Anonymous: When I first tried sex my bf couldn’t fit into my pussy without it hurting a lot, so we didn’t really get anywhere until I told him to try my ass and that was a lot easier and what we ended up doing. We tried my pussy again a few times but it never worked so anal is what we stayed with, and all I’ve done since. So I guess I’ve always been anal only, but I didn’t know it was a thing people chose to do until I found your blog. That’s pretty cool, I think I’m going to call myself anal only now too.

That’s great, glad you were able to discover that you’re far from alone in such a scenario and that it’s actually a really positive and sought-after way to be for a lot of people. Vaginal sex just isn’t very good anyway, so you aren’t missing anything at all if you’re already anal only.

Anonymous: So I have a long distance relationship and I will see my boyfriend in April. Since I am currently not taking any birth control pills we decided that he should take my anal virginity (with a condom ofc, u never can be too careful). But here it comes folks: I am a vaginal virgin. And truth be told I am following this blog since one year or so. Maybe I can stay anal only if he likes the idea and I show him this! Just wanted to share this with u! Xoxo from Germany Liz

That sounds like a great idea, and something you clearly seem to want for yourself based on what you’ve said here and the fact you’ve been following this blog for so long. No doubt you’ll be staying anal only for quite a while at least if you’re going to begin with it, and there’s no need to commit to it immediately from the start (unless you want to!). You can give yourself the chance to give it a serious try for a while and then decide later in the future whether you want to continue anal only. (You probably will!)

Lately, a number of women who are vaginal virgins have shared their stories, experiences or desires maintaining their vaginal virginity while being actively anal only. You can view those posts via the #vaginal virgin tag. However, more recently, there was a post on the Anal Only Lifestyle forum wherein a member has a new girlfriend who is a vaginal virgin but who would like to lose her virginity and try vaginal, while he prefers her staying an anal only vaginal virgin.

So I’ve been seeing this girl for about s month and three days after meeting she told me she was a techniqual virgin. I like this and we’ve only had anal sex since. She wants to have a go at vaginal and part of me didn’t want to let her but to get haveing anal.

Follow the conversation from there to see other people’s responses, more details, and to share your own perspective.

Anonymous: OMG I love the idea of anal only so much and after seeing how much you encourage virgin girls to go anal only I really want to do it too! I guess I already am but before I always thought I’d use my pussy eventually. Now I just want to stay with anal and keep my pussy special and virgin.

Yay! It’s becoming a trend! And anal only vaginal virgins are the best trend there could be, so of course you have my encouragement to do so as long as it’s what you want.

Anonymous: Hi! I’m an 18 yr old virgin submissive cunt who’s going to lose her virginity to her Master very soon .. But lately I’m not so sure anymore and I’m thinking about asking Him to fuck my ass first and keep going like that for a few months. Basically turning into a oral and anal only whore long before my cunt gets fucked for the first time. It makes me incredibly horny but it’s also kind of scary… what do you recommend, Sir?

I highly recommend it. You have nothing to lose by doing so, and it doesn’t need to be scary at all. Make sure to ease into anal and train your ass in advance so you’re ready for it and you’re confident in moving forward to anal sex.

Starting with anal is a great way to go, and I usually recommend staying anal only long term rather than jumping to vaginal. There’s a lot to be said about anal only girls with virgin pussies, and I think the world needs a lot more of them.

But you don’t need to make any sort of permanent commitment up front—try it for 3 to 6 months at first and then decide from there if you want to stay anal only and preserve your vaginal virginity long-term.

Good luck, and enjoy! I think you’re going to love being an anal and oral only girl. Please keep us updated with what you decide and how it goes. Feel free to ask any more specific questions you might have as well!

Anonymous: Another anal only virgin (for lack of a better term lol) proudly raising her hand. I’m 25 and I’ve been doing anal pretty regularly since I was 14 but my pussy is totally virgin except for a dildo when I was younger just to try it (I didn’t like it). I started because I really wanted to have sex but didn’t want to get pregnant (like a lot of girls) but then I just kept doing it anal. I love it, and after a while it turned me on to keep my pussy virgin, I really don’t want to lose that now. ?

Coming out of my more neutral and impersonal persona for a moment, that’s really incredibly sexy and appealing to me and I think it’s absolutely fantastic that you’ve decided to do this and that it makes you happy and turned on to keep your pussy completely unused. You have my absolute encouragement to do so and I hope a lot more women get inspired to do the same.

Stepping back into my neutral persona, I of course recognize that this isn’t necessarily for everyone and that some people want to try multiple things before settling on what they like, and while you and I may know that anal sex is where it’s at and vaginal just can’t really compare, some people want to see for themselves. And it sounds like you did the same with a dildo. If someone feels they need to try it all first, great. Go for it.

