My wife (41) has developed a chronic UTI. If she stays on a 20 day round of Cipro, it will go away, but as soon as we have sex, it comes back. And the Cipro makes her feel sluggish and bad.
Has anyone in this group chosen to do an anal only lifestyle because of this reason or another medical issue that made vaginal sex difficult/impossible?
I’ve been anal active with another partner in the past. I would really like to bring that into this relationship… after my hysterectomy I don’t orgasm the same as before and don’t get much physical pleasure from vaginal. Anal on the other hand blows my mind and I love that submissive mindset it puts me in!
So the question i am asking…. how did you introduce the idea to a husband?
We are an exclusive male/ female relationship. We haven’t ever played in the power dynamic but I’d definitely be open to that and him being a more aggressive and dominant partner.
Kinkychemist87, Anal Only Lifestyle forum
Anonymous: I found this site after my girlfriend told me that she doesn’t like vaginal sex and wants to do anal only with me. I am worrying that I am doing something wrong and not giving her what she needs, but reading here it seems like many girls just prefer anal, is that true? I love anal, but I don’t want to limit her if she wants more than that or if she just isn’t enjoying vaginal because of me.
It’s definitely true that a lot of women love and prefer anal, some to the point of not wanting vaginal at all. It has nothing to do necessarily with the guys, it’s just their own preference, and can be for a lot of reasons. Of course, some may prefer it because they know that guys prefer it and they get enjoyment from that, but in many cases it comes from a personal preference for anal already.
Keep communication open with her about it and make her comfortable to be open and honest with you, and you won’t have to worry about her doing something she doesn’t want to. If she approached you about wanting to be anal only, chances are she just loves and prefers it and wants to be an anal only girl, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Enjoy it together and satisfy each other’s needs.
I’ve been with my boyfriend for the last 3 years, and since the beginning it’s been established as being both a poly and kinky relationship where I am the sub. I’ve always considered myself pretty open to different kinks and have liked the idea of being anal/oral only, even before I met him. My boyfriend also likes the idea a lot, but in the past hasn’t want to dive into trying it because he still wanted to be able to fuck my pussy if and when he had the desire to do so.
We started dating another woman a couple months ago, and she is great in so many ways. My boyfriend and our girlfriend have a much more sexual relationship together than I have with her, which has been talked about and agreed upon with all three of us.
I’ve always liked the humiliation side of things when it comes to kinky sex, and in the last couple weeks my boyfriend and I have decided that my pussy is off limits, and that my role is now simply a masturbation aid for him. As I mentioned, I’ve always thought the idea of anal/oral only was really hot, but now the added part that I am simply there to help make sure he feels good and gets off, as well as knowing that he does have another pussy to fuck and feels amazing to him, is REALLY fucking hot.
Now to my question. I do very much want and need to maintain intimacy with my boyfriend, and so does he. We both love and care for each other so much, but neither of us are quite sure how we can keep that physical intimacy and love between us that comes with having face-to-face vaginal sex, yet also still maintain the strong denial aspect that I desperately want and need.
Can anyone help me understand what you do to maintain that intimacy while also enjoying the objectification that comes with this? How did you get over the societal norm of vaginal sex being the only truly intimate way for two people to have sex? Are there any particular positions or styles of anal sex that allow you to still feel that intimacy?
Hey everyone, never thought i’d post here, but due to a surgery I can’t have any vaginal sex for two weeks. My partners and I have a free use arrangement, and now that I’m mostly recovered except for this limitation, they’re getting creative with how they want to take me.
One of my boyfriends has always expressed interest in anal and we tried it but I didn’t enjoy it, because I never have. I’ve done lube, training, etc, I just don’t like it. However, because of all this, I have agreed to wear a plug for a few hours every day (having to show my bf proof) until I’m ready to try taking him.
And yall. It has been great. i’ve done chores while wearing it and it makes me feel so domestic, doing these things for him and wearing the plug for him. I still wouldn’t say I love it or anything, but it doesn’t hurt and it’s not bad at all, plus it makes the orgasms I can have more intense, since clitoral stimulation only isn’t really strong enough for me to be satisfying on its own.
I recently walked to the store while wearing it and it made me feel very slutty and hot; I always end up with my hand between my legs when I’m wearing it just because of the idea. I’m looking forward to actually regularly incorporating this into our sex life.
Anonymous: Covid has made it really hard for me, it’s been a long time since I’ve had sex and I’m really lonely and really want to be in an anal only relationship. I’ve been trying my best to keep things anal only but it’s easy to give in and masturbate other ways too when there’s no end in sight and I get really jealous reading about couples who were together before it all started and have been able to use this time together to go anal only or try new things but for everyone else dating doesn’t exist anymore.
