Why Every Couple Should Adopt the Anal Only Lifestyle

We’re often asked why couples should consider adopting an anal only lifestyle. Today, we’ll explore the various reasons that are leading more and more real life couples to take the leap into the anal only world.

Firstly, what is the anal only lifestyle? Simply put, it’s a commitment to focus sexual activity primarily around anal sex. This means leaving traditional vaginal sex behind, and embracing anal penetration as the primary form of intimacy.

Now, let’s explore why everyday couples might consider this switch.

  1. Heightened Pleasure: Both men and women have reported experiencing heightened pleasure through anal sex. For men, the tightness and unique sensations provide an unparalleled sexual experience. Women, on the other hand, can have more intense orgasms due to the number of nerve endings in the anal region, as well as the indirect stimulation of deep internal pleasure zones.
  2. Increased Intimacy: Anal sex requires a higher level of trust and communication between partners. This can lead to increased intimacy and a stronger bond. It’s about mutual respect, open dialogue, and a shared commitment to explore new boundaries.
  3. Enhanced Male Control: With vaginal sex, there is a certain level of restraint required of men to ensure their partners are comfortable. With anal sex, after appropriate preparation and communication, there can be a greater degree of freedom and control, which many men find empowering and arousing.
  4. Novelty and Excitement: Anal only brings a certain novelty and freshness to a couple’s sex life. It’s a whole new world of exploration and pleasure that can bring excitement back into a relationship.
  5. Effective Contraception: Anal sex provides a natural method of contraception, allowing couples to engage in spontaneous sex without the worry of an unwanted pregnancy. This, however, doesn’t remove the need for protection against STDs.

Making the switch to the anal only lifestyle is a journey, one that requires mutual understanding, patience, and care. Starting slow with lots of lube and gradually increasing comfort with anal play is key to a positive transition.

As with any major change, it’s vital to keep an open mind, communicate honestly, and prioritize your partner’s comfort and pleasure. Remember, the goal is to enrich your shared sexual experience, bringing you closer together as a couple.

So, why not give it a try? The anal only lifestyle may just be the exciting change you and your partner have been searching for. Stay adventurous, and enjoy the journey!

The Anal Only Lifestyle as an Alternative for Vaginal Medical Conditions

Vaginal sex is, even still, often considered by many to be the default form of sexual intimacy. However, it is not universally enjoyable or even possible for everyone. A variety of medical conditions can make vaginal sex uncomfortable, painful, or even impossible. These include conditions such as vaginismus, endometriosis, pelvic inflammatory disease, and many others. The anal only lifestyle, wherein vaginal sex is set aside in favor of anal sex, provides a feasible and satisfying alternative for those dealing with such health issues.

Before delving into the benefits of the anal only lifestyle, it’s crucial to dispel some misconceptions about anal sex. Contrary to prevalent myths, when performed correctly — that is, with ample preparation, communication, lubrication, and consensual agreement between partners — anal sex can be safe, pleasurable, and free of pain.

For individuals with conditions like vaginismus, which involves involuntary muscle spasms in the pelvic floor muscles that can make vaginal sex extremely painful, the anal only lifestyle can be a lifeline. It offers an avenue for sexual expression and pleasure that avoids triggering the distressing symptoms associated with their condition. Instead of feeling left out or incapable of enjoying sexual activity, adopting the anal only lifestyle can provide a sense of normalcy and fulfillment.

Even for conditions that aren’t directly related to the vagina, such as interstitial cystitis, where sexual activity can trigger discomfort or pain, the anal only lifestyle can provide a solution. By focusing on anal sex, these individuals can enjoy sexual pleasure without the fear of triggering their symptoms.

The anal only lifestyle also offers benefits to those experiencing menopausal symptoms, such as vaginal dryness or thinning of vaginal tissues. These changes can make vaginal sex uncomfortable or painful. By adopting the anal only lifestyle, women can continue to enjoy active sex lives without resorting to hormone therapies or other medical interventions.

Furthermore, individuals who have undergone hysterectomies or other gynecological surgeries may find the anal only lifestyle a viable option. This lifestyle allows them to reclaim their sexual lives post-surgery without the need for further medical intervention or risk to their health.

Of course, the anal only lifestyle is not just about avoiding pain or discomfort. It also offers a range of potential pleasures. Many individuals find that anal sex offers a unique and deeply satisfying form of sexual stimulation. In fact, with the right techniques, many people find they can achieve orgasm solely through anal sex.

Adopting the anal only lifestyle is also not without its potential challenges. There’s often a learning curve involved, particularly for those new to anal sex. Patience, communication, and plenty of lubrication are essential. But with time and practice, many individuals find that the rewards far outweigh the initial effort.

