Message: How to Keep Him From Playing With My Pussy During Anal?
Anonymous: I honestly thought there was something wrong with me. I learned early that the easiest way to cum was from anal stimulation. None of my partners until recently wanted to even try anal, but my current lover is a self proclaimed Ass Man & eagerly fucks my ass, but likes to play with my pussy when he does. I get very wet when my ass gets fucked, & he’s fascinated. The problem is I cum really easily from my clit, but the orgasm from anal is much better & stronger! How can I convince him “hands off”?
I would just come straight out—maybe not during sex itself, but before you have sex sometime—and explain the situation to him. Tell him that while you don’t dislike the feeling of him playing with your pussy or clit while he fucks your ass, you love cumming from anal itself, and when he rubs your clit it short circuits that process and prevents you from getting the bigger orgasm you’d enjoy even more because you cum from your clit before you can get the orgasm to build from just anal. Most people are eager to help their partner get the most pleasure they can from sex, and should understand the appeal of what you want.
You could also phrase it a bit differently—asking him if he wants to see you cum just from his cock in your ass and nothing else, and to avoid touching your pussy in order to try, then when you do, tell him that you enjoy cumming that way even more.
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