of lube and going at a pace that feels comfortable. The aim is not to rush but to understand and respect your body’s limits while steadily progressing.

For those of you who are already familiar with anal stretching, this month is an opportunity to explore new challenges. Perhaps you could try a bigger plug or dildo, or push the duration of your stretching sessions. Always ensure that you’re warmed up properly and in a comfortable and relaxed state before attempting to stretch further.

For our advanced anal only enthusiasts, we’ve got the “Stretching Superstar” challenge. This is all about pushing your limits and reaching new milestones in anal stretching. Whether that means being able to take a larger toy, fist, or even double anal, we encourage you to safely and slowly progress throughout the month.

As always, safety and consent are the cornerstones of all our challenges. Use plenty of lubrication, listen to your body’s signals, and never push yourself too far, too fast. Stretching September is about celebrating the journey of anal stretching, not just the destination.

Ready to embark on Stretching September? Let us know your plans and share your progress with us!

Rimmer: We do ass to mouth sometimes but last month decided to make it a regular thing, so timely that you are encouraging Ass to Mouth August. we have been having ass to mouth most times for the last month or so and it certainly will be the norm by the end of August. Thanks for the encouraging challenge, it makes Anal even more sensual.

Glad to hear that you’re enjoying it and it’s becoming a daily activity for you as a result!

Leading a fulfilling and satisfying sexual lifestyle is an integral part of one’s overall well-being. For those of us in the anal only community, our sexual journeys often require unique considerations, especially with maintaining a balance between our lifestyle and the multitude of other responsibilities we face in our daily lives.

The anal only and double anal only lifestyles can be time-consuming and demanding due to their inherent physical challenges. However, with careful planning, effective communication, and proper care, one can enjoy this exhilarating lifestyle without compromising other aspects of life. Here are some strategies to consider:

Set Clear Goals and Priorities

Just like any other life project, achieving success in the anal only lifestyle starts with setting clear goals and priorities. Do you want to reach a certain level of anal stretching? Achieve double anal penetration regularly or stay strictly double anal only? Are you aiming to remove clitoral stimulation entirely from your sexual routine? Define your anal only goals, set clear and realistic timelines for them, and make them a priority in your schedule.

But remember, these goals should not override your daily responsibilities. Work, family commitments, health routines, social obligations—these all form the different aspects of your life that need attention as well. Being clear about your priorities helps you dedicate adequate time to each area without neglecting the others.

Manage Your Time Effectively

Time management is crucial in maintaining a balance between your anal only lifestyle and other responsibilities. Dedicate specific time slots for your anal only practices, whether it’s solo play, with a partner, or a more social anal only activity. Keeping a regular schedule can help in minimizing any potential conflicts between your anal practices and your everyday duties.

You could also combine your anal only lifestyle with other routine activities. For instance, wearing a butt plug during the day is a passive way of practicing anal stretching without needing to set aside extra time. This method can be a great way to maintain your anal only practice without it interfering with your daily routine.

Communication is Key

Open communication with your partner, family, and close friends can be beneficial in balancing your anal only lifestyle. This does not mean you have to disclose every aspect of your lifestyle to everyone. Rather, communicating your needs and requirements in order to set aside time for sexual activities, can foster understanding and support from those around you.

If you’re in a relationship, discussing your anal only lifestyle and the time it entails can lead to shared schedules and mutual understanding. This openness can help manage expectations and reduce potential conflicts, creating a more harmonious balance between your sexual activities and other shared responsibilities.

Physical and Mental Health

Maintaining your physical and mental health is vital for a balanced anal only lifestyle. This means eating a balanced diet, exercising regularly, and getting enough rest. Anal activities, particularly double anal, can be physically demanding. It requires a healthy body for a safe and satisfying experience.

On a psychological level, a healthy mental state enables you to enjoy your anal only activities more fully and deal with any challenges that may arise. Moreover, a balanced lifestyle supports overall mental well-being.

Resilience and Adaptability

Life is unpredictable, and we all face unexpected responsibilities at times. Balancing your anal only lifestyle with other duties requires resilience and adaptability. There will be days where you may not be able to dedicate as much time to your anal only activities as you’d like. That’s perfectly okay. Don’t beat yourself up over it. Instead, focus on adapting your schedule and finding ways to include your anal only lifestyle into your adjusted routine.

