feral-baby: We had an unintentional no-play day yesterday (thanks allergy meds) but we’re right back on schedule today. He made me put my plug in before we went to the store for dinner. When we got home I couldn’t stop looking at anal porn because I’m obviously a glutton for punishment. He let me take the plug out but he immediately replaced it with his dick and it slid right in. Which is good because he told me beforehand that I’m not allowed to touch my clit anymore to relax. My favorite part about all of this is how no load is wasted. I love feeling him twitch in my ass when he fills me with cum ?

insatiablebabygirlsworld: Now this is a first for me…Anal Only!!! Its only been a couple of weeks since i started my journey. My master asked me to create a poll asking my followers for votes to go Anal Only. As I expected it came down to alot of people voting Yes, So here I am!! Few weeks in I have never been more wet in my life. My pussy has always be given attention now she is denied. Would love to hear from you guys who are Anal Only about your thoughts mmp ?

Going anal only is a great decision, and it’s no surprise that people voted overwhelmingly in favor of it, it’s rapidly growing in popularity and it’s a strong preference of a lot of men (and women!) so support of someone asking whether they should go anal only is highly likely.

Being wet and horny is a common benefit of going anal only—anal sex in general really makes women horny and wet, and going anal only just ramps up that arousal. Embrace and enjoy it!

It sounds like you’re having a good time with it already, and as you continue to get more experience with being anal only long-term, it will keep getting better and more fun. A month or two is often the threshold for a lot of people, and if they get past that point, it’s easy to fall into an anal only routine that works really well.

feral-baby: I was finally able to get on top of him and fuck him hard with my ass. He let me come twice and I’m still shaking. His rules as far as my clit go are only he can touch it, unless he orders me to edge. I’m still only allowed to come anally and only with his permission. I’ve never been so turned on for so many days straight. And I really love that every load goes right into me, no waste at all ☺️

feral-baby: We’ve finally decided I’m going to be anal only. For now, the only time my clit is allowed to be touched is when he’s helping me relax while getting his dick in my ass. As soon as I’m a little more loose there will be absolutely no touching my clit or my pussy. But that shouldn’t take long since I’ll be wearing my plug a lot more often and working up to wearing it full time and possibly even sizing up. This also means the only way I can orgasm is through anal. But I’m sure he’ll toy with me and refuse to let me come if I’m about to.

He’ll be leaving soon for 2 weeks and I have a feeling he’s going to plan something extra mean. I’m really looking forward to it.

Anonymous: I lost my anal virginity first and I regret ever straying. But after quite a few years mistakenly having vaginal sex, my husband has decided I’ll be strictly anal from now on. I couldn’t be more excited. But I’m really nervous I’ll become weak and touch my clit. He tends to go away for work once in awhile and we can’t afford a chastity belt. Would you happen to have any suggestions for ways he can ensure I won’t touch even while he’s gone? Your blog is very inspirational btw 🙂

I think a healthy approach is to recognize that habits can be hard to break and people slip up from time to time, and that’s a normal part of the process of reaching your goals and changing your habits. Do your best, recognize if you’re slipping towards an old habit. If you catch yourself partway through touching your clit, stop yourself. If you do end up touching your clit or using it to orgasm, own up to it, think about whether it was worth it, and dive back in to not using it going forward, trying to last longer without it the next time. If you and your husband have the sort of dynamic this would be appropriate for, you can come up with punishments that you feel are appropriate for touching your clit.

That said, there are things you can do to help. Focus on anal stimulation instead. Wear a butt plug often, use your fingers and a dildo to masturbate anally, and any time you feel the urge to touch your clit, play with your ass instead. If you get that urge while playing with your ass, play harder. Fuck a toy deeper or go to a bigger size, etc., and use it to motivate you to chase anal pleasure instead.

You can also experiment with numbing cream/gel like Orajel if you really find it hard to resist. A small amount applied to your clit will numb it for an hour or so.

Congratulations on getting back into the anal only lifestyle, it sounds like it’s exactly the right thing for the both of you!

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Thank you for replying! He got a really evil smirk on his face after reading the orajel suggestion haha

Anonymous: Any advice for a lesbian couple considering going anal only? Both of us are, if that’s important? We’d both be trying to forgo any kind of vaginal interaction.

Nothing too different from advice for anyone else—there are lots of options for non-vaginal/clitoral stimulation to explore together. Experiment with rimming, anal rubbing, fingering, plug wear, dildos, strapons, and more together. Incorporate other sorts of stimulation like nipple play, and more together. Enjoy yourselves! There are other anal only lesbian couples out there, and perhaps some of them could chime in with their own advice.

