Message: I Want My Wife to Stop Touching Her Clit

Anonymous: My wife and I have a lot of anal and one day I hope we can go fully anal only. But that’s another story. My problem is that when we have anal she still wants to play with her pussy but I would prefer she left it alone as I think we should both focus on the anal so we enjoy it completely without other distractions. I think anal is better this way and how its meant to be. Any advice on getting her to keep her hands off so her thoughts are just on my cock in her ass?

That really should be up to her. Not everyone can feel the same level of pleasure just from anal on its own, and some women need to combine anal with clitoral stimulation in order to enjoy it. That’s perfectly fine if that’s what they need, even if the idea of pure anal only with no other stimulation may be appealing. Your partner’s enjoyment should probably come first, though.

You can always talk to her about the idea of experimenting with sex a few times where she just focuses on the anal without touching to see if she can get a different sort of pleasure that way or learn to orgasm just from anal. She might be interested to give it a try, or mix it in occasionally. But if not, you should respect that. Ultimately, it doesn’t actually affect you in any sort of negative way, and if it’s what she needs in order to want to have anal sex, it’s certainly not worth trying to stop if you want to continue having anal.

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