But I think there’s merit in starting with anal first and staying anal only for a while and only trying vaginal at a later time, in order to allow anal skills and pleasure to develop first without the influence of vaginal to compare it to. Because while anal has by far the most payoff for pleasure, it can take a little more effort up front to get into. Vaginal is easy but not nearly as rewarding. If someone starts with vaginal, they’re often much more likely to stay with it even if it’s not as pleasurable as anal, because it’s easy to do so. If someone puts in the effort with anal first, learns to love it, develops all the pleasure and orgasm pathways associated with it, and has a good bit of anal experience first, vaginal will have much less of an influencing factor on their sexuality going forward and they’ll be more prone to remaining anal centric or returning to anal only. Which is not to say that someone who starts with vaginal can’t recognize the benefits of anal or going anal only either—most anal only women had a lot of vaginal sex before going anal only—it just can take more effort in some cases.

I’ve hinted at this above and in other posts on the subject, but as someone who’s been anal only for 11 years without ever using your vagina, I suspect that if you were to ever try it at any point in the future, you’d find it immensely disappointing. And I’m not saying that in an attempt to discourage you from trying it, just that everything about your sexuality is anal centric, and vaginal is far more bland and simplistic a sort of stimulation compared to anal, so if the high of anal is your normal, vaginal simply isn’t going to compare positively. So I do sincerely think there’s really no point in trying—not that you’ve indicated any desire to do so.

Thanks for sharing your experiences. Those are some of my thoughts on the subject. I’d love to see more women making the same choice as you, personally, but I’m always happy to see more anal only women whether they have experienced vaginal sex or not.

Anonymous: I don’t ever want to even try vaginal sex, I really want to keep my pussy virgin and stay anal only forever. I’ve been doing anal for like five years now and I’ve never once wanted to try it in my pussy, it just seems wrong and I’ve no interest in it. But my friends think that’s weird and that every girl needs to try using her pussy. Is it really so bad to want what I want? Why? My pussy is nothing to me, but anal is everything. I just want to live my life anal only, it makes me happy and sexy.

No, there’s nothing at all wrong with wanting that. Some will say you should try everything and see what you do and don’t like and decide from there, informed in what every option has to offer—and that’s fine, if you want to do that. But there’s a lot to be said for going anal from the start and never wasting time with your pussy—let’s face it—if you’ve been anal only for five years already and have never tried using your pussy, you’re not going to like vaginal sex and it’s not going to offer anything to compare to anal for you.

Like you said, it’s what you want, vaginal doesn’t interest you, and you find it sexier to keep your pussy virgin. I wholeheartedly agree if that’s something you want—I’ve always had a soft spot for girls who are anal only with virgin pussies they never want fucked but who are extremely enthusiastic about all sorts of anal sex and play all the time. That’s a dream girl for a lot of guys—no pussy, ever, and no vaginal habits to break on the path to anal only bliss.

If a life of pure anal only is what you want, go for it! There’s no point wasting your time on something you won’t like and will regret doing because you’ll wish you’d kept your pussy unused.

Anonymous: Hey, I really enjoy masturbation but I always use my clit, and only sometimes finger my ass (but I never finger my vagina, in fact I am a virgin). How can I stop using my clit? I sometimes do “no touch” but I only can keep doing it for 2 days or so :/ pls help me in becoming a true anal only girl!

First of all, wanting this like you do is the most important first step. You know you want to be a strict anal only girl and that’s key! So, well done there!

You need to start shifting your thinking of what masturbation is. It should always focus on and center around your ass. Even if there’s any sort of supplemental stimulation, the primary act should be anal—always. So, you should be rubbing or fingering your ass, using a dildo, or wearing a plug. Don’t touch your clit without something in your ass at the same time. Work to develop that habit first.

From there, start to redirect your arousal to your ass instead of your clit. When you feel horny and want to touch yourself, rub and finger your asshole instead of touching your clit. Instead of thinking of it as “no touch” when you stop using your clit, think of it as no pussy or clit but lots of touch elsewhere—your ass, your asshole, your nipples, etc.

Work to reduce your dependence on clit stimulation gradually over time. If two days is all you can last right now, do it for 2 days and then try to go another day longer and keep pushing your limits more and more. It’s a process of trial and error and repeated increase of self control. Keep trying, don’t give up, and don’t feel bad if it’s hard. That will just make the reward that much more when you get there.

Anonymous: I’m a virgin never had a dildo/dick up my pussy. But have put anal plugs on.

Even better, then, you can focus on training and using your ass exclusively without needing to overcome any other distractions! Keep enjoying and exploring the pleasure your ass can give you and it will reward you tenfold.

Anonymous: I’ve decided to get the “Anal Only” tattoo on my pussy! Booked for the 1st November but I’m also getting “Anal Whore” on my ass cheeks and my pussy pierced shut. Just a shame there’s nothing I can do to kill my clit! So excited and perfect timing for no pussy November!

Sounds like the perfect combination, I’m glad to hear that you’re going for it. And remember: just because your clit still works doesn’t mean you ever have to use it if you don’t want to!