Message: True Commitment
After being with my girlfriend for over 4 years and having a great sex life (including anal sex about once or twice a month) we came across a few stories of couples going anal only. At first we were sort of mind boggled by the thoughts of couples being anal only. We couldn’t imagine the relationship actually working that way.
As time went on, we talked more and more and we decided to try it for a week. Only a week. We successfully finished that first week (5 times that week) after some struggles with it but we were able to keep going.
After 7 days, we added another week. Another rough week for her even though she enjoyed it. After that, we kept adding time and we made it for an entire month! The last week of our first month is when we learned a lot. We learned how to make it better every time we made love, even being able for her to reach orgasm occasionally. After more conversation, we continued into the next month. Even after only one month, my eyes seemed to find her luxurious asshole much sooner then her pussy.
Last week I went to our local KAY jewelry store and bought a ring, yes I bought a commitment ring. On Friday, June 29 2018 I surprised her with the ring! I asked her if she wanted to commit to an anal only lifestyle until we decide to have kids in the future. Her eyes gazed at the ring with excitement and then she looked into my eyes, smiled and said “yes, yes I will do as you wish.”
I slipped the ring on her finger next to our couple ring and she loves it! We celebrated our commitment with red wine, a romantic dinner and a night of hot kinky anal love making.
She will be getting a tiny tattoo on her right ankle within the month of July that will say “6/29/2018. STAY TRUE TO HIM FOREVER!”
Now let me add this, we had an amazing sex life before going anal only, but I feel like the connection and polarity I experience by making love to her through anal sex is much stronger. Her moaning is noticeably more aggressive and louder during anal (guys, take notice of the moaning with your women, please). Her giving me love and her body and soul in such ways has made our relationship much stronger. I know we will have vaginal sex again eventually but it will probably just be when we want kids someday.
The original version of this post on Tumblr received the following response.
alwaysanalblog: A touching and inspirational tale which just goes to show how easy the transition to an anal only lifestyle can be for a couple who love and communicate with each other.
It doesn’t take very long to see the benefits of anal only, and a month or so out of a lifetime isn’t very long to find out if it is for you. If it doesn’t work out, then what have you lost? Having said that, most couples who approach it with an open mind quickly come to prefer it for the obvious increased connection and intimacy.
The only point where I would disagree with the account is the direction to take note of the woman’s moaning or vocalizations during sex. This is highly individual – I’ve known many women to be loud, and an equal number to be quiet, and it in no way reflects the pleasure or passion of the woman. Instead look for involuntary signs of arousal, such as dilated pupils; increased blood flow to face, neck, chest and labia; engorged nipples and clitoris; relaxing of the sphincter, as well as spasmodic contractions of the anus and rectum.