Here are ways make anal sex pleasurable for both you and your partner.

August is anal sex month, so I’ve put together some tips for how to try it without any pain and, possibly, find it orgasmic.

I’ll summarize the tips below and you can go to the full article to read the details of each.

1. If you can’t see it happening, it will never happen.
2. You must know your own body.
3. Make sure you lubricate!
4. Use a condom for all anal sex.
5. Women in porn often stimulate their clitoris during anal play.
6. Use your fingers or a small anal toy, like the Bendi Butt Plug, to warm up for anal sex.
7. As Jayme Waxman said on Better Sex Radio, porn stars are sexual athletes.
8. Women should use her muscles to push as she moves onto the penis.

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Anonymous: Have you had an anal only weekend yet? I noticed about 4 months ago you mentioned you’d need some frequent anal attention to do it. Just wondering if it’s been attempted by you yet.

thepublicproperty: I will do it on my South America trip next month. In fact, I will start the trip anal and bj only, and keep it that way as long as I can.

If you aren’t already anal only, take this month to experiment with it. Don’t feel as if you need to go for the entire month if you don’t want to, but try an amount of time that you feel comfortable with at first: a weekend, or a week, or two… or, if you’re feeling daring, go for the entire month and see what happens. You might be surprised by the end of the month and want to go even longer.

Be sure to share your experiences, both positive and negative, here.

This was posted on reddit just 8 days ago:

M/f couple and we’re going to give it a go for no real reason. We just think it might be fun.

Is there anything we should know before we leap in? Any anal protips to help us get through the week?

I wonder how it went for them? And more importantly, are they going to stick with it now they’ve tried it?

hot-n-nasty: No pussy November might be over, but that’s ok because it’s now Deep Anal December.

Very good! Every month, of course, should be anal only, but it is nice to have some “official” months to encourage newcomers to anal only to join in and hopefully keep going after.

I wrote an anon update a couple weeks ago but here’s the official announcement that my wife and I (the2beans in various internet areas) successfully went anal-only for all of November. It was the most amazing sexual experience of my life and I know she received great pleasure all the while also.

We had anal last night (the final night of Nov) and after we finished, I told her that she had accomplished a big achievement and then told her about the No-Pussy November drive and how we’d just succeeded in the effort. She was surprised, not realizing until then that it had actually been five weeks since we had vaginal sex, and was very proud of our accomplishment, knowing that few people in the world will have done the same. So proud was she in fact, that 30 minutes later she grabbed my hand and led me back into the bedroom for another go since she was still cleaned and stretched and ready to fuck.

We were already on a good anal kick before November started anyway, but the November drive did give me some added motivation to try to really keep her pleased and coming back for more. So thanks for that. 🙂

But that doesn’t necessarily mean you should stop the anal exclusivity. If you and your partner had a great time and aren’t missing vaginal sex all that much, why not take this opportunity to jump into the anal only lifestyle full time?

Submit your experiences over the last month with us, ask any questions about going full time, or post more in-depth content and questions at our forum.

Anonymous: In response to your November update call, so far so good. The wife has eagerly given me her backdoor about 8 times so far and it looks like I’ll easily be making the November goal. 🙂

Excellent. If you’re both still enjoying yourselves with anal only at the end of the month, I encourage you to just keep going with it!

Now that we’re about halfway through the month, it’s time for a status update. How is everyone doing with No Pussy November?

And remember, it’s not too late to join in for the rest of the month if you haven’t already.

No Pussy November is here and the time has come for everyone participating to begin a month of pure anal pleasure.