Challenge Month: Jumpstart July

While we have long-celebrated Anal Only April and No Pussy November, we are now going to be supplementing those with monthly challenges designed to attract more engagement with the anal only lifestyle and push those already practicing anal only to go further in their own lifestyle.

It’s time to launch into Jumpstart July! This month, we’re challenging you to step up your anal game and reach new heights of pleasure. This challenge is designed to give your anal only journey a powerful boost, whether you’re a newbie or a veteran.

If you’re new to the anal only lifestyle, now’s the time to dive in! Begin by discussing the plan with your partner, or if you’re riding solo, get your toys ready and set your intention for a month of anal exploration. It can start with simple anal play and gradually increase to more intense experiences, such as using larger toys, trying anal sex for the first time, or committing to a month of anal only.

For those already in the anal only lifestyle, Jumpstart July offers a perfect opportunity to level up your anal activities!

Consider stepping up your butt plug routine. If you’re not yet wearing a butt plug daily, this is the month to commit. Try wearing your plug for longer durations or even aim to stay plugged the entire day! If you’re comfortable with your current plug, why not explore larger sizes or different shapes for new sensations?

Feel like pushing boundaries further? Double anal could be your next venture. Experiment with your partner and a toy, two partners, or even two toys. The double sensation could be the jumpstart your anal play routine needs!

This July, we’re also introducing the advanced challenge of “Fathom the Depths.” This is for those who are ready to explore deep anal play. With the right tools and caution, deep anal can bring about extraordinary pleasure.

Remember, everyone’s journey is different, and the goal is to explore, experiment and enjoy. Keep things safe, consensual, and pleasure-focused. Share your experiences with the community, ask your questions, offer advice and let’s keep the discussion going!

Are you ready for Jumpstart July? Let us know your plans!

Message: Anal Only Since Doing Exclusively Anal Porn, Part II

Anna: Hello, I wrote to you at the beginning of this year, sorry for not replying to your question sooner. To explain my situation better, I’ll rewind to the start of my sexuality.

I started very young with an older and more experienced boyfriend. It went really well, until he started asking if I wanted to try anal sex. I always declined, but he insisted so much that I finally agreed to get it over with.

I hated everything related to the preparation (he helped me and it embarrassed me a little), but I enjoyed the sex itself much more than I originally anticipated. I told him so, and I expected we would do anal once in a while in the future, but instead, he took me anally basically every time we had sex.

Eventually, we split up, and I had two boyfriends after that. A similar thing happened with both of them: we had a normal relationship, then at one point I mentioned in a discussion that I tried and enjoyed anal sex, then my boyfriend immediately asked to try it, we had anal sex, and from that point our sex was mostly anal.

When I got with my fourth boyfriend, I didn’t want this to happen, so I was careful not to mention anal to him. Then COVID happened (I was a student back then), I got alone a lot, and like many girls during that period, I started an OnlyFans (solo at first). It made much more money than I thought, so I took requests, and most were anal. I complied, and when most of my videos became anal, my OnlyFans boomed, and I started getting very negative or even hate feedback every time a video wasn’t anal, so I announced that from now on, I’d be anal only, and I got even more popular.

Meanwhile, when restrictions became less tight, I resumed standard sex with my boyfriend. Doing anal only on a professional level and normal sex personally was fine with me. My relationship with my boyfriend became serious, though, and I felt like I had to confess to him I had an OnlyFans. He reacted much better than I feared, it even seemed to arouse him.

Then I got suggestions to do actual porn movies, and I got curious, and I contacted studios. Their offers were mostly anal, and to avoid getting my fan base angry, I decided to continue being anal only. I finally did my first studio video with an actor, and everything went fine, I rather enjoyed it, people were happy and it worked well.

Thanks for the update. It sounds like anal has always been an important part of your life, and going anal only both professionally and personally has been beneficial for you. I hope that you continue to stay anal only for good now.

A Moral Argument Against Vaginal Sex

The existential threat posed by climate change has prompted global reassessment of various facets of our lifestyles, with sexual behavior being no exception. Our sexual choices might not seem like they could have a substantial impact on the environment, but upon closer examination, a moral argument can be made for reducing vaginal sex in favor of other practices, such as anal sex.

First, let’s consider the question of population control. Earth’s population stands at nearly 8 billion people, with projections suggesting it could reach nearly 10 billion by 2050. This population growth intensifies the strain on our planet’s finite resources, leading to issues like deforestation, habitat loss, and increased carbon emissions. Reducing population growth is one of the most effective ways to mitigate these environmental impacts.

By relegating the vagina to purely reproductive purposes and using the anus for recreational sexual activities, society can directly address this population challenge. This shift would help to better separate reproduction from pleasure, thereby reducing accidental pregnancies and leading to a more controlled and sustainable population growth.

