gingerlysubmissive: Today Sir and I decided that I will be anal only and we’ll be ignoring my pussy and clit until further notice. I’ve never been able to cum from anal alone and I’m so curious to find out if I wil be able to! I love anal and I love being denied, so now I have the best of both worlds I guess ^^”. My interest in anal only started when Sir mentioned your blog one day, so I guess I have you to thank for this lovely new development ;P. Hope you have a lovely day ^^!

You’re welcome! Enjoy!

My MASTER believes only in anal sex. I had had anal before, many times, but with my Sir it is different. He has given me the gift of anal orgasms, the most powerful kind. Today after being punished, he allowed me two. I will never have pussy sex again. Anal all the way for me.

That’s wonderful. Once you can cum from your ass, there really is no need at all for your pussy anymore, is there?

Anonymous: Yes it feels good but its always messy. No matter how many enemas I do.

Try to slowly adjust the amount of fiber in your diet. If you have a healthy diet with the right amount of fiber, you shouldn’t have much of a mess regardless of enema use. And it’s not uncommon for enemas to cause more of a mess if you go to deep and start moving things along unintentionally. Try just going to the bathroom 30 minutes before and then trying sex or masturbation without an enema, or at most do a very light douching just to flush out the rectum and nothing more.

Otherwise, with a full enema, you have to keep doing it until you’re totally clean, which can take a while sometimes, and isn’t too good to do regularly as it can lead to an imbalance of intestinal flora.

Anonymous: if i can ware a large butt plug and want to go bigger should i get 2 smaller plugs or get a diff one?

Get a larger plug. Wearing two smaller plugs at once isn’t going to be very comfortable long term, while a single large plug can be very comfortable once you’re used to it.

Anonymous: Yesterday I was super horny and I wanted my boy friends cock in my ass he fucked and came in my tight lil ass 6 times yesterday each time using less and less lube it was amazing 🙂 I felt like such an anal slut and he would tell me how much he enjoyed fucking my ass and 5 times I squirted. I love anal sex

Sounds wonderful. Sounds like you should go anal only if you haven’t already.

Hey everybody, my name is Amy. I recently stumbled across your site and find it very refreshing. 🙂 I am 19 yo female. I have been sexually active for about 3 years now, however I am still technically a virgin. I have had a couple boyfriends and have always said I wanted to wait until marriage for sex. However, as I am still human, LOL, we have done other stuff such as hand jobs, blowjobs, I am sure you get the idea…

About 6 months ago I started having anal sex only with my current BF. It has really grown on us and we do it more and more. Until i found your site, I thought there was something wrong with what we were doing and was ashamed to talk about it… So I just wanted to say thanks for letting us know it’s not so weird!

You’re quite welcome, and I’m glad you’re able to enjoy it and not feel like you’re doing something wrong. There certainly is nothing at all wrong with anal or with being anal only, and its appeal is far greater than many people seem to realize before they see how many people share the same desire. It’s extremely common for people who want to avoid having vaginal sex until a later time, but it’s also common just because so many people prefer anal sex to vaginal.

analonlyhotwife: I have been Anal Only for over 3 years, since I got pregnant. Little over 2 years ago, we went total vaginal abandonment and forbid clit play entirely. Lately, I’ve been dying to feel something in my pussy. My husband has always had fantasies of me fucking other men and told me that if I want P-in-V, I could get it from someone else. Now I’m caught between giving my pussy to another man or staying anal only. Any thoughts?

If you still like the idea of being anal only and don’t want to give up the wonderful 3+ year streak, I would advise against it. It might be satisfying in the short term but disappointing in the longer term after you’ve done it.

However, if being anal only is no longer fun for you, then perhaps you should consider a change. You should be anal only because it’s what you want and you enjoy it.

But I of course always primarily advocate for becoming or remaining anal only. Temptations come and go.

Anonymous: Hey. First off I just want to say I love your blog❤. Its very helpful & informative. I have a question, when i masturbate anally it’s with no problem, I can cum, squirt etc… But when it comes to pleasing my man, it’s like I lose interest and the rush is gone.. But no sooner then 2-3 of his fingers in there & I’m fucking up the sheets lol .. What should I do?

Do you use clitoral stimulation during anal with your partner? Some people need to pair the two to get enjoyment from anal intercourse, at least at first. It could also be that the angle and position of intercourse isn’t providing you with the same sort of stimulation that fingers can.

Anonymous: hi! i’ve been wanting to do anal a lot more with my boyfriend and possibly going anal only but its so uncomfortable!! like so much to where i push him away which takes him out of his Dom head space. i REALLY want to give my ass to him. any tips on how to get used to the feeling?

I’d certainly recommend not going anal only until it’s comfortable for you all or most of the time. Practice is the best way to get more comfortable with it. Start masturbating anally on a regular basis—I’d suggest having a finger or plug in your ass every time you masturbate, and be sure to rub your clit or use a vibrator any time you’re masturbating anally or receiving anal sex. Clit play both helps you relax more, and associates the feeling of anal penetration with existing pleasures. Also try wearing a plug for longer periods of time even when not masturbating, and for half an hour or more before having anal sex.

Also be sure you have enough lube. Not enough lube can cause a feeling of discomfort even if it’s not actively painful.

valhallamead: Good show on the lovely blog. It does seem though that a significant minority of your pics do not show anal only sex, but rather never vaginal sex. I propose that true anal only would not include oral, it would be just that, anal only. It’s true that this might be a bit pedantic, but we are nothing if not honest with ourselves about who we are and how we describe ourselves to others. Not that there is anything wrong with both anal and oral. Just food for thought. Still, top rate blog. We’re fans

analsexonly: “Anal only” in its original use to describe this lifestyle and philosophy, and in my use, is a shorthand for “no vaginal intercourse”. Some people choose to interpret it more strictly, and that’s perfectly fine, but its use here will always include oral.