Anonymous: How does it make you feel knowing that a lot of girls still won’t do anal?

Sad that they’re missing out on something amazing. That’s partly why I do my part to correct the common negative portrayal of it as something degrading, painful, and done only for men to enjoy.

The fact is, there are a lot of women who do love anal and get a lot of pleasure from it. In my experience, most who won’t do it have either had bad experiences with it in the past thanks to partners who didn’t know what they were doing, or heard stories of such. So education and widely available information on how to enjoy it and try it at their own pace can be very beneficial to encourage more people to try it.

Anonymous: You are trying to make sodomy look like a great thing when it’s really an abuse towards women… this is an evil thing what you’re promoting, pure evil, but… why do you promote this?

What makes you think anal sex is abusive towards women or evil? Forcing it, or any other sort of sex, on someone would be abusive and evil, but you seem to fail to recognize the fact that this isn’t just something only men want—many women really like anal sex too and get a lot of pleasure from it—often with more powerful orgasms than from vaginal. I fear you are grossly misinformed.

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following responses.

sa8216: Women have 3 times the nerve ending in their ass as the do their vagina. If you have a good partner that knows how to make you feel comfortable it can be an amazing orgasm. I have converted a few girlfriends that turned out to love it once they realized i wasn’t going to rush anything

phoenixandy: Towards women? Errr hello, how do you think gay guys have sex?

hiroshi-tea: Wow, what got up anon’s asshole?

pinklioness7: Someone needs to get laid….

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Anonymous: First of all, I love your blog! I’m a twenty year old vaginal virgin who has been in a committed anal only relationship for five years. I literally feel like this page was made to perfectly suit my sexual taste! ???

Thank you, I’m glad to hear you enjoy it and that you share the same interests. It’s always great to hear from other long-term anal only people, and from vaginal virgins who have chosen to remain anal only!

Anonymous: I wanted to make a retort to the poster who felt that you were misguiding people about anal. I figured out a long time ago that I can’t achieve vaginal penetration orgasm on its own. I enjoy penetration, it feels good. And I climax from clitoral stimulation easily. But it wasn’t till I started playing with anal that I achieve orgasm JUST from being fucked there. Every woman’s body is different! Anal works for me and I adore it!

Thank you for sharing—and you’re absolutely right, everyone is different and reacts in different ways to stimulation. This is why I encourage people to try anal and give it a reasonable chance—not everyone may end up liking or loving it, but trying different things is how you figure out what does work for you.

crispypizzadreamer: may I fuck your pussy

Normally I just delete the ridiculous messages I get like this, but this one takes it to a whole new level of absurdity. Where to begin?

1. I am male. I make mention of this with some regularity, but people seem to miss it or not pay enough attention to notice. Fair enough—it’s not plastered everywhere on my blog, and people can make honest mistakes, but it does get annoying after a time.
2. This is a blog advocating anal sex only and the total abandonment of vaginal sex. Even if I were a woman, what on this blog made you think I would have any interest in vaginal sex?
3. If you want to actually get a reasonable response from someone, don’t lead with a request to fuck them. (And don’t just say “hi”, either. Lead with something actually interesting that will make the other person want to respond and talk with you.)

desperatelifeater: I ran into this page by my feed and I have to say I LOVE to have anal intercourse. I’m a straight man and as much as I love vaginal penetration, there is just something about anal that I can’t get enough of. Any one care to share experiences?

If you read through the archive, you’ll find that many people have shared their experiences.

Anonymous: I just wanted to tell u that you seem to be the “big daddy” of the whole anal/anal only tumblr community. You always seem to have an answer to all questions we got that relate to the topic of anal sex. I’m thankful for the existence of u and ur blog.

Thank you very much for your kind words. I started this blog, and its related blogs, because they filled an absence in other tumblr blogs at the time. There were certainly other anal porn blogs out there, but not really any that were anal only, and none that were anal only and talked about the concept. (There was at least one non-Tumblr anal only blog at the time.) That was the start, and as it took off it started to also become a place for other people who shared my preference to talk about it in a place where they wouldn’t be judged for preferring anal (and a place where people who don’t like anal can also talk about it without being judged), and I’m so happy to have helped provide that, as well as a resource for people to learn to better enjoy anal sex.

Anonymous: Hi, just wanted to thank you. Your blog inspired me to try anal, and after a few weeks of me fingering my asshole to your blog my boyfriend bought me a plug. After another week of stretching my ass we tried anal for the first time last night. By far the best sex I’ve ever had and it never would have happened without you, so thank you (from me and him)! I’m looking forward to hopefully having a wonderful anal-only future!

Congratulations to you both and I’m glad to have been an inspiration for such an enjoyable experience for the both of you! Good luck and keep enjoying it!

Anonymous: I’m I huge fan of you and your blog :)) I admire the determination and the honestly you show in every hate message you receive from the crowd! I respect that :)) me and my GF do ENJOY anal sex (and vaginal too, sorry XD, I know you are tolerant) I just want to encourage you to keep going and if some folks try to discourage you than tell them to go fuck some butt hole before talking about it 🙂 I mean if they did they will send you flowers instead of hate messages 🙂 so keep up with ANAL! Cheers.

Honestly, hate messages are exceedingly uncommon. Most people who contact me either enjoy anal or recognize that others do even if they don’t personally, and don’t act like trolls about it. Both recent angry messages undoubtedly came from the same source, and they don’t seem to be interested in further communication.