If You Haven’t Tried Ass To Mouth, Here’s Why You Should
Even among the more experienced anal lovers and anal only enthusiasts there are those who are hesitant to try performing oral sex after anal sex. As such, there are many who miss out on the joys and benefits of doing ass to mouth!
Common concerns include fears that it is unhygienic and unsafe, or that it’s unpleasant and will taste bad. However, so long as you take basic precautions to have clean anal sex and only perform it on partners who have penetrated yourself, there are few health or safety concerns. Similarly, most people who do it find that it actually tastes really nice when clean and genuinely enjoy doing it.
Ass to Mouth is Sexy and Fun!
For many people, the appeal of ass to mouth is that it really turns them and their partner on. Part of that can be due to its perception as something that not as many people do, while another aspect is the general appeal of sexual openness and open-mindedness, where someone willing to put their partner’s penis in their mouth after it’s been in their anus becomes more attractive and appealing as a result.
A lot of women who start doing it say that it makes them feel sexier and turn them on, so it’s not just about pleasing your partner—it can be lots of fun for you too!
It Can Taste Great Too!
The taste and flavor, despite what one might expect, is actually very good if you’re clean. It can have an earthy and sweet taste to it, and women who do it regularly find themselves getting addicted to it, not just to the sexy and slutty act, but to the flavor itself.
It Boosts Intimacy Further
Anal and going anal only already relies heavily on trust and results in significant increases of sexual intimacy as a result, and ass to mouth just takes that a step further, with a very open expression of acceptance of one’s own body and of each other as you share even further by adding oral after anal into the mix.
My wife and I recently started going ass to mouth. A while ago we decided to do the Dominant/Submissive thing and we drew up a contract – a set of ‘rules’. One rule being that sex should be defined as Anal sex (though we do still enjoy vaginal sex) Another of the rules was that oral sex would be performed by her at any time and without hesitation. The reason for this particular rule was that the thought that she might be required to perform fellatio anywhere, at any time gave her (and myself) a sense of excitement. It happened that one time we had had anal sex late in the night and fell asleep cuddling, without going to have a wash afterwards. In the morning we were kissing and I offered her my penis to suck. ‘But you’ve not washed it,’ she said. I suggested that the ‘at any time and without hesitation,’ rule covered that and that it added a level of continuity in sex play, rather than having to break off in mid excitement to go and have a wash. The act was hugely erotic and grew into the desire to do ass to mouth just for the sake of it rather than just because we happened to have had sex the previous evening before falling asleep. My wife ran hot and cold with the act of ATM. She keeps telling me how excited and erotic being bound by these ‘rules’ makes her feel, but that I’ll have to take my chance on her reaction to ass to mouth depending on her mood. There are various things covered by our set of rules, but this comment is in reply to ass to mouth. ATM has been the only real stumbling block within the rules, yet it has also been one of the most erotic and satisfying for us both. We have had to learn how to communicate and react. For instance, one surprise was that on one occasion, when she refused to take my cock into her mouth during anal, I said something like, ‘ok baby, I’m sorry, I’ll never ask you to do that again then’ – Big mistake, I lost all her respect as far as being dominant went – which was bad because she enjoyed being submissive – and yet in real life she can be quite feisty. But then when I realised that she didn’t want me wimping out like that and I tried to be a stronger more insistent character, she didn’t like that either. So, I have had to learn to be dominant and stand my ground about the things I require of her, so she can feel dominated, but I have to do it in a tender/firm way so she feels dominated and yet loved. We are now at the point where, even if she has had a refusal in a thing, even if she has had a strop and flounced off – she can go from loving something one time to biting my head off about it another, even then, she will come up to me and whisper in my ear, thank you for a wonderful weekend, I loved it. It is a weird emotional stage where I may think I have upset her, pushed something too far only to find a little later that the eroticism of the ‘incident’ has been building inside her and she has become super horny. So whichever way the emotions go, it seems to heighten the eroticism in general and we seem to be growing even closer through it. Someone mentioned about the taste, yes I would also say earthy and sweet, not at all unpleasant. Unless you have a stomach upset, but that would come under common sense. I read up on it and as far as I can see, the bacteria up your bum, and in poo for that matter (as long as it is fresh) is just stomach bacteria – similar to a tub of Yakult. I also read that a treatment has now been developed for severe dysentery involving getting facies from a donor known to be without illness and placing it in the recipient’s bowel to repopulate the stomach bacteria. In my view, and experience (from analingus – and more recently ATM), Bacteria and even the odd bit of visible poo does no harm whatsoever when swallowed – as long as it is fresh and you are both in good health. In fact, I think it is more probably of benefit. We did ass to mouth, among other things, this weekend and my wife came to me later, apologised for the short refusal she had made when asked to take me in her mouth straight from her ass and asked me if I would start scoring her out of ten so she can gauge her progress at performing ass to mouth – That was something I wasn’t expecting.
This may be different for other guys but the strategy I’ve used is verbal communication and encouragement. Encouraging words like “try a lick, I’m sure you’ll like it.” “You like the taste, don’t you, it’s so sexy.” “Go ahead and suck it all, it’s all for you to enjoy.” “You like how your ass tastes on my cock, don’t you? Don’t be embarrassed. Just spit and suck.” If you can say things along these lines in a nice gentle way, it goes far in letting her know it’s not a dirty, disgusting thing but rather an intimate and sexy.
From the girls I’ve had go ATM, they really enjoy tasting their ass. So I do focus on vocalizing the flavor and smell so that they can get accustomed to it and grow to enjoy it. I tend to precum a lot. Apparently, ass juice and precum taste good together. For me it’s important to train girls for ATM earlier on because the kind of sex I like to have it just back and forth hard assfucking to blowjob to assfucking to blowjob. ATM to me is a natural pathway in AO lifestyle.