Anonymous: I just want to thank you for running this blog. I’m 24, female and so “fixated” on anal-only at this point it is pretty much an orientation. I thought I was a freak, and I thought I was alone in this for along time. Just, thank you. I spent a long time thinking there was something wrong with me, and also that i would never find someone. It’s good to know I’m not alone.

Thank you for the very kind words! I’m so glad that you enjoy it and found it helpful in making you aware that you weren’t at all alone and that there are many others out there with the same preferences and desires. That’s always been one of my main goals with these blogs/sites—helping all us anal only lovers out there realize we aren’t freaks no one will ever be compatible. That’s how I used to feel as well, and discovering how many other people actually shared the same anal only desire was a huge awakening for me.

Anonymous: Did you know that God punishes sodomy?

If there is a supernatural being who created the universe, I have to think it would have more to be concerned about than whether some of its creations were sticking their dicks into buttholes.

I’m far more concerned about consent and mutual enjoyment than what others think about my sex life, including alleged gods.

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following responses.

ofbeastsandsophisticates: I love when people try to tell you what God thinks, especially people who don’t know the true history of their own faith. It is, or at least can be, quite comical. 

my-sub-conscience: ‘Thou shall not fucking judge thy neighbor!’ And I’m pretty sure that we’ll all be going to Hell then, having amazing incredible anal sex ❤️

kinktothebrink: Answer the question. Do you know?! Don’t give us such a cliffhanger.

November is almost here, and long-time followers of this blog know what that means—it’s time for another No Pussy November! That’s right, if you’ve been waiting for the chance to try going anal only with your partner, the time has now come! Whether you choose to try it for a week, two weeks, or the entire month—whether you have a partner or are a single woman who would like to take the challenge of a month of anal only masturbation—or even if you’re already anal only but would like to step things up a notch with clitoral denial, trying to achieve anal only orgasms, or something else—this time is for all lovers of anal only and those curious to explore further.

Those who choose to participate in No Pussy November, feel free to share your goals and progress here, or on the Anal Only Lifestyle forum.

Anonymous: How does it make you feel knowing that a lot of girls still won’t do anal?

Sad that they’re missing out on something amazing. That’s partly why I do my part to correct the common negative portrayal of it as something degrading, painful, and done only for men to enjoy.

The fact is, there are a lot of women who do love anal and get a lot of pleasure from it. In my experience, most who won’t do it have either had bad experiences with it in the past thanks to partners who didn’t know what they were doing, or heard stories of such. So education and widely available information on how to enjoy it and try it at their own pace can be very beneficial to encourage more people to try it.

Anonymous: You are trying to make sodomy look like a great thing when it’s really an abuse towards women… this is an evil thing what you’re promoting, pure evil, but… why do you promote this?

What makes you think anal sex is abusive towards women or evil? Forcing it, or any other sort of sex, on someone would be abusive and evil, but you seem to fail to recognize the fact that this isn’t just something only men want—many women really like anal sex too and get a lot of pleasure from it—often with more powerful orgasms than from vaginal. I fear you are grossly misinformed.

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following responses.

sa8216: Women have 3 times the nerve ending in their ass as the do their vagina. If you have a good partner that knows how to make you feel comfortable it can be an amazing orgasm. I have converted a few girlfriends that turned out to love it once they realized i wasn’t going to rush anything

phoenixandy: Towards women? Errr hello, how do you think gay guys have sex?

hiroshi-tea: Wow, what got up anon’s asshole?

pinklioness7: Someone needs to get laid….

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As always, there is also the Anal Only Lifestyle Forum, with a community of over 700 members, and which you should absolutely join if you have not already.

Anonymous: First of all, I love your blog! I’m a twenty year old vaginal virgin who has been in a committed anal only relationship for five years. I literally feel like this page was made to perfectly suit my sexual taste! ???

Thank you, I’m glad to hear you enjoy it and that you share the same interests. It’s always great to hear from other long-term anal only people, and from vaginal virgins who have chosen to remain anal only!

Anonymous: I wanted to make a retort to the poster who felt that you were misguiding people about anal. I figured out a long time ago that I can’t achieve vaginal penetration orgasm on its own. I enjoy penetration, it feels good. And I climax from clitoral stimulation easily. But it wasn’t till I started playing with anal that I achieve orgasm JUST from being fucked there. Every woman’s body is different! Anal works for me and I adore it!

Thank you for sharing—and you’re absolutely right, everyone is different and reacts in different ways to stimulation. This is why I encourage people to try anal and give it a reasonable chance—not everyone may end up liking or loving it, but trying different things is how you figure out what does work for you.

crispypizzadreamer: may I fuck your pussy

Normally I just delete the ridiculous messages I get like this, but this one takes it to a whole new level of absurdity. Where to begin?

1. I am male. I make mention of this with some regularity, but people seem to miss it or not pay enough attention to notice. Fair enough—it’s not plastered everywhere on my blog, and people can make honest mistakes, but it does get annoying after a time.
2. This is a blog advocating anal sex only and the total abandonment of vaginal sex. Even if I were a woman, what on this blog made you think I would have any interest in vaginal sex?
3. If you want to actually get a reasonable response from someone, don’t lead with a request to fuck them. (And don’t just say “hi”, either. Lead with something actually interesting that will make the other person want to respond and talk with you.)

desperatelifeater: I ran into this page by my feed and I have to say I LOVE to have anal intercourse. I’m a straight man and as much as I love vaginal penetration, there is just something about anal that I can’t get enough of. Any one care to share experiences?

If you read through the archive, you’ll find that many people have shared their experiences.