This was originally posted on the companion porn blog on Tumblr, which I was considering ending posting to after Tumblr blocked public access to adult content for non-logged-in users in July of 2017.

After thinking it over last night and this morning, I’ve decided not to end posting here. Despite the external block preventing a lot of new people from finding this blog, I still have over 120,000 followers here who enjoy and make use of this blog, and I don’t want to give up on or abandon all you awesome people. Until there is a better option available, I will continue posting here and updating this blog as well as exploring other options elsewhere and working to build https://www.analonlylifestyle.com into even more of a community beyond just the forum. If anyone has any ideas or suggestions for that, please reach out and share them.

Anonymous: What do you have against pussy?

I like anal more, to the point of not wanting to spend any time on vaginal anymore. I experience far more pleasure and satisfaction and intimacy from anal. I celebrate that fact on this blog, and encourage others to try it as well so they can experience the same.

The anal only community is more than just this blog—there’s also a forum and chatrooms where you can talk with others! Be sure to join our Anal Only Lifestyle forum or our brand new Anal Only Lifestyle Discord server to chat with us!

Discuss anal and the anal only lifestyle, share your experiences and desires, get advice and learn from others, and make new friends!

According to an announcement sent out today, Tumblr will be blocking public access for non-logged in users to all adult-oriented blogs on July 5. This means that if you are not a logged-in Tumblr user, you will no longer be able to access this blog, and presumably it will disappear in Google search results as well, meaning people will no longer be able to search for “anal only” and have it come up. Unfortunately, this has been a way that many anal only individuals have been able to find this community and discover that they aren’t alone and there are many others of us out there as well. A significant amount of my traffic is via Google—over 3,000 people per day find this blog by searching for related topics. That will disappear overnight if non-Tumblr users are blocked from viewing the blog, as presumably that will also exclude search crawlers from properly indexing it anymore.

It’s been some time since original content has been posted here, but I’d like to see it starting up again and this blog becoming more than just a place to reblog asks and text AO-related topics. Do followers have any particular topics related to anal and the anal only lifestyle that they would like to see discussed or address more in-depth? Make your suggestions either in a response to this or an ask or private message, and you may see a longer form post on that topic appearing in the future.

Anonymous: Hey ladies getting all high and mighty about this being anti feminist, you couldn’t be more hypocritical. Feminism isn’t about not doing certain things in the bedroom because it’s perceived as something men want. It’s about doing what makes you and your body happy. I for one am a woman who much prefers anal to vaginal, so instead of preaching about something you don’t have a full grasp on, go do what makes your body happy, and let us do what makes ours happy!

This is always the right answer—do what works for you. This blog is sharing one perspective, and it’s biased heavily in favor of anal and anal only, but I recognize that this will not appeal to or interest everyone. That’s fine. If you know what you want, do it. If you want to explore new things, maybe try anal if you haven’t already, or going anal only for a while if you already know you love anal.

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following response.

naughtyman1966: Thats how sex should be no pressure, consensual and enjoy yourselves

a1bosshogg: You have such a great blog. I love that it’s not vulgar twards women and how respectful you are to people that disagree with your (our) views. It makes it something you can show your wife or girlfriend. Great job!!!

Thank you. My intent has always been to focus on the female perspective of anal pleasure and show anal positivity rather than the crude, degrading or hateful tones some take when talking about anal. Anal is pleasure and intimacy and can feel better than anything else for women when done right, and focusing on that rather than myths and hate is the way to encourage more people to try it for themselves.

Anonymous: Another chiming in to thank you for your blog. I found it a long time ago and it really stuck in my mind and before long became my number 1 fantasy. I started masturbating anal only last year and that turned me on so much that I started to cum from anal without my clit. The orgasms feel better that way, and I think it’s sexier to not rub myself. I was single at the time, but when I got a new boyfriend who was into anal, we agreed to ignore my pussy and haven’t used it at all. So, thank you!

You’re welcome, and I’m glad I could help inspire you to try it! Enjoy, and stay anal only.

Anonymous: I hate your blog so much! I wish you would take it down. You’re making it so hard for women who won’t do anal to date anymore, all the guys want anal more and more or anal only, and I could never do that. Why do you insist on anal only so much? It’s like we’re all going to have to go anal only now just to get a date.

I highly doubt I have the influence to affect your dating life. Anal only may be growing in popularity over just a few years ago, but it’s still a fairly niche practice. Far more likely is the general cultural acceptance of anal leading to guys being more assertive for their desire or need to have anal. Anal is becoming like oral in the not-to-distant past—no longer a niche, something many people are expecting as a normal part of a relationship.

Just as these guys you’re encountering seem to be standing up for their need for anal, you can stand up for your disinterest in it. I guarantee there are guys out there who only want vaginal as well.

I’m not “insisting” on anal only, I’m advocating for it and encouraging people to try it, but beyond that everyone has the ability to decide whether they do or don’t want to have anything to do with it. As it turns out, a decent number of people like the idea.

That said, why not try anal? Try it on your own time, get familiar with it, masturbate with something in your ass. You’ll probably enjoy it. There’s a reason it’s getting so popular, and it’s not a one-sided thing just because guys want it. It feels really good for women when done correctly, and can make you orgasm better than vaginal/clitoral. It’s definitely worth experimenting with for your own sake, at your own pace.

The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following responses.

420spacequeen: I am a strong independent woman and fuck my ass on a regular basis. I love it!! So many nerve endings. Use a plug while masturbating your clit. Go bigger and bigger each size plug. You’ll soon be begging to be fucked in the ass non-stop.

wrexless: Masturbate with a butt plug in, or have your partner use a toy on you while you have a finger or plug (or anything really) in your butt. That’s how my wife got into it.

Anonymous: Please don’t be intimidated by political correctness and keep on managing your blog exactly how you want it! I’ve always been into anal, but it’s my husband who gradually brought me to anal only, then clitoral denial, then helped me enjoy sex independently from orgasms. We have a power exchange thing going on, he can be quite verbal, and like you, he loves telling me how my cunt and clitoris are useless, how anal is the superior thing, etc. and I love it! We both love your blog as it is!

Thank you—I intend to.

I’m glad to hear that you’re both happily enjoying the anal only lifestyle, and that you enjoy the blog.