This shift would also have the effect of democratizing sexual pleasure. Unlike vaginal sex, which is often linked with reproduction and therefore comes with the attached emotional and physical burdens, anal sex is non-reproductive by nature. This makes it a more accessible form of pleasure that isn’t burdened by the anxieties of potential unwanted pregnancies.

Moreover, promoting the anal only lifestyle would lead to a more mindful approach to sexuality overall. The careful preparation required for comfortable and enjoyable anal sex encourages individuals to invest more time and thought into their sexual experiences. This greater degree of mindfulness can enhance the quality of sexual interactions, fostering deeper connections between partners.

But shifting societal sexual norms on a broad scale is no small task. It requires a multi-faceted approach, incorporating open dialogue, comprehensive sexual education, and cultural change. It would necessitate a dismantling of long-held biases towards vaginal sex, and the championing of alternative sexual practices. However, the potential benefits—ranging from a more mindful approach to sexuality to a more controlled population growth—make this a worthy endeavor.

Ass to Mouth: Unraveling the Taboo and Understanding its Place in the Anal Only Lifestyle

In the world of sexual exploration, some practices stand apart. They catch the eye, stir curiosity, and challenge our notions of what is considered conventional. One such practice is ass to mouth. Often observed in adult films and discussed in quiet circles, it’s a practice that intrigues many who are exploring the anal only lifestyle. But what exactly is ass to mouth, and how does it fit into the anal only landscape?

Ass to mouth, in its essence, refers to the act of orally pleasuring the penis after it has been engaging in anal sex. In the past often considered a kink, it resonated deeply with some individuals due to its taboo nature. It speaks of an uninhibited, spontaneous approach to sexual pleasure, indicating complete acceptance and an unbridled enthusiasm for all aspects of anal sex. More recently, it has been becoming a staple of anal sex and the anal only lifestyle, however.

Why might someone be interested in ass to mouth? There are several motivating factors. For some, it’s the taboo itself. The thrill of engaging in an act society often labels as “dirty” or “forbidden” can amplify sexual desire, giving an adrenaline kick that layers more pleasure onto the sexual experience.

For others, the physical aspect is stimulating. The unique taste, the sensation, and the intimate connection that comes with it can be incredibly arousing. It embodies a total acceptance of anal sex—the willingness to orally pleasure what was just pleasuring an anus underscores a deep desire and commitment to the act itself.

As always, communication and consent are paramount. Ass to mouth isn’t for everyone, and that’s perfectly okay. As you explore the dimensions of the anal only lifestyle, it’s crucial to talk openly and honestly with your partner about your interests, comfort zones, and boundaries. If both parties are willing to explore ass to mouth, it should be a mutual decision made with respect and understanding.

So, how does ass to mouth fit into the anal only lifestyle? It’s all about acceptance and enthusiasm for anal sex, recognizing it as a pleasurable and satisfying sexual act. It’s about dismantling taboos and exploring the breadth of your sexual potential. Ass to mouth can be seen as a powerful affirmation of one’s complete immersion in anal pleasure. It reflects a willingness to embrace all facets of anal sex.


We hope you found this post insightful and inspiring. Your journey and experiences are unique, and we’d love to hear about them. Are you living the anal only lifestyle? Are you curious to explore it? Have you experienced something extraordinary, faced challenges, or discovered personal insights you’d like to share? If so, we invite you to share your story with us.

Why Vaginal Virginity and Anal Only Work So Well Together

There’s a revolution happening in bedrooms around the world—a shift from traditional sexual norms that’s empowering women in a completely unique way. It’s the fusion of two concepts: the anal only lifestyle and a commitment to lifelong vaginal virginity. This unconventional pairing offers a fresh perspective on female sexuality, allowing women to explore their bodies while preserving a significant part of their physical identity. This combination is not only appealing but potentially game-changing.

The anal only lifestyle is about more than just physical pleasure. It’s about redefining sexual norms and taking control of your body. It’s about taking the path less trodden, and for women, it’s about going straight to anal from the first time they explore their bodies, embracing a lifestyle that is uniquely pleasurable and deeply personal.

Now, why would a woman choose this path? The first reason is empowerment. Choosing to engage solely in anal sex and preserve vaginal virginity is an expression of control over one’s body. It is a deliberate decision to break free from traditional expectations of sexuality and rewrite one’s sexual narrative. In a world where women’s bodies are often the subject of societal scrutiny and control, this choice represents a reclaiming of power.

This choice also disrupts the conventional focus on vaginal penetration as the primary source of pleasure for women. Anal sex can offer unique, intense pleasure—an entirely different sensation that many women find far more satisfying. It’s not a ‘second-best’ option, but a legitimate and fulfilling primary means of sexual enjoyment.

