Message: Anal with IBS

Anonymous: My dominant and I really want to try anal, and I definitely want to explore it, but I have IBS and I’m so scared that I’m going to like have an accident or something… I know it’s unlikely but I worry about it so much. Also about not being completely clean.. I know my dominant wouldn’t care because, you are putting something in an out door, and he’s super understanding but I’m having trouble overcoming my own mental barriers and calming down enough to just do it! Any advice? 🙁

Practice on your own for a while to get more familiar with that part of yourself and what to expect. Yes, a mess might occasionally happen. But it’s not a big deal, and as you gain more experience you’ll see that it’s probably uncommon, not the end of the world if it does happen, and will also be able to better figure out when it might not be the best time to engage in anal play. Try fingering yourself in the shower for a while, experiment with a toy like a butt plug, and as you get more comfortable, try some non-intercourse anal play with your partner as well. Just approach it gradually and you’ll get more comfortable with the idea as you do so. And sometimes you’ll just have to accept that it’s not going to happen right then.

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