Message: Getting My First Plug Today
deniedbydaddy: My dom and I are thinking of trying anal and possibly anal only. I’m getting my first butt plug today and I was wondering if you had any tips or advice? Also, can you fart? No one ever talks about that part. Love your blog thanks!
Firstly, good luck and enjoy your explorations with anal and AO!
I would generally only suggest silicone, glass or metal plugs. Lower grade materials can be cheaper, but usually are not as safe to use or may cause irritation and discomfort. Note that silicone toys usually cannot be used with silicone lubricant.
Don’t go too small or too big for your first plug—something with the widest part not much bigger than the neck will make it uncomfortable to keep in for long and hard to retain without it wanting to slip out all the time. If you’ve done anal play with fingers or other toys, you can probably get a good idea of what size you can comfortably fit based off that experience, and go for a plug around that size or a bit larger.
Yes, you can still pass gas with a plug in. Some plugs are designed specifically to make this easier, but that isn’t strictly necessary. Pressing on the plug, or sitting down with it, can release some of its sealing effect if necessary.