Anonymous: How can I keep myself ready for anal? Sometimes my husband gets to my ass before I’m completely cleaned out. Should i just be ok with it being messy?

Sometimes anal is just a little bit messy and it’s not that big of a deal, however you can do things to minimize the chances.

If you have anal sex most or every day, try a schedule of cleaning after going to the bathroom each day rather than just before sex. It doesn’t need to be much, just a small amount of warm water to flush out the rectum (but no deeper) several times.

Wearing a butt plug regularly can help as well—it not only helps you keep more in tune with that part of your body and know how you feel, the stimulation helps clean yourself out naturally if necessary, and removing it before sex helps you verify that you’re clean.

Anonymous: Is there such a thing as too much anal? I can easily have sex 2-3 times a day. I really would call myself addicted as I feel a real ache, a longing, an emptiness when I’m not filled. Should I give in and wear my plug too?

If you’re properly trained and warmed up for it, you can have as much anal as you want. If it hurts or you start getting sore, then you might be doing it to much and should take a break for a day or two until you aren’t sore anymore. Just listen to your body. If your body needs more anal, give it more anal. If anal is starting to hurt or become uncomfortable, back off it a little bit. Try to strike that balance.

Wearing a plug can help to satisfy some of those needs while also keeping you warmed up for more frequent sex. Win win.

Anonymous: I’m a virgin never had a dildo/dick up my pussy. But have put anal plugs on.

Even better, then, you can focus on training and using your ass exclusively without needing to overcome any other distractions! Keep enjoying and exploring the pleasure your ass can give you and it will reward you tenfold.

Anonymous: Just bought myself 5 anal plugs and I’m obsessed! Came as soon as I put one in.

Thanks for sharing! It looks like it didn’t take very long at all for you to discover just how much better your ass is, did it? Stick with it and you’ll want to be anal only for good before you know it.

kitti3-prize: What’s your beat advice for moving up to the next size plug? I can’t seem to get past the widest part but the smaller one slides in easily. This is for Serious anal training. I can already take cock without much prep. The widest part is 2.3 inches

Keep trying, sometimes a new toy can take a while to get in for the first time. Try getting it in, push up to the edge of discomfort (but not into pain) and hold there a moment, then back off and try again. In between every few cycles of that, switch to the smaller plug (or different toy if you have something between both sizes) and slide it in and out a few times, then go back to the bigger one. Repeat as needed. You’ll get there eventually, but don’t push it too fast. If it doesn’t seem like you’ll get it in today, for example, don’t force it, put in your smaller plug again and try again tomorrow.

Good luck and enjoy your new toys!

Anonymous: Absolutely love wearing my plug, I just want someone to fuck me in the ass so we can start ignoring my pussy

You can start by ignoring your pussy on your own and have fun being anal only in your solo play. This is a good way to start getting into the anal only mindset even if you don’t have a partner interested in it yet. Instead of masturbating vaginally, do everything anally—either wearing a plug, fingering your ass, or using a dildo. If you need clitoral stimulation to enjoy anal, feel free to incorporate that as well, but only when something is in your ass at the same time. If you’d like to explore the idea of being anal only without clitoral stimulation, give that a try, but don’t feel obligated to exclude all clitoral stimulation unless that appeals to you or works best.

As far as getting someone to fuck you in the ass—once you feel ready, try asking. You’ll find plenty of guys will be eager to do so.

acuntdenied: I swear nothing feels better than that delicious stretch of putting a plug in. I love to hold it at the widest point and feel my muscles try and clench pointlessly at it. Knowing that they will soon give up. I slide it all the way in my body reacts instantly. My cunt feels empty and starts to drool.

It is as if my cun knows it isn’t supposed to have anything in it, only my superior ass hole is. The whole process makes me super horny and submissive. The plug as a constant reminder of my worthless, denied cunt.

Anonymous: I’m an anal virgin, I use plugs and use the biggest one in my set, but I am really worried about my first time with my partner. I’m worried that he either won’t fit or that it will hurt because ass immediately starts tightening up as soon as I remove my plug. Any advice?

Plugs are a fantastic element of anal training, but you can and should try using a dildo as well, and work to getting up to around the size of, or a little larger than, your partner’s penis. Use the plug in between the dildo masturbation to further supplement it.

It’s normal for your ass to tighten back up after use. The upper extent of your anal elasticity is what’s more important.

acuntdenied: After a week of not being plugged I am again. I can’t believe how right this feels. I forgot how much i love the weight, heft and the way it keeps me stretched and how wet and empty my cunt is in comparison.

I am also pleased how it went in without any problems. My tight little hole isn’t as tight and little as it was.

Anonymous: seems like you’re starting to focus more on pleasuring your ass, have you ever stopped to plug yourself during your absense here or being heavily plug kept being part of your bimbo duties?

dumbandpretty: I wear plugs often, if not every day. They’re a fun, easy way to make your day-to-day kinky.