Anonymous: I never commented about it here but my boyfriend follows you and convinced me to do Anal Only April, which we did successfully. I don’t know if I want to go completely anal only, but I am considering at least getting rid of my vaginal-specific sex toys like my rabbit vibe and trying to only masturbate anally from now on. Could you give me some motivation for that? Maybe some anal masturbation tips?

Thanks for the message! I know there are a lot more people who try out things like Anal Only April and No Pussy November than those who talk about them publicly online, and it’s always nice to hear from more people and whether they succeeded, failed, had a good time, struggled, etc.

Focusing on anal only masturbation going forward sounds like a great idea! It can really make anal something very personal and help you focus on developing it into your primary pleasure source. It’s something I really encourage to help get into the anal only mindset and pursue pure anal pleasure. It can also, for many, really increase arousal levels, but everyone’s different in this regard. So I definitely think you should do that!

As far as tips, do a lot of experimentation. Use your fingers. Rub around the outside lightly as a warmup until you feel yourself relax, slip inside, add fingers if you want a stretch, try spreading your fingers inside your ass, explore for spots that feel particularly good to focus on, etc. A good dildo to fuck yourself with and ride is great to have as well, and experiment with angles and depth there as well to find things that feel really good and keep focusing on them. If you find something that feels like it could make you cum, keep doing it and see where it takes you. And get a butt plug or two if you don’t have any, for passive stimulation/training.

Good luck! Keep enjoying anal and keep it fun! Always feel free to share or ask any other questions that may pop up.

Anonymous: Easter anon again. At the beginning of April as I said I was looking forward to doing vaginal again, I said to myself as soon as May rolled around my pussy would get some attention. Now we’re in May and we haven’t even talked about vaginal. I don’t know why, even though I haven’t had an actual orgasm since, well, March, I’ve enjoyed this past month so much it’s just more appealing now whether I can orgasm from it or not. For now at least we have no intention of going back to vaginal.

Congratulations! I think that’s a great decision to not return to vaginal. As you’ve discovered, it’s a lot more enjoyable to be anal only, and anal is a lot better even without orgasms than vaginal with. After all, there’s a reason so many people keep going anal only—it’s not just a kink or a fetish, there really are reasons and advantages to doing so and once you get enough into the routine you really tend to not want to stop and go back to the way things were with vaginal. Enjoy! It just keeps getting better from here.

littlegirl1222: So. The thought of going permanently anal only is very appealing. I really enjoyed doing it for the month of April, the ache was exquisite and unique and there were times when I was literally dripping!

However, I looove having my clit teased until I can’t talk straight and there’s still so much I want to try in orgasm denial involving my clit! I can’t give it up just yet….

I’m thinking about doing a rotation thing, where one month I’m anal only and not allowed to touch my clit and the next month I can edge my clit as much as I want (or am allowed, or forced, etc.) possibly slowly making the time I’m allowed to touch my clit shorter and shorter until I’m not allowed at all….. or something of the sort…. I find this an interesting idea anyway and would like to give it thought….

That sounds like a totally reasonable compromise to keep anal only fun going but still explore and experiment with other things too. Would you stay anal only in terms of penetration all the time, and just alternate between using your clit and not? Or resume vaginal penetration at other times as well? A lot of people find anal only very appealing in terms of penetration but also need (or want) to continue using their clit at least some of the time and there’s no reason not to do that if it’s what works for you and lets you enjoy anal only fun and pleasure otherwise.

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littlegirl1222: We already mostly do anal, I enjoy it more and I’m pretty sure my husband does too, the only reason we really ever go vaginal is because we can’t find the lube. So the rotation would been one month strictly anal stimulation only and one month where I touch my clit and maybe vaginal if that’s what my husband wants at the time. I do kegal exercises semi regularly so I don’t really need Kegal balls, but I would LOVE a set and I would use them on the month I can touch my clit.

littlegirl1222: Finishing off April was a bit harder than I thought it would be after having an orgasm… I had to really immerse myself with other things to ignore the want to touch my clit, but I managed!

I’m pretty proud of myself! Now that I CAN touch my clit I’m a bit hesitant…. I’m not sure why…..

Maybe because going anal only for the month unlocked something that felt right inside of you and you feel the need for more of the same?

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littlegirl1222: ? fuck

msyounoavailable: and that’s how you get hooked on new kinks, at one point you just realize something turns you on 😀