stacysstillcherry: If a virgin guy and virgin girl decide to do anal only, are either of them at least technically virgin still?

If you’ve had sex, whether it be anal or vaginal, then you are not a virgin.

If you’ve only had anal sex, then you are not an anal virgin, but you are a vaginal virgin.

If you’ve only had vaginal sex, then you are not a vaginal virgin, but you are an anal virgin.

Where it becomes a little more subjective is with oral—some consider cunnilingus, analingus and fellatio to be more of an act of foreplay, while others consider them sex acts equal to anal and vaginal intercourse.

Anonymous: Question/Caption idea. Getting ass fucked to keep virginity? Something you’d consider? (Or having an ‘anal only’ relationship?

stacysstillcherry: Consider it? Hell yes! I’m just waiting for either a guy to have the balls to suggest it or for it to somehow come up so I can. I need to caption that, good idea

Anonymous: if you could only be fucked in one hole for a year which hole would you choose

severelykrispysalad: My tight little ass of course..
I’m a virgin in the other one so I have no problem not being fucked in there?

dirtyydaddyy: I’d love to make a slut anal only. So that her clit and pussy are forbidden and her only form of stimulation comes through her ass. Even better if she was a virgin to begin with but anyone would do. She would be begging and pleading for her ass to get pounded. Mmm I need to find a slut near me.

Anonymous: I think I’m an anal only woman, although my pussy gets all wet and seeks for attention, most of the time I just need to have my ass full and I feel much more useful. And I’ve been ass fucked but not my pussy, I don’t feel I need it.

Just think of your pussy getting wet as a sign of your arousal and desire for anal sex, rather than something that needs its own attention. Thanks for sharing.

Anonymous: A lot of straight people do anal only for awhile to preserve virginity for marriage or a special person. A lot of lesbians have tried sex with men, before realizing their preference and then no longer being with men. Are there any of these lesbians whose only straight sex was anal? They must be out there, but no one seems to be fessing up to it. And also straight couples who have done anal only without starting out with vaginal first.

There are definitely anal only couples who went straight to anal only and skipped vaginal. I’m sure, in fact, that every scenario you’ve described exists, even if I haven’t specifically heard of it.

Anonymous: I lost my virginity three years ago and have only ever had anal sex. To this day I have never had so much as a finger inside my pussy, a total pussy virgin, but so far I’ve had 32 different and beautiful cocks up my ass… What a marvellous feeling! I hope to remain a pussy virgin for life

That’s wonderful—I have no doubt that you’ll be able to achieve that goal and maintain your vaginal virginity if you love anal as much as you do.

Have you had any difficulty with guys who want vaginal sex as well or has everyone been enthusiastic about anal only? I know some women are as eager as you are about anal only but have a difficult time finding partners who are as satisfied as they are with just anal, but that seems to be somewhat age- and location-related, and others have no problem at all.

Thanks so much for sharing!

The original poster responded:

So far I’ve been pretty lucky in that 90% of the guys I’ve been interested in fucking have been more than willing, the ones that don’t are usually either happy to settle for a blow job/tit fucking, or I do something they want to do in exchange for them to fuck my ass… For example, one guy would only fuck me anally if I pissed on him, I thought it was a bit weird but hey anything for the anal 😉

That’s great, and a good example for other girls who have sometimes had difficulty with guys wanting more than anal and asking what to do. It sounds like you’ve got it well figured out and I’m sure you’ll have no problem at all keeping your pussy unused for life!

She again followed up:

Someone asked if I enema before anal, I do yes but I also stretch my asshole every night so it’s sort of a given for me to do one, and it usually happens before I do anal or stretch.

andaydaddy: Since you’re strictly an anal slut, you must have played with your ass a lot before you took your first cock.

saddlebacklady: I did! My parents discouraged me in the usual ways from vaginal sex and I grew rather attached to my hymen after reading one too many first time sex scenes in bad romance novels, but I was still curious about penetration so one thing led to another one day and I ended up going exploring with my fingers in the bath! It quickly became normal to me and now you’ve got this blog as a result!

Anonymous: plz tell me can a virgin get an anal orgasm– and squirt ? how is that ?

It is certainly possible for someone who has not had sex with a partner to orgasm from anal masturbation and to squirt. Everyone is different, however, and different people may need to approach it differently.

Some prefer to masturbate clitorally while incorporating anal stimulation at the same time to “transfer” some of the pleasure mentally to the anal stimulation and get to the point where you can get that pleasure entirely through anal. Others prefer to cease all vaginal and clitoral stimulation, at least for a time, to focus entirely on anal stimulation as their source of sexual pleasure.

There’s no reason someone can’t try both approaches and see which works best for them.

Hi, its great i found this site, because thought i’m only this kind. Ok, so here’s my story. Since my young days i felt sex is gross. I wasn’t keen in masturbation, actually haven’t tried it yet. Was a good girl. But one day when i was 23, i got little bit drunk and one of mine friends tricked me into pure anal stimulation. I din’t want him to stimulate my clitoris or vagina, because i was to shy, than he said: can i at least show you what your ass is worth? I was feeling there’s nothing gross, i don’t know why. So he did it with his finger. I felt it good. Later on i’ve had anal sex with some experienced guy. After few years of having anal time to time, i have felt my first orgasm. I’m 28 now, maybe i will have vaginal some day, but i think anal is the least stressful way for a girl to get comfortable with her intimacy.

Thanks for sharing your story! Starting with anal is a great way to go, I agree—no need to worry about hangups over pregnancy risk or keeping one’s vaginal virginity, and you can instead go straight to incredible pleasure and intimacy. There’s really no reason to ever bother with vaginal at this point, I would say, except for if you ever want to have children. Vaginal is for procreation, anal is for recreation.