Message: Anal Only September

Anonymous: I joked about having an Anal Only September with my long-distance boyfriend and we ended up actually deciding to try it… now I’m only allowed to touch my clit if I have a toy inside my ass and in two weeks I’m going to go pure anal only with no pussy stimulation whatsoever… I’m really nervous but also super excited… any tips?

Congratulations! A month of anal only is a wonderful way to experience the benefits of an anal only relationship without making a long term commitment up front. I’m sure you’ll love it! I like the idea of incorporating clitoral denial but easing into it over a couple of weeks, and I’d like to hear more about how this goes for you as you transition from being able to use your clit during anal play to going pure anal only.

I would suggest starting out with a higher frequency of clitoral stimulation during your anal play but working towards tapering it off as you approach the two week point where you will abandon it fully, in order to help with that transition rather than it being a sudden removal. Try, during the first two weeks, to get close to orgasm with as little clitoral stimulation as possible, and see if you can continue to push that more and more until you’re only using your clit the absolute bare minimum needed to cum.

Once you do go into the clit denial stage, whenever you feel the urge to touch yourself, rub your ass and your asshole instead. Finger your ass, use toys, do whatever it takes to redirect that urge to touch your clit to your ass instead, until it feels natural to go for your ass instead when you feel aroused. The urge to touch your clit is a habit, and it can be changed.

If you haven’t already, I would suggest joining the Anal Only Lifestyle Forum and creating a thread in our Challenges forum where you can post updates and receive encouragement from other users. Those who have done so find it helpful to maintain momentum towards their goal. Good luck, and enjoy!

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