Message: How Going All‑In on Anal Saved My Marriage
Anonymous: Vaginal sex never felt good for me, and anal always felt wrong but deeply pleasurable.
We were not in sync in our life or in bed, and even though the few times we tried anal we felt incredibly united and intimate, I carried this heavy feeling that it was somehow a sin.The real turning point was my mindset shift: if something felt so good, loving, and connecting for us, maybe it wasn’t wrong at all. I decided to go all in on anal and on my sexuality, because I didn’t want to lose my marriage and I was done ignoring what actually worked for my body and our bond.
As we focused more on anal, I slowly started to explore my own body with more curiosity and less shame. I didn’t know what I was missing until now!
Then I discovered double anal. For the last three years I’ve been doing only double anal with a toy, and it has never felt better. I’m loving double anal and will never go back; it changed my life, my mood, and the way I experience intimacy with my husband. I am hooked!
I’m not saying this is for everyone, but for us, choosing what truly feels good and consensual has brought more freedom, connection, and joy than following someone else’s idea about what sex “should” look like.
For our anniversary I want to surprise my husband with a tattoo about “double anal” as a playful tribute to this journey, something slightly edgy or even a bit nasty, but meaningful to us but mostly to me. I want to stand by my passion. I think this is the right creative community that could help me, what ideas do you have for places and motives for a tattoo like this?
That’s wonderful you were able to embrace anal only, and now double anal only. It truly is the best, and everyone should be able to enjoy it freely. I’m glad you want to commemorate your commitment and lifestyle with a tattoo—it’s a very fun idea that I support!
A simple “double anal only” or “DAO” over your ass is one option. More symbolically, perhaps two “male” symbols (♂) with one “female” symbol (♀)—the male symbols could be angled in towards the circle of the female symbol, something like:
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