Category: Vaginal Virginity

Anal sex has long been used as an alternative to preserve one’s vaginal virginity, but as that becomes culturally less important for people, vaginal virginity is becoming a matter of choice and preference instead, with women learning they prefer anal early on and deciding to go with anal as their default from the beginning and never bother with vaginal.


Message: Very First Orgasm Was an Anal Orgasm

Anonymous: Geez! I just found this blog and it made me remember how I ended up into anal all because of my first girlfriend. We were in a long-distance relationship, so she asked me to keep myself a virgin so she could be the one to “pop” my cherry. Instead of preventing me for any kid of sexual pleasure, she asked me to play with my ass! My very, very first orgasm was an anal one! Not even a “just rub the clit” kind of orgasm. I was hooked after that.

How long did you stay anal only after that?

Message: Virgin, Tips to Go Anal Only?

Anonymous: I’m a virgin in both pussy and ass but I have had toys in my ass, like a dildo. Any tips about joining the anal only lifestyle.

Just keep doing what you’ve been doing—play with your ass regularly and over time work towards being able to use bigger toys until you can easily and consistently use penis-sized toys (or larger) and enjoy it. Only use toys in your ass, and not your pussy, and you’re anal only.

How I Became an Anal Only Vaginal Virgin

pandora14492: Wow! First, your blog is hot AF. Second, can you tell the story of your first time and why/when you decided to go anal only?

severelykrispysaladFirst time i had anal..i was 15 or 16 and had told my boyfriend that i was a virgin, he said it was fine and blah so one day we were getting heated and such, i told him i didn’t want to lose my virginity yet so instead he told me to get on my knees, then before i knew it he forced himself dry in my ass, and it was amazing
so i later decided i wanted to keep my virginity so here i am today, an anal only girl

Message: Still A Virgin If Anal Only?

stacysstillcherry: If a virgin guy and virgin girl decide to do anal only, are either of them at least technically virgin still?

If you’ve had sex, whether it be anal or vaginal, then you are not a virgin.

If you’ve only had anal sex, then you are not an anal virgin, but you are a vaginal virgin.

If you’ve only had vaginal sex, then you are not a vaginal virgin, but you are an anal virgin.

Where it becomes a little more subjective is with oral—some consider cunnilingus, analingus and fellatio to be more of an act of foreplay, while others consider them sex acts equal to anal and vaginal intercourse.

Message: Pussy Gets Wet From Anal

Anonymous: I think I’m an anal only woman, although my pussy gets all wet and seeks for attention, most of the time I just need to have my ass full and I feel much more useful. And I’ve been ass fucked but not my pussy, I don’t feel I need it.

Just think of your pussy getting wet as a sign of your arousal and desire for anal sex, rather than something that needs its own attention. Thanks for sharing.

Message: Anyone Gone Anal Only Without Vaginal First?

Anonymous: A lot of straight people do anal only for awhile to preserve virginity for marriage or a special person. A lot of lesbians have tried sex with men, before realizing their preference and then no longer being with men. Are there any of these lesbians whose only straight sex was anal? They must be out there, but no one seems to be fessing up to it. And also straight couples who have done anal only without starting out with vaginal first.

There are definitely anal only couples who went straight to anal only and skipped vaginal. I’m sure, in fact, that every scenario you’ve described exists, even if I haven’t specifically heard of it.