Professional Help and Support

Finally, don’t shy away from seeking professional help when needed. Whether it’s talking to a sex therapist, joining an anal only support group, or attending workshops and seminars, professional resources can provide the advice and support you need in your journey.

Balancing the anal only lifestyle with other responsibilities can be a challenging feat. But remember, this journey is about personal fulfillment and satisfaction. Keep your well-being as your top priority and enjoy the journey at your own pace. With the right balance, you can enjoy the pleasures of the anal only lifestyle while effectively managing your daily responsibilities.

We’re often asked why couples should consider adopting an anal only lifestyle. Today, we’ll explore the various reasons that are leading more and more real life couples to take the leap into the anal only world.

Firstly, what is the anal only lifestyle? Simply put, it’s a commitment to focus sexual activity primarily around anal sex. This means leaving traditional vaginal sex behind, and embracing anal penetration as the primary form of intimacy.

Now, let’s explore why everyday couples might consider this switch.

1. Heightened Pleasure: Both men and women have reported experiencing heightened pleasure through anal sex. For men, the tightness and unique sensations provide an unparalleled sexual experience. Women, on the other hand, can have more intense orgasms due to the number of nerve endings in the anal region, as well as the indirect stimulation of deep internal pleasure zones.
2. Increased Intimacy: Anal sex requires a higher level of trust and communication between partners. This can lead to increased intimacy and a stronger bond. It’s about mutual respect, open dialogue, and a shared commitment to explore new boundaries.
3. Enhanced Male Control: With vaginal sex, there is a certain level of restraint required of men to ensure their partners are comfortable. With anal sex, after appropriate preparation and communication, there can be a greater degree of freedom and control, which many men find empowering and arousing.
4. Novelty and Excitement: Anal only brings a certain novelty and freshness to a couple’s sex life. It’s a whole new world of exploration and pleasure that can bring excitement back into a relationship.
5. Effective Contraception: Anal sex provides a natural method of contraception, allowing couples to engage in spontaneous sex without the worry of an unwanted pregnancy. This, however, doesn’t remove the need for protection against STDs.

Making the switch to the anal only lifestyle is a journey, one that requires mutual understanding, patience, and care. Starting slow with lots of lube and gradually increasing comfort with anal play is key to a positive transition.

As with any major change, it’s vital to keep an open mind, communicate honestly, and prioritize your partner’s comfort and pleasure. Remember, the goal is to enrich your shared sexual experience, bringing you closer together as a couple.

So, why not give it a try? The anal only lifestyle may just be the exciting change you and your partner have been searching for. Stay adventurous, and enjoy the journey!

Vaginal sex is, even still, often considered by many to be the default form of sexual intimacy. However, it is not universally enjoyable or even possible for everyone. A variety of medical conditions can make vaginal sex uncomfortable, painful, or even impossible. These include conditions such as vaginismus, endometriosis, pelvic inflammatory disease, and many others. The anal only lifestyle, wherein vaginal sex is set aside in favor of anal sex, provides a feasible and satisfying alternative for those dealing with such health issues.

Before delving into the benefits of the anal only lifestyle, it’s crucial to dispel some misconceptions about anal sex. Contrary to prevalent myths, when performed correctly — that is, with ample preparation, communication, lubrication, and consensual agreement between partners — anal sex can be safe, pleasurable, and free of pain.

For individuals with conditions like vaginismus, which involves involuntary muscle spasms in the pelvic floor muscles that can make vaginal sex extremely painful, the anal only lifestyle can be a lifeline. It offers an avenue for sexual expression and pleasure that avoids triggering the distressing symptoms associated with their condition. Instead of feeling left out or incapable of enjoying sexual activity, adopting the anal only lifestyle can provide a sense of normalcy and fulfillment.

Even for conditions that aren’t directly related to the vagina, such as interstitial cystitis, where sexual activity can trigger discomfort or pain, the anal only lifestyle can provide a solution. By focusing on anal sex, these individuals can enjoy sexual pleasure without the fear of triggering their symptoms.

The anal only lifestyle also offers benefits to those experiencing menopausal symptoms, such as vaginal dryness or thinning of vaginal tissues. These changes can make vaginal sex uncomfortable or painful. By adopting the anal only lifestyle, women can continue to enjoy active sex lives without resorting to hormone therapies or other medical interventions.