Moreover, preserving vaginal virginity while engaging in the anal only lifestyle is a potent symbol of autonomy. It’s a personal declaration of the value placed on virginity, which has often been defined and controlled by societal expectations. This lifestyle choice is a woman asserting that she can be sexually active and maintain her vaginal virginity, a decision that is hers to make and hers alone.

When it comes to the practicalities of sexual enjoyment and satisfaction, the anal only lifestyle delivers. Multiple orgasms are a reality for many women, and the feeling of fullness experienced through anal penetration is different but equally gratifying when compared to vaginal sex. The anal only lifestyle celebrates this unique pleasure and encourages women to explore and indulge in it.

Finally, there’s the distinct sense of shared adventure that comes with embracing the anal only lifestyle. The world of anal pleasure requires patience, trust, and open communication between partners, which can lead to a deeper level of intimacy.

So if you’re a vaginal virgin, don’t waste the gift that you have. Take the chance you are given and commit to staying a vaginal virgin and going pure anal only.


We hope you found this post insightful and inspiring. Your journey and experiences are unique, and we’d love to hear about them. Are you living the anal only lifestyle? Are you curious to explore it? Have you experienced something extraordinary, faced challenges, or discovered personal insights you’d like to share? If so, we invite you to share your story with us.

Message: A Decade of Anal Only

Jane: Hey there! I’ve been loving the anal only lifestyle for ten amazing years now. I thought I’d share a bit about my journey and what has kept me on this anal-only road, and a little about my slightly unconventional living situation.

A decade ago, my love life felt like a well-worn path, comfortable but pretty predictable. Anal was like a hushed secret, but it piqued my curiosity. I discovered the AOL community and felt like I’d stumbled onto a hidden treasure. So, I decided to take the plunge and, let me tell you, I haven’t regretted it for a moment.

I know a lot of people worry about the “loose anus” thing. Yes, my bum has gotten more flexible over the years, but boy, has it been a fun ride! Our society has this tight-is-right mindset. But bodies are meant to change, adapt, and let’s not forget, experience pleasure! As my anus became more flexible, my sexual experiences escalated to levels I never imagined.

Enter the double anal part of my story. Single anal was awesome, but as my bum got more accommodating, I decided it was time to up the ante. Double anal seemed daunting at first, but with plenty of prep (and a metric ton of lube!), it’s been a source of power, pleasure, and even pride. Today, I wear my “double anal only” badge with a sense of accomplishment, and my newfound bum flexibility has made this exciting journey possible.

As a double anal only woman, I live with two fantastic partners. We share an understanding, a unique bond, and a mutual respect for each other’s pleasure. Living together means navigating the practicalities of life while maintaining the thrill of our sexual dynamic. There’s always open communication, loads of fun, and, of course, plenty of double anal! And yes, every time we have sex, it’s with both of them in my ass together. When only one of them is around, we do oral instead.

For anyone who’s worried about anal only changing your body, remember this: change is growth. It’s about pushing boundaries, exploring new forms of pleasure, and most importantly, embracing every part of yourself. If you’re thinking about starting the anal only journey, dive in! This community is here to offer support, share experiences, and shower understanding. We’re all about acceptance, celebration, and breaking societal norms.

Here’s to another decade of living anal only, challenging norms, and embracing the wild, wonderful, and pleasurable changes. Remember, there’s no shame in pursuing pleasure, no disgrace in body changes, and absolutely no fear in being your true self.

Reddit: I’ve trained my anus to act as my clitoris

I’ve been interested in anal only the past six months and have been training off and on. Recently, these past few weeks, I’ve decided to treat my anus as my clitoris and it worked! One of the things holding me back was the lack of orgasm that a clitoris gives you (I’d already orgasmed from anal before but it wasn’t the same.) With dedication, I orgasmed from my anus alone. I still receive the same amount of pleasure, just without the post-nut clarity. I’m now completely anal only. No vaginal stimulation, no clitoral stimulation, and it’s amazing. I’m curious to see if anyone else has accomplished this?

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Supporting the Anal Only Lifestyle: Why Your Patreon Contribution Matters

As followers of the Anal Only Lifestyle, we know that you’re passionate about embracing anal sex as the primary and most fulfilling sexual experience. Our goal is to create a community where everyone can learn, share and connect with others who share this same enthusiasm.

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Patreon is a platform that allows us to receive regular contributions from our readers and supporters, which helps us maintain and grow the Anal Only Lifestyle blog as well as content on our other platforms. Your contributions allow us to pay for website hosting, and spend more time creating new resources and content to continue promoting the benefits of anal only.

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Let’s continue to grow and celebrate the Anal Only Lifestyle together.