Message: How Can I Stop Using My Clit?

Anonymous: Hey, I really enjoy masturbation but I always use my clit, and only sometimes finger my ass (but I never finger my vagina, in fact I am a virgin). How can I stop using my clit? I sometimes do “no touch” but I only can keep doing it for 2 days or so :/ pls help me in becoming a true anal only girl!

First of all, wanting this like you do is the most important first step. You know you want to be a strict anal only girl and that’s key! So, well done there!

You need to start shifting your thinking of what masturbation is. It should always focus on and center around your ass. Even if there’s any sort of supplemental stimulation, the primary act should be anal—always. So, you should be rubbing or fingering your ass, using a dildo, or wearing a plug. Don’t touch your clit without something in your ass at the same time. Work to develop that habit first.

From there, start to redirect your arousal to your ass instead of your clit. When you feel horny and want to touch yourself, rub and finger your asshole instead of touching your clit. Instead of thinking of it as “no touch” when you stop using your clit, think of it as no pussy or clit but lots of touch elsewhere—your ass, your asshole, your nipples, etc.

Work to reduce your dependence on clit stimulation gradually over time. If two days is all you can last right now, do it for 2 days and then try to go another day longer and keep pushing your limits more and more. It’s a process of trial and error and repeated increase of self control. Keep trying, don’t give up, and don’t feel bad if it’s hard. That will just make the reward that much more when you get there.

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