Help! Anal Sex Is The ONLY Way His Penis Stays Hard!

Apologies for the title – the point is to show how absurd and out of touch even the supposed “experts” are.

The title is borrowed from a submission to askdanandjennifer.com from “Frustrated girl”:

My boyfriend and I have a wonderful emotional relationship as well as a wonderful physical relationship. He recently convinced me to try anal sex. I hated it at first but after giving it a few extra shots it was ok. He loves it so much! So most of the time I let him finish there. Lately I’ve noticed that if we skip the anal and just stick to vaginal, he can’t finish and just ends up loosing his erection. Am I not tight enough anymore in comparison?? I am 20 and he is 32… Is there a possibility that he is loosing his drive?

Now, you would suppose that the love and sex advisers would point out that it’s a diverse world and different people are turned on by different sexual acts, and to varying degrees – and as long as it is consensual then nothing is unusual. WRONG!

Instead they end up sowing confusion and propagating the same old myths:

However, if your partner is wanting to have a lot of anal sex, you might be concerned. Even more so, if your partner is losing their erection if they’re not having anal sex, you might wonder what you’re doing wrong or if there’s something wrong with your partner.

No, they just like anal sex.

If your partner is consistently losing his erection, that could be another issue altogether. If this is the case, consider seeing a medical doctor and even a sex therapist to find out what might be the issue.

No, he doesn’t have erectile dysfunction, as he’s capable of anal sex.

Remember that the anal canal was created to be an exit, not an entrance. That doesn’t mean you can’t have a little fun with it now and again, but you certainly don’t want to make a huge habit out of it.

Not that one again. Where is the evidence “making a habit out of it” causes any harm?

Whilst the article wishes to be seen as balanced, understanding and impartial, the advice given is actually founded on ignorance and fear.

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