Category: Anal Only Lifestyle


Article: The Exciting Dawn of an Anal Only Girl

From a new blog chronicling the life of an anal only woman, Kitty Kaya:

Wow. Where do I even start? The prospect of sharing my life as an anal only girl with the world is incredibly exciting, but also a little overwhelming. There is just so much to talk about.

At great risk of all-too-predictable cliché, I guess I start at the beginning. At the time of writing, I have already made the commitment to being an anal only girl. My partner and I have always enjoyed anal sex. In fact, just a couple of months after we first met, he spent a week mercilessly fucking only my asshole whilst on holiday in Greece. Check out the pic above, taken during that week whilst I was tied up with my hole nicely plugged. It was heaven. Wake up late, inhale the fresh sea air, spend a few hours sunbathing by the pool, have my ass railed, and then fall asleep full of seafood and red wine. On repeat.

It really was bliss.

Unfortunately, it didn’t stay quite like that forever. Life happens, people are busy, and I must admit I bear responsibility for making access to my asshole a little less frequent. Whilst we still did a lot of anal, it wasn’t enough.

Fast forward until a month or two ago, and things changed. My partner (well, my Owner) decided enough was enough. Things had been slightly rocky, and he wanted to stamp his authority on me. He was going to make me become an anal only girl. The idea enthralled me. What does anal only even mean? What about my pussy? Why am I so aroused? . In another post I’m going to really dig into what it means, especially what it means to me, so please make sure to check back on my blog. For now, all I wish to say is that I didn’t take a huge amount of convincing. It’s very daunting, but I enjoy anal, and the crazy in me LOVES the mental aspect.

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Message: Better With Anal Only

This post has been cross-posted from our Bdsmlr page.

two-hole-slut: Not a question, I just needed to share… My Sir has taken away my cunt. I thought I needed it to squirt, but I don’t. I squirt so much more and so much harder when I’m stretching and fucking my arse.

Congratulations, that’s excellent to hear! Everybody’s a bit different, but in general, going anal only makes everything else more intense and pleasurable in the long term. Even if it’s hard at first, it’s worth doing.

Reddit: Is Anal Only Bad For Your Anus Health in the Long Term?

I’m really interested in trying anal. I bought myself a butt plug and I’ve used it and dildos anally before. I really want to try anal with my boyfriend.

The other day we were talking about a couple he knew in college who were doing anal all the time because the girl wanted to avoid PIV for religious reasons. Then he said how terrible of an idea it is because if you do it regularly you can face problems like incontinence in the future.

I thought things like that only happen if you’re doing something wrong or you’re doing something rougher/deeper than normal anal sex. Anyone care to shed some light on this? Interested in seeing some research on this, as well as personal anecdotes.

I really want to try anal with him but I get the feeling we need to talk about it more first, especially the things that are likely or unlikely to happen.

Multiple people respond with good personal experience reassuring the original poster that anal is perfectly safe when done properly.

My gf has been anal only for 5 years now… No problems. If anything it’s the opposite.

She says she has the most satisfying poops after sex, almost an orgasm in themselves.

And she feels bloated now if she doesn’t have regular anal.

I think it’s the same as asking is it dangerous for your legs to take a hike. Your body tells you when to take a brake and at the end you maybe are a little sore if you’re not used to walking long distances. But your body heals quickly and you get less soreness if you do training. If you are an athlete though, who hikes every day and ignores pain you will have issues eventually. The body adapts and gets used to things. So, doing anal more frequently is actually better imho because your ass gets used to it (no doctor, just from my experience). I’d say the worst thing you can do is never do any anal for 6 months and then do one full day of double anal pounding.

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Anal Only April 2022 is Coming Soon!

Craving something new? Why not go anal only for a whole month? Challenge yourself to Anal Only April.

Have you been curious about going anal only but haven’t had the push to actually try it for yourself? Well, now is the perfect opportunity. Anal Only April is one of several challenge months where we encourage people interested in the anal only lifestyle to make a month-long commitment and try out pure anal for themselves.

The rules of Anal Only April are simple: starting April 1st, whether on your own or with your significant other, stop all vaginal penetration for sex and masturbation, and replace it with anal instead.

Clitoral stimulation is optional. If you would like to go for a more advanced form of anal only, try doing it without touching your clit and only orgasming through anal. If you need your clit in order to enjoy anal, combine it with anal, but only rub your clit while also masturbating anally.

Oral sex is still allowed and encouraged, especially blowjobs and rimming. Cunnilingus is optional—some choose to exclude it, others still include it but don’t engage in any vaginal penetration as part of it.

Try your best to stick with anal only for the whole month—it’s a long enough period of time that while you might struggle a little bit with it at first, whether adjusting to the frequency of anal sex, or dealing with lingering cravings for vaginal sex or clitoral stimulation, by the end of a month most people figure out what being anal only is really like, and a majority of people who enjoyed their month trial either choose to stay anal only and not go back to vaginal, or return to it again later after a break.

