Message: Do Women Hate Anal Because They Quit Before It Gets Good?
Anonymous: I’ve been told that the only reason some women say they don’t like anal is they quit after only about 30s. I hear that after just a minute or two it starts to feel really nice. I can’t believe people miss out by not even giving it a fair chance. Is this true?
While I can’t say whether those specifics are correct for everyone—that they’re giving up in under a minute and that it will always start feeling good after a couple minutes—it’s true that a lot of the people who have tried anal once or twice and then decided it sucks and isn’t something they like didn’t do it properly and didn’t give it a fair chance, and if they were to revisit it with an experienced partner or with an understanding of what’s involved in the process of enjoying anal, most people would very much enjoy it.