Message: Advice for Anal for the First Time
Anonymous: My boyfriend and I want to try anal for the first time. We’re sexually active since not a long time but we’re really open with each other and I know he’ll be gentle but how can I make this work? Like, how can I make sure he won’t hit poop or anything like that during anal? How can I “get ready” for it beside relaxing? (sorry if that’s a weird or gross question)
Go to the bathroom an hour before. If you have a generally healthy, balanced diet, that’s probably all you’ll need to do, because the rectum, where most anal sex takes place, stays empty unless you need to go to the bathroom. Some will use a small anal douche to lightly flush out the rectum as well, but this isn’t strictly necessary for everyone. Depends on your own personal preferences and needs.
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