Message: Thinking About Being Anal Only, But I Love My Clit

Anonymous: I really like anal, like a lot; I don’t get much pleasure from vaginal sex / vaginal penetration, so I’m thinking about being anal only. My problem with that is I love clitoral stimulation. I mean I’ve had anal sex were I didn’t touch or barely touched my clit but I like to masterbate using my clit. Is it bad I still want to masterbate with my clitoris?

Fundamentally “anal only” means “no vaginal penetration for sexual purposes”. A lot of anal only women still use clitoral stimulation if they want/need to. Do what works best for you, and don’t let a desire for clitoral stimulation otherwise prevent you from going anal only.

I would suggest that if you masturbate with your clit while being anal only, make sure to have a finger, dildo or butt plug in your ass at the same time, to remain anal-centric in your masturbation and work towards just using your clit to get over the edge to orgasm.

That said, I do encourage exploring anal without clitoral stimulation, at least from time to time, and figuring out what sort of pleasure you can experience and unlock without your clit overpowering things.

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