Message: Anal Only Turns Me On, But I’ve Never Done Anal

Anonymous: Tumblr just recommended your blog to me and TBH I’m digging it. I’m not in a relationship right now but damn thinking about it is turning me on. I don’t know if I could do it though, I’ve never had anything bigger than a finger in my ass.

Welcome to the anal only lifestyle (even if it’s just a fantasy or something you’re considering at this point)! Our Anal Only April challenge is going on right now, and it’s a perfect opportunity to explore it on your own terms. Even if you don’t have much experience with anal, that’s no reason not to try it if you’re turned on and intrigued by anal and the idea of going anal only.

Depending on whether you want to try it with or without clitoral stimulation, you can either start to masturbate anally only without your pussy or clit, or just without anything in your pussy. Make sure to include and focus on having something in your ass every time you masturbate, whatever you choose.

Start small, with just a finger. Lubricate it and massage around and across the outside of your asshole to begin with. Go slowly and gently, and as you feel your ass starting to relax and open up to your finger, slip it inside. Get into a routine of fingering yourself, and try different angles and depths to see what feels best. If something feels really good, try to focus on doing that.

Over time, one finger will be comfortable and easy for you. When you feel it is, try a second finger. Then, work up to a third. When you can easily and regularly use three or more fingers, you’re probably ready to buy a plug and/or a dildo to start using and maintaining both passive anal stimulation as well as advancing to more active anal masturbation with toys.

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