Message: Staying Ready For Anal
Anonymous: How can I keep myself ready for anal? Sometimes my husband gets to my ass before I’m completely cleaned out. Should i just be ok with it being messy?
Sometimes anal is just a little bit messy and it’s not that big of a deal, however you can do things to minimize the chances.
If you have anal sex most or every day, try a schedule of cleaning after going to the bathroom each day rather than just before sex. It doesn’t need to be much, just a small amount of warm water to flush out the rectum (but no deeper) several times.
Wearing a butt plug regularly can help as well—it not only helps you keep more in tune with that part of your body and know how you feel, the stimulation helps clean yourself out naturally if necessary, and removing it before sex helps you verify that you’re clean.