If you’re already anal only, don’t worry—you can still enjoy Anal Only April yourself. Challenge yourself to have anal sex every day of the month, or to start wearing a butt plug or masturbate anally every day, or to experiment with clitoral denial and anal only orgasms if you aren’t already, or to start doing ass to mouth regularly, or to train your ass with bigger toys to be able to do anal fisting or double anal. The possibilities are endless for exploring new things as part of the anal only lifestyle. If you already enjoy double anal, consider trying making April a double anal only month—whether with two partners every time, or with a partner and a dildo, or two dildos.

Over the next week, get your plans in order, get your partner (if any) on board, and if you haven’t had anal sex yet or for a while, start working on training so that by the time Anal Only April begins, you’re ready to dive in!

If you decide to take part, let us know! Share your plans, ask any questions, and keep us updated as you start exploring the anal only lifestyle!

Reddit: 19 Year Old Virgin

I’ve always known that I wanted to save myself till marriage. I tried anal for the first time at 18 years old, it didn’t hurt like I thought it would. We use lube and it burned and i guess that’s when I started to just use my spit. I’ve gotten better at anal since then and it’s great. I’m still trying to get used to being pounded for a long period of time ❤️

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Go Anal Only This Valentine’s Day!

This Valentine’s Day, make it extra special and ask your partner to commit to trying the anal only lifestyle together.

Now, if they’re completely new to anal, you won’t want to dive right into anal sex, but gradual (and consensual!) introduction of anal play into your sex life with a long term goal of shifting towards anal only. If you both already enjoy anal regularly, asking to try going straight to anal only may be appropriate.

It doesn’t have to be a long term commitment just yet—try it for a month and see how things go! Most people who make it through a month of anal only choose to stay that way long term and rarely want to go back to vaginal.

Reddit: What Tipped You Over the Edge?

Seeing a lot of posts from ladies who say they enjoy AO (Which is fucking Awesome btw)

But, what got you started? What made you choose AO? What keeps you AO?

I find the stories hot for one, but also just trying to see what made you interested, and what made you move from interested to actively enjoying, and seeking.

Wifey loves me, and vice versa. She’s sort of open to the idea, wondering if there’s a way to make Anal special for her too. I don’t want to just take, I’m a giver by heart.

So yeah, how do I expand on this productively, and without pressure or coercion? Would love for us to enjoy this journey together and not with some other random…

ASatyromanticGuy, /r/analonlylifestyle

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Message: Clit Denial is Better

Annie: I am having an argument with my friend, she says it’s important for a girl to use her clit to cum and I say it’s bad and girls shouldn’t use their clits and it’s better to only do anal. How can I show her that it’s true?

You’re both right and both wrong, to some extent. Every girl is different and has different needs, and it’s important to recognize and respect that. For some girls, clit stimulation is a need. For others, anal only without clit stimulation is better.

Some women struggle to orgasm without clit stimulation. If clit stimulation helps them to be anal only otherwise, isn’t that still a better option? It works for them and they enjoy it and everything is great.

Some women get more negative side effects from clit stimulation and lose their arousal and desire for sex if they use their clit, and so it’s often better for them to stick with pure anal only and no clit stimulation so they don’t crash post-orgasm as can so often happen.

Once a woman firmly establishes an anal only routine even if it includes clit stimulation, experimenting later with clit denial can be a good option as well!

Why Vaginal Sex is Outdated

It’s 2022 and sex is predominantly an activity for pleasure, bonding and intimacy without the desire of getting pregnant, and yet many people still use vaginal sex as their primary sexual activity despite the fact that it requires either a physical barrier or often-harmful hormonal birth control to avoid getting pregnant and doesn’t cause the majority of women to orgasm without additional stimulation.

It’s time to move past vaginal sex and adopt the anal only lifestyle. Anal:

  • can’t get you pregnant
  • feels more intense and pleasurable
  • can make you orgasm without the need for additional clit stimulation
  • is more intimate
  • looks and feels better for men too

Let’s face it: vaginal is outdated, and it’s time for it to move aside and let anal take the center stage as the primary human sexual activity.

Message: Heterosexuality and Vaginal Disinterest

Joe: I am a straight man who is and has only ever been into women my whole life but I have always thought vaginas were a turn off and never liked the idea of vaginal sex. Some of my partners made me feel bad and wrong for this or said I was gay because I only wanted anal. But I am not interested in men, I just love anal sex with women.

Why do we think sexuality has to do with genitals rather than with sex and gender? I am attracted to women, I just prefer anal sex rather than vaginal sex and will not do vaginal because anal is more natural for me and what I love.

My friends prefer anal too but are afraid to go anal only because they think they will also be called gay if they stop having vaginal sex. It is wrong that we are forced to do something unnatural to us and it is equated to being unnatural in a different way if we don’t.

For the most part, this comes from the fact that people’s genitals are an intimate part of their body and often associated not only with sex for them, but also come with various insecurities. When someone is not interested in having vaginal sex with them and only wants anal, it can feel like a rejection of their genitals which can trigger those insecurities and result in them lashing out.

It’s important to express your needs and preferences in a manner which shows them that you aren’t putting them down, you just find their ass and anal sex with them to be so sexy, and that there isn’t anything wrong with their vagina, you just prefer anal. Make them feel hot and sexy to be doing anal with you and they’ll be much more open to it.