Message: Enjoying Anal With An Upset Stomach, & Dom Troubles
Anonymous: Hi! I’m the girl who had trouble doing anal play because of tummy trouble. I’ve found tricks for enjoying anal when my tum is upset: I focus on rubbing rather than penetrating, and I use gloves so my hand is perfectly smooth and slippery. I do have an issue, though, and it’s with my new Dom. He says anal doesn’t feel like much- like “a rubber band, and then a void.” So we do anal with fingers, toys, and his mouth, but not his cock. Is that okay? I’m scared I’m doing something wrong.
I’m glad you’ve found a way to still enjoy yourself anally!
Regarding your new Dom, some people just don’t enjoy anal as much as others do. If he’s willing to keep trying, you can experiment with massaging his cock with your anal muscles and see if he enjoys that. However, it could also just be that you are very tight and so your anal sphincter is what he feels the most and gets overpowered by rather than being able to enjoy the entirety of your rectum. Increasing your anal play to be able to relax the muscles more might help with that.
If not, then a compromise like you describe where anal play is a regular part of your sex life but not necessarily an exclusive part and not necessarily involving anal intercourse may be your best bet.
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