Furthermore, individuals who have undergone hysterectomies or other gynecological surgeries may find the anal only lifestyle a viable option. This lifestyle allows them to reclaim their sexual lives post-surgery without the need for further medical intervention or risk to their health.

Of course, the anal only lifestyle is not just about avoiding pain or discomfort. It also offers a range of potential pleasures. Many individuals find that anal sex offers a unique and deeply satisfying form of sexual stimulation. In fact, with the right techniques, many people find they can achieve orgasm solely through anal sex.

Adopting the anal only lifestyle is also not without its potential challenges. There’s often a learning curve involved, particularly for those new to anal sex. Patience, communication, and plenty of lubrication are essential. But with time and practice, many individuals find that the rewards far outweigh the initial effort.

While we have long-celebrated Anal Only April and No Pussy November, we are now going to be supplementing those with monthly challenges designed to attract more engagement with the anal only lifestyle and push those already practicing anal only to go further in their own lifestyle.

It’s time to launch into Jumpstart July! This month, we’re challenging you to step up your anal game and reach new heights of pleasure. This challenge is designed to give your anal only journey a powerful boost, whether you’re a newbie or a veteran.

If you’re new to the anal only lifestyle, now’s the time to dive in! Begin by discussing the plan with your partner, or if you’re riding solo, get your toys ready and set your intention for a month of anal exploration. It can start with simple anal play and gradually increase to more intense experiences, such as using larger toys, trying anal sex for the first time, or committing to a month of anal only.

For those already in the anal only lifestyle, Jumpstart July offers a perfect opportunity to level up your anal activities!

Consider stepping up your butt plug routine. If you’re not yet wearing a butt plug daily, this is the month to commit. Try wearing your plug for longer durations or even aim to stay plugged the entire day! If you’re comfortable with your current plug, why not explore larger sizes or different shapes for new sensations?

Feel like pushing boundaries further? Double anal could be your next venture. Experiment with your partner and a toy, two partners, or even two toys. The double sensation could be the jumpstart your anal play routine needs!

This July, we’re also introducing the advanced challenge of “Fathom the Depths.” This is for those who are ready to explore deep anal play. With the right tools and caution, deep anal can bring about extraordinary pleasure.

Remember, everyone’s journey is different, and the goal is to explore, experiment and enjoy. Keep things safe, consensual, and pleasure-focused. Share your experiences with the community, ask your questions, offer advice and let’s keep the discussion going!

Are you ready for Jumpstart July? Let us know your plans!

Anna: Hello, I wrote to you at the beginning of this year, sorry for not replying to your question sooner. To explain my situation better, I’ll rewind to the start of my sexuality.

I started very young with an older and more experienced boyfriend. It went really well, until he started asking if I wanted to try anal sex. I always declined, but he insisted so much that I finally agreed to get it over with.

I hated everything related to the preparation (he helped me and it embarrassed me a little), but I enjoyed the sex itself much more than I originally anticipated. I told him so, and I expected we would do anal once in a while in the future, but instead, he took me anally basically every time we had sex.

Eventually, we split up, and I had two boyfriends after that. A similar thing happened with both of them: we had a normal relationship, then at one point I mentioned in a discussion that I tried and enjoyed anal sex, then my boyfriend immediately asked to try it, we had anal sex, and from that point our sex was mostly anal.

When I got with my fourth boyfriend, I didn’t want this to happen, so I was careful not to mention anal to him. Then COVID happened (I was a student back then), I got alone a lot, and like many girls during that period, I started an OnlyFans (solo at first). It made much more money than I thought, so I took requests, and most were anal. I complied, and when most of my videos became anal, my OnlyFans boomed, and I started getting very negative or even hate feedback every time a video wasn’t anal, so I announced that from now on, I’d be anal only, and I got even more popular.

Meanwhile, when restrictions became less tight, I resumed standard sex with my boyfriend. Doing anal only on a professional level and normal sex personally was fine with me. My relationship with my boyfriend became serious, though, and I felt like I had to confess to him I had an OnlyFans. He reacted much better than I feared, it even seemed to arouse him.

Then I got suggestions to do actual porn movies, and I got curious, and I contacted studios. Their offers were mostly anal, and to avoid getting my fan base angry, I decided to continue being anal only. I finally did my first studio video with an actor, and everything went fine, I rather enjoyed it, people were happy and it worked well.

