Message: I Want to Stop Touching My Clit

Anonymous: I’m anal only but I still find it soo hard to stop touching my clit even though I can cum from anal without it, I just can’t break the habit!! What should I do to try and stop? I really want to stop!

First, I just want to reaffirm to everyone that if you enjoy playing with your clit and it works for you, or if you need it in order to enjoy anal, you don’t have to give that up in order to consider yourself anal only as long as you aren’t engaging in vaginal intercourse. With or without clitoral stimulation, you can be anal only. That said, I know a lot of women enjoy the idea of being strictly anal only with no vaginal or clitoral stimulation at all, and if that’s an idea that appeals to you, by all means pursue it. Especially if you can already orgasm from just anal, it makes a lot of sense.

To answer your question more specifically, there are multiple things you can try.

  • When you feel the urge to rub your clit, rub and finger your asshole instead, or if you have a plug in your ass, squeeze down on it when you feel that urge.
  • Give yourself a challenge to go without your clit for a full day. At the end of the day, if you made it, try going another day. If you didn’t, try again for a single day. If you make it multiple days before rubbing your clit again, set that as your new baseline to try and beat the next time. Repeat until you’ve established the self control to go without it and focus just on anal stimulation.
  • Get orajel or a similar sort of numbing gel/cream and apply it to your clit to temporarily remove the sensation during scenarios where you would be prone to rubbing it. Then, if you do touch it, you won’t feel anything and the act of touching it will have no reward and you’ll slowly start to break the habit.
  • Wear a chastity belt. This may be more complicated and expensive and cumbersome than you want to deal with, but it is an option.
  • Get a clit shield with piercings to keep it in place. This may be more extreme than you want to deal with, but it is an option.

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