Message: Advice on Toys for Anal Play
Anonymous: Hi, I am 19 years old lesbian and I am an Anal virgin, so me and my girlfriend want to try it since we both get turned on by seeing anything that is related to Anal sex and my girlfriend is somehow dominant and she always told me that any sub/Dom relationship is nothing without Anal play. And for that I need your expert advice about what kind of toys should we start with and witch brand and type is better (glass, silicone or metal) then to witch ones should we upgrade, thanks
Glass, silicone or metal is a subject of great debate and really comes down to personal preference. They’re all good but each have advantages and disadvantages. Silicone has some give to it and so can be more comfortable, but can’t be used with silicone lube. Glass and metal can be used with any lube but are heavier and have no give at all.
I usually recommend (and it seems a number of other people have been lately as well!) the Tantus Ryder as a starter plug. It’s 1.5″ diameter at its widest point, silicone, and commonly available online for around $20. If you can’t yet fit something 1.5″ diameter, I’d suggest getting up to near that point with fingers first. Once you can fit three or so fingers, you’re probably ready to try that plug.
I have less recommendations to give for dildos—there are many out there, of many different sizes. Figure out what sort of size will work for you right now, and search for compatible toys. Tantus, Bad Dragon and SquarePeg toys are all popular manufacturers of high quality silicone toys, but some of them can get to be fairly expensive.
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