Message: I Want To Be Anal Only, But My Significant Other Prefers Pussy
euphoriasslove: I want to be anal only. I orgasm so much harder. But my significant other doesn’t enjoy anal as much as pussy. What do I do? Cheat on him?
I don’t and won’t advocate cheating. That’s not fair to anyone. If you’re unhappy in a relationship, respect him enough to be up front and end it before having sex with anyone else.
Before doing that, there are other things you can try. You could compromise and have all your own masturbation/play be strictly anal only and not use your pussy or clit for anything except with him.
You can talk with him and try to figure out why he thinks he likes pussy more. A lot of guys say they do, but it’s rooted in a societal concept that men are supposed to prefer pussy and think of it as a woman’s primary sex organ, rather than a true superiority over anal. If anal regularly requires waiting for cleaning or lots of warmup, some impatient men can find it less exciting than vaginal, because less preparation is needed there. Regularly being prepared for anal at a moment’s notice through regular plug wear or play can make anal and the anal only lifestyle more appealing to such men.
You can ask him if he’ll try going anal only with you for a month and give it a chance on its own merits rather than his preconceived notions about it.
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