Anonymous: OMG I love the idea of anal only so much and after seeing how much you encourage virgin girls to go anal only I really want to do it too! I guess I already am but before I always thought I’d use my pussy eventually. Now I just want to stay with anal and keep my pussy special and virgin.

Yay! It’s becoming a trend! And anal only vaginal virgins are the best trend there could be, so of course you have my encouragement to do so as long as it’s what you want.

Anonymous: Hi! I’m an 18 yr old virgin submissive cunt who’s going to lose her virginity to her Master very soon .. But lately I’m not so sure anymore and I’m thinking about asking Him to fuck my ass first and keep going like that for a few months. Basically turning into a oral and anal only whore long before my cunt gets fucked for the first time. It makes me incredibly horny but it’s also kind of scary… what do you recommend, Sir?

I highly recommend it. You have nothing to lose by doing so, and it doesn’t need to be scary at all. Make sure to ease into anal and train your ass in advance so you’re ready for it and you’re confident in moving forward to anal sex.

Starting with anal is a great way to go, and I usually recommend staying anal only long term rather than jumping to vaginal. There’s a lot to be said about anal only girls with virgin pussies, and I think the world needs a lot more of them.

But you don’t need to make any sort of permanent commitment up front—try it for 3 to 6 months at first and then decide from there if you want to stay anal only and preserve your vaginal virginity long-term.

Good luck, and enjoy! I think you’re going to love being an anal and oral only girl. Please keep us updated with what you decide and how it goes. Feel free to ask any more specific questions you might have as well!

Anonymous: Another anal only virgin (for lack of a better term lol) proudly raising her hand. I’m 25 and I’ve been doing anal pretty regularly since I was 14 but my pussy is totally virgin except for a dildo when I was younger just to try it (I didn’t like it). I started because I really wanted to have sex but didn’t want to get pregnant (like a lot of girls) but then I just kept doing it anal. I love it, and after a while it turned me on to keep my pussy virgin, I really don’t want to lose that now. ?

Coming out of my more neutral and impersonal persona for a moment, that’s really incredibly sexy and appealing to me and I think it’s absolutely fantastic that you’ve decided to do this and that it makes you happy and turned on to keep your pussy completely unused. You have my absolute encouragement to do so and I hope a lot more women get inspired to do the same.

Stepping back into my neutral persona, I of course recognize that this isn’t necessarily for everyone and that some people want to try multiple things before settling on what they like, and while you and I may know that anal sex is where it’s at and vaginal just can’t really compare, some people want to see for themselves. And it sounds like you did the same with a dildo. If someone feels they need to try it all first, great. Go for it.

But I think there’s merit in starting with anal first and staying anal only for a while and only trying vaginal at a later time, in order to allow anal skills and pleasure to develop first without the influence of vaginal to compare it to. Because while anal has by far the most payoff for pleasure, it can take a little more effort up front to get into. Vaginal is easy but not nearly as rewarding. If someone starts with vaginal, they’re often much more likely to stay with it even if it’s not as pleasurable as anal, because it’s easy to do so. If someone puts in the effort with anal first, learns to love it, develops all the pleasure and orgasm pathways associated with it, and has a good bit of anal experience first, vaginal will have much less of an influencing factor on their sexuality going forward and they’ll be more prone to remaining anal centric or returning to anal only. Which is not to say that someone who starts with vaginal can’t recognize the benefits of anal or going anal only either—most anal only women had a lot of vaginal sex before going anal only—it just can take more effort in some cases.

I’ve hinted at this above and in other posts on the subject, but as someone who’s been anal only for 11 years without ever using your vagina, I suspect that if you were to ever try it at any point in the future, you’d find it immensely disappointing. And I’m not saying that in an attempt to discourage you from trying it, just that everything about your sexuality is anal centric, and vaginal is far more bland and simplistic a sort of stimulation compared to anal, so if the high of anal is your normal, vaginal simply isn’t going to compare positively. So I do sincerely think there’s really no point in trying—not that you’ve indicated any desire to do so.

Thanks for sharing your experiences. Those are some of my thoughts on the subject. I’d love to see more women making the same choice as you, personally, but I’m always happy to see more anal only women whether they have experienced vaginal sex or not.

Anonymous: I don’t ever want to even try vaginal sex, I really want to keep my pussy virgin and stay anal only forever. I’ve been doing anal for like five years now and I’ve never once wanted to try it in my pussy, it just seems wrong and I’ve no interest in it. But my friends think that’s weird and that every girl needs to try using her pussy. Is it really so bad to want what I want? Why? My pussy is nothing to me, but anal is everything. I just want to live my life anal only, it makes me happy and sexy.