I’m sorry to hear that you’re having a hard time with it. I think a lot of us who are single are experiencing something similar, and it is hard when we want to date and meet new people but we can’t. Hopefully things get better soon, though!
As for staying anal only in the meantime, you can always try to spice things up again and give yourself new challenges, or you can try to meet someone online and have them challenge you and give you some level of motivation and commitment.
Best of luck!
I’ve been reading a lot of posts relating to haemorrhoids. Most people say it’s caused due to enemas or douching. I think I use the municipal water for enemas. I love fingering myself but after reading these post I’m scared to do enema and I don’t want haemorrhoids. Please tell me how do I avoid haemorrhoids and still continue anal play
Without a doubt Corona is a catastrophe for the whole world with a vast social impact for nearly one year now.
There are restrictions in meeting new people. Couples and families are put together in homeoffice and distance learning.
Did it affect your analsex life, or rather your anal only lifestyle?
analogue, Anal Only Lifestyle forum
How do you manage this?
Several responses:
Working from home gave me the opportunity to increase my plugging, which helped increase anal opportunities. At least a silver lining to the pandemic.
Pluggedkitty, Anal Only Lifestyle forum
I don’t live with my partners, so I haven’t had sex in months. If I lived with a partner, I probably would have more sex, it’s a good stress reliever.
Samy, Anal Only Lifestyle forum
The pandemic made it possible for us to return to the anal life. I can say with certainty that the pandemic has made us AO again.
BBS, Anal Only Lifestyle forum
My girlfriend and I want creative ways to lose any desire for vaginal sex!
We have been anal only for a year, but there is still a trace of wanting vaginal. At the same time, we don’t want to break that one year mark!
Suggestions are welcome
I’m a 28M have a wife whose 27 we’ve been together for about 7 years got married for nearly 2 years. I was always interested in anal but never tried because scared to ask for it. but 8 months ago when my wife asked out of nowhere to put my penis in her ass mid-sex. at first, I was confused because I never thought she would ever ask for anal (i thought she was joking) so I asked are you sure about that and she said yes without wasting time I put my penis in her tight ass at first I felt very pleasurable but when I did back and forth some her feces stick in my dick which turned me off instantly because of that I didn’t even cum on that night and we slept in different rooms because of the embarrassment.
After that day, we made up and have the usual vaginal sex. we didn’t talk about those things from that day. After a week, we are in the car stuck in traffic so, I asked her about the anal stuff she said she watched a lot of evil angel, elegant angel porn(those who don’t know those porn’s have a common theme around anal) on that she was curious about how anal sex feels like that’s why she asked for dick in her ass on that day. so I asked her “how did she feel on that day,” she told me it was terrible and painful she didn’t feel good at all she asked me how those porn-stars do those acts, and then we came to the conclusion that we must be doing it wrong on that day and we gonna try again sometime soon and then
we did a bunch of research about that online(which also led me to find this community) and also I asked my friends and she asked her friends about these things she learned about Enema and much other prep work she also bought some anal toys and I brought lots of lube.
finally, when we are ready to do the did I begin with PIV and then I started fucking her anus. at first, I thought she is not enjoying but after a while, she started riding my dick like crazy I never seen anything like that from her before, she described she never had a more intense orgasm like that before. on that night we got so horny that we end up having sex 6 times on the same day we also did Anal to mouth. we didn’t sleep that whole night we both agree that that day was the best sex we ever had.
after that day we agreed we gonna have anal on a weekly basis because it takes too much time to prepare for anal sex than for normal sex and also those days when she’s menstruating we also gonna have anal on those days too.
after a month, on an anal day, I went straight for anal which she actually liked it. she told me she prefers anal over vaginal since then we are having anal only on anal days. we also realized we aren’t enjoying vaginal sex anymore so we start having a normal followed by an anal day followed by a normal day and soon on. On an anal day, we are having sex 2-4 times(we are getting lots of free time because of the lock-downs) whereas 1 or no sex on a normal day. she also spotted having Clitoral Stimulation at the same time.
and finally, in October we tried an anal-only month trial 1 week in she didn’t want to go back to having normal sex anymore because we both enjoy anal much more than vaginal sex and now she got faster with her anal prep so we don’t have to wait that much time anymore.
and now we are planning for having a kid so we promised each other that would be our last vaginal sex in our life.
since we started having anal we are happier than before we also changed our lifestyle such as eating healthy and light food, no more pills, condoms, and no more pregnancy check-ups every week, we are enjoying sex much more and we got much closer than before. all thanks to my wife who wants to try something new in her life led me to this awesome lifestyle and also shootout to those online guides.
and also to those who want to have anal but are scared to ask your partner. don’t be afraid who knows she also thinking about anal just like you.