Message: Anal Used To Be All We Did, But Now It Hurts
daddysprincessdiana: My husband and I used to have anal be our main kind of sex that we had. I would wear a butt plug every day, and we would only have vaginal sex if we forgot what it felt like. Then in March last year it started to hurt. Really badly. And we had to stop. Since then we’ve tried every couple of months, but it’s gotten to the point where even my smallest plug hurts. Do you know what could have caused this or what I could do to make it stop hurting? I miss anal
I’m sorry to hear that, that’s terrible. What sort of pain is it that you’re experiencing? Is it a sharp, stinging pain, a burning pain, or something else?
It could be a hemorrhoid or fissure that hasn’t fully healed or keeps getting irritated again.
It could be a sensitivity to the sort of lube you’re using or one of its ingredients, which can cause a lot of pain for some people. If you’ve tried multiple lubricants and it even hurts with natural lubrication as well, that may not be the case.
It could be a combination of factors with one primary trigger initially as well combined with falling out of the routine and things that were once easy because you were more relaxed and in the habit of doing something are hard to get back into now even if the original issue has healed.
Ultimately, I would suggest visiting a doctor about the issue to get a better understanding of what the cause is and see how you can proceed forward from there.
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