No, there’s nothing at all wrong with wanting that. Some will say you should try everything and see what you do and don’t like and decide from there, informed in what every option has to offer—and that’s fine, if you want to do that. But there’s a lot to be said for going anal from the start and never wasting time with your pussy—let’s face it—if you’ve been anal only for five years already and have never tried using your pussy, you’re not going to like vaginal sex and it’s not going to offer anything to compare to anal for you.

Like you said, it’s what you want, vaginal doesn’t interest you, and you find it sexier to keep your pussy virgin. I wholeheartedly agree if that’s something you want—I’ve always had a soft spot for girls who are anal only with virgin pussies they never want fucked but who are extremely enthusiastic about all sorts of anal sex and play all the time. That’s a dream girl for a lot of guys—no pussy, ever, and no vaginal habits to break on the path to anal only bliss.

If a life of pure anal only is what you want, go for it! There’s no point wasting your time on something you won’t like and will regret doing because you’ll wish you’d kept your pussy unused.

Anonymous: Hey, I really enjoy masturbation but I always use my clit, and only sometimes finger my ass (but I never finger my vagina, in fact I am a virgin). How can I stop using my clit? I sometimes do “no touch” but I only can keep doing it for 2 days or so :/ pls help me in becoming a true anal only girl!

First of all, wanting this like you do is the most important first step. You know you want to be a strict anal only girl and that’s key! So, well done there!

You need to start shifting your thinking of what masturbation is. It should always focus on and center around your ass. Even if there’s any sort of supplemental stimulation, the primary act should be anal—always. So, you should be rubbing or fingering your ass, using a dildo, or wearing a plug. Don’t touch your clit without something in your ass at the same time. Work to develop that habit first.

From there, start to redirect your arousal to your ass instead of your clit. When you feel horny and want to touch yourself, rub and finger your asshole instead of touching your clit. Instead of thinking of it as “no touch” when you stop using your clit, think of it as no pussy or clit but lots of touch elsewhere—your ass, your asshole, your nipples, etc.

Work to reduce your dependence on clit stimulation gradually over time. If two days is all you can last right now, do it for 2 days and then try to go another day longer and keep pushing your limits more and more. It’s a process of trial and error and repeated increase of self control. Keep trying, don’t give up, and don’t feel bad if it’s hard. That will just make the reward that much more when you get there.

Anonymous: I’m a virgin never had a dildo/dick up my pussy. But have put anal plugs on.

Even better, then, you can focus on training and using your ass exclusively without needing to overcome any other distractions! Keep enjoying and exploring the pleasure your ass can give you and it will reward you tenfold.

Anonymous: I’ve decided to get the “Anal Only” tattoo on my pussy! Booked for the 1st November but I’m also getting “Anal Whore” on my ass cheeks and my pussy pierced shut. Just a shame there’s nothing I can do to kill my clit! So excited and perfect timing for no pussy November!

Sounds like the perfect combination, I’m glad to hear that you’re going for it. And remember: just because your clit still works doesn’t mean you ever have to use it if you don’t want to!

Anonymous: I lost my anal virginity back when I was 19 and since then only done anal. I’m 22 now and now I’ve seen your page I’ve decided to stay anal only for life. The slut in me is even considering getting “Anal Only” tattood somewhere on my body. ?

A most excellent decision to stay anal only for good, I’m really glad to hear that! I think a nice “Anal Only” tattoo over your pussy would do wonderfully to commemorate that decision.

Anonymous: I discovered you a few years back. Turned my life around and actually gave me a little bit more confidence when it came to dating! I can’t really explain it, but I just never found pussy attractive. I eventually discovered anal talking with a few friends and instantly fell in love with ass. I got a little upset over all the pussy fucking in anal porn which led to Anal Only! Proud to say I’ve never fucked a pussy and I’ll be keeping my anal streak strong! Thanks man!

Thanks, it’s an honor to hear that! I’m really glad to have helped you. Honestly, you sound like me when I was discovering my preference for anal and anal only, only I didn’t have any resources to discover that this was a natural urge and I wasn’t a weird freak for wanting anal only until later in life.

Anonymous: Hi! I (22f) am a virgin but started seeing a guy for a few weeks and I’ve been sucking his cock but he wants more, so I suggested we just do anal and oral because I want to keep my pussy virgin, and he was so happy! His face lit up and he said I was his dream girl and he wanted to help make sure my pussy stayed unfucked and he would turn me into his anal only slut. We’re going to start training my ass tonight and I’m so excited. Wish me luck, and thank you for your blog inspiring me!!

Hi! That sounds absolutely wonderful, he’s lucky to be with a girl like you, and you’re lucky he was so happy to go for exactly what you wanted! It sounds like you’ll both be in for a good time, and you absolutely have my good luck wish—though I don’t think you’ll need it, you’re going to love being anal only!