Month: August 2015

Message: Anal 69

Oh, and a nice anal-only position: the girl (or whoever gets the rimming) spoons the guy, but in reverse. This way the guy can lick the butthole only, which makes the girl crazy with lust. And the girl can still suck on a dick… Well the guy must be taller and the girl quite flexible… And the game is that the leaking pussy must not be touched at all…

In french I’d call that “69a rue des roses”, as it is it is a 69 with a “feuille de rose” which is the poetic name for rimming in french…

Message: Anal Only, Finally!

Anal has always been my main fantasy, but for years it remained only a fantasy. I have been living with the same woman for more than 25 years, and we had sex she very often had a finger up her ass. Her favorite position was her riding me, with me fingering her ass and my other hand kneading her nipple. She always would deny anal, because she did not want to waste sperm as we were trying to have a third kid. I am lucky that she gets very wet just from sucking my dick, especially if I force her a bit, that’s the only foreplay we may have on a good sex session.

One day I was spooning her and had been fucking her pussy deeply for a long time, she’d got really wet. Of course had I fingerfucked her ass at the same time, and she was very much turned on but hadn’t cum. Before she would orgasm I pulled my dick out and I applied it on her bumhole, not pushing. She started pushing on it and could get the head in, but it was so tight I deflated. I rimmed her some which turned her on even more, she got  just about crazy hen I rimmed her without touching her pussy or clit. Her pussy really leaks then, and I can use her cream as the only lube.

But we retried and this time I could get some of my dick in and fuck her until cumming, she was soo tight! She did not cum, but told me the pain was very interesting. She trained a bit and after a few time I could ram her balls deep, only using her pussy cream as lube. I can actually penetrate her deeper up the ass than vaginally.

We had some problems of urinary infections, because I got back into her pussy after ass. Take my advice, don’t do that!. Ass is a one-way: you go there, you stay there!

Now she has turned into an anal loving slut who is disappointed the rare times I go vaginal, and puts my dick against her pucker, and gets the strongest orgasms of her life when i am fucking her ass deep and she stimulates her clit. She even blows me after I have anally fucked her, which is a thing that would happen only on porn movies.

The smell of ass is actually quite arousing, and I am rimming here with gusto.

We still only spoon, but I would like she anal riding me, but no penetration was possible until now. Any advice?

Now i want to assfuck her in almost public places, when she goes commando under her short dress… And she complained about me recovering too slowly, talking about another dick…

Sex life can improve after many years of routine!

Message: Mandatory To Get An Enema Before Anal?

Anonymous: is it mandatory to get an enema before any type of anal play or masturbation?

No. In fact, I would generally avoid an actual enema, which flushes out deeper, beyond the rectum and into the colon. Some people do regular anal douching (just washing out the rectum), while many just eat a balanced diet with a good amount of fiber and are generally clean enough without needing to clean out.

Message: Wearing a Plug All The Time

silvercrow503Hello I need training advice. My hopeful sub is embarrassed by the idea of having something up her ass constantly. Any ideas on how I could reassure her and make her more comfortable during the starting phases of the plug training? Thank you

If she’s just starting out, she shouldn’t really even being considering wearing a plug all the time. It’s fine for that to be an eventual goal, but initial training should focus on making it comfortable and enjoyable, the hopeful outcome being that she ends up enjoying it enough she may become excited about the idea of wearing a plug more long term. Start just with anal play (fingers and/or toys) during other sex acts she enjoys and gets pleasure from, then slowly have her wear the plug at other times, perhaps while masturbating on her own at first, then sometimes around the house for half an hour at first, and working up in time from there.

Message: A Sort of Anal Only

I recently realized that in a way, me and my fuck buddy have been anal only: the only place he has ever come with me is my ass 🙂

If I would have to choose only one hole, I would definitely no question about it be anal only. But I also like PIV, and it’s nice that he often fucks my pussy when he prepares my ass for penetration. But my favourite part of sex is when I’m opened up and he fucks my ass hard.

I also wanted to thank you on your advice to see how it feels it you’re not touching your clit while being penetrated. I realized that I can come from penetration only, both vaginally and anally! And I love the feeling, it’s like see, no hands! 🙂 I usually orgasm many times during sex, so I’m alternating between touching my self and enjoying the penetration only.

I actually hadn’t really realized how much this idea of anal only had appealed to me, until I noticed how happy I was about him coming only to my ass 🙂 Because like I said, I also like PIV and am sure I would not like to give it up. But I was happy to discover that there is this anal only sort of thing that suits me perfectly.

Thanks for sharing! I’m glad you’ve tried new things and in turn have discovered new things about yourself, and I’m glad this blog has a certain level of appeal to and following from those who may not be interested in a “strict” anal only lifestyle but still gain something from the discussion.

That said, why not give it a try? Even if you’re sure you don’t want to give up vaginal, consider giving it a try for a month or two, and see what it’s like. Plenty of people have gone into an anal only trial period convinced they couldn’t give up vaginal for good, but come away realizing that they don’t actually miss it.

Message: Opening Her Mind to Anal Without Being Pushy

assluver79: I love anal and ass play in general. Well, obsessed might be more accurate. However, my wife is not overly keen about it. Any tips or suggestions on how I can open her mind to it without being overbearing or pushy?

You have to start small. Rimming, or a finger, during other things like clit play, vaginal fingering, vaginal sex, or oral sex. If she’s okay with those, make them as pleasurable as you can for her any time you do it until she actually wants it to be a regular part of sex. Work up from there. But the first step before continuing any further has to be that she actually wants to do more with anal.

Message: I Crave Being An Anal Slut Who Forgets About Her Pussy

Anonymous: I asked my partner if we could go on a picnic tomorrow, somewhere secret where I can suck on his dick and then take it up my ass. I decided I’ll wear a dress with no panties for the first time, I crave being an anal slut who forgets about her pussy.

Good for you! The world needs more anal-obsessed women who take the initiative themselves to get what they want and need. I hope you have an excellent day.

Message: Oral Acceptable in Anal Only Lifestyle?

Anonymous: Just curious, do you strive for pure anal only or is oral acceptable as well?

Oral is great. Most people use “anal only” as shorthand for “no vaginal penetration”, but it can be a little ambiguous in that regard. Some people do exclude oral as well and focus purely on anal penetration, but that’s certainly not a requirement to be considered anal only, nor is it very common.