Anonymous: So I’ve been trying to get my girlfriend to do anal for the longest time, she’s loves when I eat it out and finger it and even regularly wears a buttplug, been nagging for for literally months about it… today she finally had enough and let me put it in her ass and I’ve never heard her moan so loud… after sex was over she said “holllyyyyyy shit so I regret not doing this sooner” I’m hoping this will quickly transition into an anal only relationship from here on out!

Congratulations to the both of you! Keep it up, make sure she always really enjoys it, and you’ll likely be having a lot more anal in the future.

I’ve been AO at my boy’s request as a try out – and well, it’s been 6 months now 🙂 I don’t see any reason to stop.

In fact, we’ve been playing around with me plugging myself a bit before we’re gonna be together – usually at work (heehee) – it seems to help me be ready – almost to the point of no foreplay (or extra lube, just what was left from the plugging – he slips it out and before I can close up again, he slides in slowly all the way).

I’ve been noticing, however, that I get really excited thinking about seeing him after work or whatever, but the stress of work mixed together with that energy can really make me get a little frantic and crazy. Only until I put my plug in do I seem to be able to calm down and direct my energy.. I don’t know why! Any ideas?

First, congratulations on the 6 months of anal only and the realization that there’s no reason to stop and you want to stick with it, that’s wonderful.

Frequent plugging definitely has the advantage of making frequent sex very easy and is an excellent habit for anal only women to develop, because it will make it much more rewarding and reduce common issues that get in the way of long term anal only.

If I had to guess, I would say that you’re calming down and centering yourself when you put your plug in for a few reasons—one being that it just feels good, and is sexual, so it shifts your thoughts and focus into arousal mode. Beyond that, though, it pulls your focus where it belongs—your asshole. Things are simpler when that’s all you’re paying attention to.

angelamourxxx: I was just thinking about how when I play with myself I almost never go for my pussy. I always go for my ass and clit. Even after buying a toy specifically for my pussy, I still ignore it. I go for my butt plug, or any other toy I use in my ass, instead.

I love getting my cunt fucked rough and hard, but when I’m by myself then the hell with it. Anal orgasms are just better.

horndogplace: I used to be so ashamed of the way I was, but I think I need to let you all know I’m an anal whore. I rarely play with my pussy and would love for someone to stick their big fat cock up my tight ass as I scream for more. Being this into anal makes me feel like such a dirty slut, but honestly I’m really starting to like it. Like yes, I do have a greedy ass who loves to get abused, but that’s just what an anal whore needs. It makes my pussy so excited when I completely ignore her and just roughly fuck my ass. I can’t fuck her with how tight she is anyways so why not make her suffer even more? I want to be able to have a butt plug in me at all time and constantly be filled to the rim with cum in my ass. Like plug your cum in me so my needy little ass can feel a bit more warm and full and remind her how slutty she is for liking it. I honestly cannot imagine why someone girls don’t even try sticking anything up their ass. Like sure, it tears your insides apart but all that matters is giving my ass what it wants. Also as the true desperate whore I wanna squirt from being fucked in the ass and forced to clean it up like the pathetic whore I am. Filming my ass is so much fun as well since I get to watch how beaten and swollen she looks after I roughly fuck her. It makes my clitty throb knowing how much cock I cold take up my ass and knowing that my pussy isn’t getting any of the attention. It’s making my pussy so wet knowing how I’m exclaiming how much I want to be anally abused like the true dirty whore I am. Ugh a cock would be so much more filling that my tiny fingers. Would someone be willing to feed their cock to my hungry ass?

Anonymous: Do you have any recommendations for butt plugs that have a wide neck? I don’t feel like any of my plugs stretch me out as much as they could. I did find some but they come in a set and are expensive when I would only use the bigger ones.

How wide is wide? The Tantus A-Bomb has a fairly wide neck. Tantus Tex is even wider, but the main plug is huge at 3″ diameter. Various glass plugs places like Amazon are available with wider necks.

naughtywhore12: Maybe my Valentine’s Day gift to myself will be a month of strictly anal only play and complete pussy denial

Anonymous: I was wondering if you know anything about extended plug use? Like always wearing one to sleep and wearing one during the day. I enjoy it but I was wondering if there are any negatives?

If it’s comfortable for you and doesn’t start to hurt, there are no negatives. Wear it for as long as you like. It’s not going to make you gape open permanently or be loose long term. If it starts to hurt, however, or feels like it’s cutting off circulation in any way, take it out for a while and try again after a break.

ditzystella: hello! so i am wondering if a little tiny nick in the metal is ok for my princess plug? still safe to use as far as you know? thanks! your friendly neighborhood anal only bimbo slut

It depends on the nick—if it’s sharp or rough in any way, I wouldn’t use it as-is, because you don’t want to cut or irritate yourself with it. If it’s something you can feel but doesn’t really catch your finger as you rub it over from any angle, it’s probably fine.

deniedbydaddy: My dom and I are thinking of trying anal and possibly anal only. I’m getting my first butt plug today and I was wondering if you had any tips or advice? Also, can you fart? No one ever talks about that part. Love your blog thanks!

Firstly, good luck and enjoy your explorations with anal and AO!

I would generally only suggest silicone, glass or metal plugs. Lower grade materials can be cheaper, but usually are not as safe to use or may cause irritation and discomfort. Note that silicone toys usually cannot be used with silicone lubricant.

Don’t go too small or too big for your first plug—something with the widest part not much bigger than the neck will make it uncomfortable to keep in for long and hard to retain without it wanting to slip out all the time. If you’ve done anal play with fingers or other toys, you can probably get a good idea of what size you can comfortably fit based off that experience, and go for a plug around that size or a bit larger.

Yes, you can still pass gas with a plug in. Some plugs are designed specifically to make this easier, but that isn’t strictly necessary. Pressing on the plug, or sitting down with it, can release some of its sealing effect if necessary.

Anonymous: My boyfriend and I have been interested into trying a month of anal only to see how it goes and we have been taking it slow to make sure I don’t get hurt and he doesn’t hurt himself either but we have run into an issue. Because of taking it slow he has an issue with staying hard enough (we really haven’t done anal much so he has to be 100% hard to get it in) and then I get turned off bc I feel like it’s my fault any advice?

Only go as slowly as you need to. If you’re fine and it isn’t hurting, you can try to go faster. You don’t need to go slowly just for the sake of going slowly, you should just listen to your body and what it needs, and go slowly when necessary but not when you’re fine. You can also warm up with some solo play and by wearing a butt plug before having sex so you’re more ready from the start.