Message: Is Anal Gay?
Davie: I’m 19 and I love anal! I’ve had sex a few times and anal is by far the best. Wish I could have more sex without pussy, but most people aren’t into it. Whenever I bring it up with my bros, they say it’s gay. Is loving anal really gay? What’s wrong with being a guy that loves anal only?
Thank you for reaching out, and I’m glad you’re discovering what you truly enjoy early on. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a guy who loves anal only. You’ve even tried both and you know anal feels better.
Unfortunately, while we’ve made a lot of progress away from it, a lot of guys still cling to this idea that anal is “gay,” as if any kind of sex involving the ass is somehow gay because gay men often do it. Never mind that both women and men have buttholes! That’s insecurity talking, not logic. Do they think blowjobs are gay too?
If you’re a man who enjoys anal sex with women and prefers it over vaginal sex, that’s not gay. That’s just your taste. Just like some people love giving head or using toys or only doing it in certain positions, many—most—guys prefer the way it feels to fuck a woman’s ass.
Keep owning what you prefer, and find women who share that preference and will go anal only with you. It’s well worth it to stop fucking pussy altogether.
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