Message: Anal Gaping & Anal Only August

Anonymous: I actually have a couple questions if you don’t mind 🙂 Q1. I’m looking to stretch my hole and create a cute little gape, how do you suggest going about this? I know to use plugs but I’m not sure how many times and for how long! Q2. My Master and I are thinking about participating in AO August, however, we haven’t done much sexually in quite some time. I’m craving it but not sure if I could handle a whole month. Some tips? Thank you! 🙂

1. A gape is something that becomes possible as you gain greater muscle control and can relax at will, generally in combination with recent anal sex or play to help temporarily relax the other involuntary muscles around that area. Just keep training with plugs and dildos as regularly as is appealing to you. Wearing a plug while you walk around and do other things can really help develop muscle control as you retain it and keep it inside you. It’s up to you and your body how long you keep one in per “session”. Do it for as long as it’s comfortable or you are otherwise able, then take it out and put it back in at a later time. Over time, the duration you can comfortably wear a plug will increase. You also, of course, want to make sure you have a plug that’s comfortable to wear for longer than a few minutes and which stays inside easily and comfortably without wanting to pop out all the time. As you stick with this, gradually increasing the size you can fit, you’ll be able to relax more easily, and as you can do that, you’ll find yourself able to gape your ass.

2. Anal August doesn’t have to be a whole month of anal. It can serve as a first introduction to anal only of whatever length works for you. If you’re worried about a whole month, try a week or two. (And you could of course continue after that if you wanted.) Anal August is something that’s been around for a few years now, unrelated to and before this blog existed, and isn’t strictly Anal Only-specific. If you end up enjoying whatever duration of anal only you try and then want to go for a full month, keep an eye out for announcements later this year for the third annual No Pussy November, an actual full month anal only challenge. (Or try it on your own anytime!)

Hope that was helpful in some way, and feel free to ask more if you have any other questions.

Related Posts

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.