Thanks for the update. It sounds like anal has always been an important part of your life, and going anal only both professionally and personally has been beneficial for you. I hope that you continue to stay anal only for good now.

The existential threat posed by climate change has prompted global reassessment of various facets of our lifestyles, with sexual behavior being no exception. Our sexual choices might not seem like they could have a substantial impact on the environment, but upon closer examination, a moral argument can be made for reducing vaginal sex in favor of other practices, such as anal sex.

First, let’s consider the question of population control. Earth’s population stands at nearly 8 billion people, with projections suggesting it could reach nearly 10 billion by 2050. This population growth intensifies the strain on our planet’s finite resources, leading to issues like deforestation, habitat loss, and increased carbon emissions. Reducing population growth is one of the most effective ways to mitigate these environmental impacts.

By relegating the vagina to purely reproductive purposes and using the anus for recreational sexual activities, society can directly address this population challenge. This shift would help to better separate reproduction from pleasure, thereby reducing accidental pregnancies and leading to a more controlled and sustainable population growth.

This shift would also have the effect of democratizing sexual pleasure. Unlike vaginal sex, which is often linked with reproduction and therefore comes with the attached emotional and physical burdens, anal sex is non-reproductive by nature. This makes it a more accessible form of pleasure that isn’t burdened by the anxieties of potential unwanted pregnancies.

Moreover, promoting the anal only lifestyle would lead to a more mindful approach to sexuality overall. The careful preparation required for comfortable and enjoyable anal sex encourages individuals to invest more time and thought into their sexual experiences. This greater degree of mindfulness can enhance the quality of sexual interactions, fostering deeper connections between partners.

But shifting societal sexual norms on a broad scale is no small task. It requires a multi-faceted approach, incorporating open dialogue, comprehensive sexual education, and cultural change. It would necessitate a dismantling of long-held biases towards vaginal sex, and the championing of alternative sexual practices. However, the potential benefits—ranging from a more mindful approach to sexuality to a more controlled population growth—make this a worthy endeavor.

In the world of sexual exploration, some practices stand apart. They catch the eye, stir curiosity, and challenge our notions of what is considered conventional. One such practice is ass to mouth. Often observed in adult films and discussed in quiet circles, it’s a practice that intrigues many who are exploring the anal only lifestyle. But what exactly is ass to mouth, and how does it fit into the anal only landscape?

Ass to mouth, in its essence, refers to the act of orally pleasuring the penis after it has been engaging in anal sex. In the past often considered a kink, it resonated deeply with some individuals due to its taboo nature. It speaks of an uninhibited, spontaneous approach to sexual pleasure, indicating complete acceptance and an unbridled enthusiasm for all aspects of anal sex. More recently, it has been becoming a staple of anal sex and the anal only lifestyle, however.

Why might someone be interested in ass to mouth? There are several motivating factors. For some, it’s the taboo itself. The thrill of engaging in an act society often labels as “dirty” or “forbidden” can amplify sexual desire, giving an adrenaline kick that layers more pleasure onto the sexual experience.

For others, the physical aspect is stimulating. The unique taste, the sensation, and the intimate connection that comes with it can be incredibly arousing. It embodies a total acceptance of anal sex—the willingness to orally pleasure what was just pleasuring an anus underscores a deep desire and commitment to the act itself.

As always, communication and consent are paramount. Ass to mouth isn’t for everyone, and that’s perfectly okay. As you explore the dimensions of the anal only lifestyle, it’s crucial to talk openly and honestly with your partner about your interests, comfort zones, and boundaries. If both parties are willing to explore ass to mouth, it should be a mutual decision made with respect and understanding.

So, how does ass to mouth fit into the anal only lifestyle? It’s all about acceptance and enthusiasm for anal sex, recognizing it as a pleasurable and satisfying sexual act. It’s about dismantling taboos and exploring the breadth of your sexual potential. Ass to mouth can be seen as a powerful affirmation of one’s complete immersion in anal pleasure. It reflects a willingness to embrace all facets of anal sex.

We hope you found this post insightful and inspiring. Your journey and experiences are unique, and we’d love to hear about them. Are you living the anal only lifestyle? Are you curious to explore it? Have you experienced something extraordinary, faced challenges, or discovered personal insights you’d like to share? If so, we invite you to share your story with us.