Discussion of the Day: She prefers anal sex, completely rejecting vaginal intercourse. It makes me feel dirty but I accept this because I love her. What should I do?

My girlfriend only wants anal sex and I really don’t feel comfortable with this. I am a strict Christian I do not believe that this kind of sex is either appropriate or godly. I only go along with it because I love her but it makes me feel very dirty what should I do?

I am supposed to be marrying this woman in August of this year. When I met her six years ago she never asked me to do this and our sex was far more enjoyable but she completely rejects vaginal intercourse now and I find this rather perplexing.

I have tried talking to her obviously but she says that she prefers it and I can’t understand why.

Uh, maybe because it feels better for her?

What is wrong with these people answering the questions, too?

What kind of reason does she give you for not wanting vaginal intercourse? This would be a big red flag to me, and keep in mind that this likely won’t change without some work addressing this issue.

Treating a love or preference for anal and a dislike of vaginal sex as an issue that needs “work” to resolve it is terrible and just serves to shame and condemn people whose bodies work differently from others.

i can’t understand why either. i am a girl and i’d prefer vaginal sex. i don’t think that anal sex is a turn on. and plus it hurts.

We’re in desperate need of broad anal sex education if the average woman continues to believe anal sex has to hurt no matter what. A combination of a lack of education on the subject and bad experiences with guys who don’t know how to prepare a woman for anal sex is ruining the most pleasurable form of sex for many people.

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